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TheShadow Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14218	Tue 04/29/08 09:38 AM
have ur wife/gf ever told you to be home when she wants you to and when you tell urfriends why u gtg she gets mad and says dont tell them that i dont want them to think im controling wtf do you do? Tell her to grow up your your own person.... easier said then done first comes the crying then yelling im not up for all that She's pregnant, right? HORMONES. Humor her. true Well this explains everything. YOUR F@ucked i know Ok ill get serious. My ex is having my child in the next two weeks and when i first moved out here she was going through changes. Yes there was more to it then the hormons, but i did what i needed to do for me. When she was in her moods id let her be untill she could actually talk to me. Sometimes you just have to listen and not give any answers. Thats is all she is looking for right now, is you to be there. Just be understanding. And that means you have to bite yout tongue at times. It will pass. Just qurious though. How long is she? like 2 weeks but she acts like she 6 months Hmm two weeks and ladies tell me if i'm wrong, but the hormons would not be there like if she was 6 months, There is more to this then just being pregnant. You need to sit down and have a talk with her...

SKPCG Joined Mon 03/03/08 Posts: 14708	Tue 04/29/08 09:42 AM
Capeoneog~~ You sound like a very nice caring young man. I'm betting you will be a great daddy and you obviously care about the mom. Best wishes to you all.

FallinAngel82 Joined Fri 01/26/07 Posts: 12261	Tue 04/29/08 09:44 AM
she's most likely not experiancing the hormones of a 6 month pregnant woman.. something else is probably bothering her.. i've been pregnant 3 times.. and i never had hormones like most women i cried alot more.. but anything did that even if i was happy sit down talk to her.. maybe she is scared because of the pregnancy perhaps she feels you wont be attracted to her when she gets bigger. there is something she needs to talk about but she might not know how to say it.. so sit with her.. talk to her..but make sure she knows that you love her and that she comes first in your life.. (untill baby comes then she is second lol)

caponeog Joined Tue 03/04/08 Posts: 370	Tue 04/29/08 09:45 AM
Capeoneog~~ You sound like a very nice caring young man. I'm betting you will be a great daddy and you obviously care about the mom. Best wishes to you all. i hope i am a good father and husband and thz you means so much to talk to someone who listens mother no chance why i get on here and talk

Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Tue 04/29/08 09:45 AM
I remember when I found out I was pregnant. I was happy and scared at the same time. Scared if I would be a good mom or not and scared about the future. Happy for my blessing of a child. And the hormones were hitting. After the realization of the situation sunk in, I started feeling better about everything and was just plain, ole happy. She might be scared about how she will be as a mom and what kind of father he is going to be. She needs to feel secure at a time like this and more so because she is so young.

caponeog Joined Tue 03/04/08 Posts: 370	Tue 04/29/08 09:46 AM
she's most likely not experiancing the hormones of a 6 month pregnant woman.. something else is probably bothering her.. i've been pregnant 3 times.. and i never had hormones like most women i cried alot more.. but anything did that even if i was happy sit down talk to her.. maybe she is scared because of the pregnancy perhaps she feels you wont be attracted to her when she gets bigger. there is something she needs to talk about but she might not know how to say it.. so sit with her.. talk to her..but make sure she knows that you love her and that she comes first in your life.. (untill baby comes then she is second lol) yea when she call me today she said sh gain weight but i said i luv u no matter what

caponeog Joined Tue 03/04/08 Posts: 370	Tue 04/29/08 09:47 AM
I remember when I found out I was pregnant. I was happy and scared at the same time. Scared if I would be a good mom or not and scared about the future. Happy for my blessing of a child. And the hormones were hitting. After the realization of the situation sunk in, I started feeling better about everything and was just plain, ole happy. She might be scared about how she will be as a mom and what kind of father he is going to be. She needs to feel secure at a time like this and more so because she is so young. im the young one shes 25 im not scared and i have no regrets but just wondering will i do better then my mother cuz she sucked at it

caponeog Joined Tue 03/04/08 Posts: 370	Tue 04/29/08 09:48 AM
she's most likely not experiancing the hormones of a 6 month pregnant woman.. something else is probably bothering her.. i've been pregnant 3 times.. and i never had hormones like most women i cried alot more.. but anything did that even if i was happy sit down talk to her.. maybe she is scared because of the pregnancy perhaps she feels you wont be attracted to her when she gets bigger. there is something she needs to talk about but she might not know how to say it.. so sit with her.. talk to her..but make sure she knows that you love her and that she comes first in your life.. (untill baby comes then she is second lol)OMG plz dont say that all she asks me is when the baby come will i come second and idk what to say but no dear you'll always be #1

FallinAngel82 Joined Fri 01/26/07 Posts: 12261	Tue 04/29/08 09:48 AM
she's most likely not experiancing the hormones of a 6 month pregnant woman.. something else is probably bothering her.. i've been pregnant 3 times.. and i never had hormones like most women i cried alot more.. but anything did that even if i was happy sit down talk to her.. maybe she is scared because of the pregnancy perhaps she feels you wont be attracted to her when she gets bigger. there is something she needs to talk about but she might not know how to say it.. so sit with her.. talk to her..but make sure she knows that you love her and that she comes first in your life.. (untill baby comes then she is second lol) yea when she call me today she said sh gain weight but i said i luv u no matter what k for starters.. a little hint.. dont tell her you love her no matter what when she tells you she has gained weight.. tell her that you love how she is helping your child grow strong.. might give her a good sence of accomplishment and lets her know you know she'll be a good mom

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Tue 04/29/08 09:49 AM
Is she your mom? If not it should be a mutually agreed time home, not an ordered one. I do not at all think it is unreasonable for her to want to know when you'll be back, but the time is not up to her. If my SO said he'd been in by 1:00am and I woke up at 2:00 and he was not home, I'd worry. That is inconsiderate. But she shouldn't be telling you when to be back and moreso not to tell your friends. She sounds a bit controlling and demanding. I should know, I've been that way myself (about other things)!

FallinAngel82 Joined Fri 01/26/07 Posts: 12261	Tue 04/29/08 09:50 AM
she is gonna have to realize once the baby comes the child comes first in both of your lives..

caponeog Joined Tue 03/04/08 Posts: 370	Tue 04/29/08 09:50 AM
she's most likely not experiancing the hormones of a 6 month pregnant woman.. something else is probably bothering her.. i've been pregnant 3 times.. and i never had hormones like most women i cried alot more.. but anything did that even if i was happy sit down talk to her.. maybe she is scared because of the pregnancy perhaps she feels you wont be attracted to her when she gets bigger. there is something she needs to talk about but she might not know how to say it.. so sit with her.. talk to her..but make sure she knows that you love her and that she comes first in your life.. (untill baby comes then she is second lol) yea when she call me today she said sh gain weight but i said i luv u no matter what k for starters.. a little hint.. dont tell her you love her no matter what when she tells you she has gained weight.. tell her that you love how she is helping your child grow strong.. might give her a good sence of accomplishment and lets her know you know she'll be a good mom all good ifo im taking notes

caponeog Joined Tue 03/04/08 Posts: 370	Tue 04/29/08 09:51 AM
Is she your mom? If not it should be a mutually agreed time home, not an ordered one. I do not at all think it is unreasonable for her to want to know when you'll be back, but the time is not up to her. If my SO said he'd been in by 1:00am and I woke up at 2:00 and he was not home, I'd worry. That is inconsiderate. But she shouldn't be telling you when to be back and moreso not to tell your friends. She sounds a bit controlling and demanding. I should know, I've been that way myself (about other things)! well i'll tell you why she wants me home early cuz of where i go to hang out is like really bad but where my family and friends are

caponeog Joined Tue 03/04/08 Posts: 370	Tue 04/29/08 09:52 AM
she is gonna have to realize once the baby comes the child comes first in both of your lives.. true she told me if i spend more time with the baby then her she'll get upset

caponeog Joined Tue 03/04/08 Posts: 370	Tue 04/29/08 09:53 AM
Is she your mom? If not it should be a mutually agreed time home, not an ordered one. I do not at all think it is unreasonable for her to want to know when you'll be back, but the time is not up to her. If my SO said he'd been in by 1:00am and I woke up at 2:00 and he was not home, I'd worry. That is inconsiderate. But she shouldn't be telling you when to be back and moreso not to tell your friends. She sounds a bit controlling and demanding. I should know, I've been that way myself (about other things)! well when my cell rings like 20 times they know who it is even if i dont tell them

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Tue 04/29/08 09:54 AM
ahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaa oh this reminds me of being young...... But you should want to go to her not because she wants you to....if she has to tell you to come home then maybe someone (YOU) needs to grow up a little, especially since your going to be a parent!

Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Tue 04/29/08 09:55 AM
she is gonna have to realize once the baby comes the child comes first in both of your lives.. true she told me if i spend more time with the baby then her she'll get upset That's her insecurity talking. It should change when the baby arrives. How often do you go out each week?

FallinAngel82 Joined Fri 01/26/07 Posts: 12261	Tue 04/29/08 09:55 AM
she is gonna have to realize once the baby comes the child comes first in both of your lives.. true she told me if i spend more time with the baby then her she'll get upset that aint right.. i flat out told my kids dads.. the child comes first.. i dont care if i'm having a heart attack if my kid is hungry leave me to die

caponeog Joined Tue 03/04/08 Posts: 370	Tue 04/29/08 09:56 AM
she is gonna have to realize once the baby comes the child comes first in both of your lives.. true she told me if i spend more time with the baby then her she'll get upset That's her insecurity talking. It should change when the baby arrives. How often do you go out each week? none just to see my family

caponeog Joined Tue 03/04/08 Posts: 370	Tue 04/29/08 09:57 AM
ahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaa oh this reminds me of being young...... But you should want to go to her not because she wants you to....if she has to tell you to come home then maybe someone (YOU) needs to grow up a little, especially since your going to be a parent! true