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Topic: happy anniversary
buttons's photo
Fri 05/02/08 09:23 AM
Edited by buttons on Fri 05/02/08 09:24 AM
just a question.. input welcome from both female and males... curious as to how important it is for you to remember your anniversary of being together? <not being married> do you celebrate 1 yr? or do you just mention it to the other half? or do u just forget it all together? does it mean that the person u are with is more or less important to you if you just forget it?

franshade's photo
Fri 05/02/08 09:25 AM

just a question.. input welcome from both female and males... curious as to how important it is for you to remember your anniversary of being together? <not being married> do you celebrate 1 yr? or do you just mention it to the other half? or do u just forget it all together? does it mean that the person u are with is more or less important to you if you just forget it?


worst person to ask, I dont keep a log nor am I good at remembering dates like annivs, etc...

I try but figure it's best to show I care daily than yearly flowerforyou

no photo
Fri 05/02/08 09:25 AM
My boss' husband not only recalls the wedding anniversary date, but the date he met her....... :heart: :heart: :heart: After all these years........ He celebrates that day as much as the anniversary..... :heart: :heart: :heart:

buttons's photo
Fri 05/02/08 09:26 AM
so skp it seems important to u then?

no photo
Fri 05/02/08 09:28 AM

so skp it seems important to u then?


I think it's super sweet...... I would hope that someone found me to be such a super monumentally fine person, and vice versa, as to remember the day we met. But alas, I am doomed to be a cat lady...... drinker

No1sLove's photo
Fri 05/02/08 09:31 AM
It's nice, but not the biggest deal in the world if he's busy and forgets...as long as he makes it up to me later. bigsmile

buttons's photo
Fri 05/02/08 09:32 AM
laugh now what if he forgets your birthday?

no photo
Fri 05/02/08 09:37 AM
I think it means you care a lot about the person if you can remember dates.

franshade's photo
Fri 05/02/08 09:39 AM

I think it means you care a lot about the person if you can remember dates.


would that mean a person (like myself) who rarely can get bdays straight, cares less???

buttons's photo
Fri 05/02/08 09:45 AM
but if u are a person whom does remember birthdays even friends birthdays...say other guys birthdays... and forget to wish your own bf happy birthday? this is what we are talking about here....flowerforyou

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Fri 05/02/08 09:45 AM
I think it means you care a lot about the person if you can remember dates.
would that mean a person (like myself) who rarely can get bdays straight, cares less???
What you cant put the dates on your calander?

buttons's photo
Fri 05/02/08 09:46 AM
to me this is a signal of unimportance....and when u know your own daughters birthday is your anniversary and arent with her on that day u just forget your partners? anniversary or birthday?

franshade's photo
Fri 05/02/08 09:47 AM
Edited by franshade on Fri 05/02/08 09:48 AM

I think it means you care a lot about the person if you can remember dates.
would that mean a person (like myself) who rarely can get bdays straight, cares less???
What you cant put the dates on your calander?


I chose not to - rather show daily than yearly. My choice ...

franshade's photo
Fri 05/02/08 09:48 AM
Edited by franshade on Fri 05/02/08 09:51 AM

to me this is a signal of unimportance....and when u know your own daughters birthday is your anniversary and arent with her on that day u just forget your partners? anniversary or birthday?


disagree, point I am making is why wait to celebrate things on a yearly basis, why not show love daily vs yearly.

Just my opinion... no signs of unimportance on my part flowerforyou

buttons's photo
Fri 05/02/08 09:50 AM
and nothing wrong with thatflowerforyou flowerforyou that why i asked....... was curious...drinker

franshade's photo
Fri 05/02/08 09:51 AM

and nothing wrong with thatflowerforyou flowerforyou that why i asked....... was curious...drinker


cool - have a great weekend! drinker

Dragoness's photo
Fri 05/02/08 09:54 AM

My boss' husband not only recalls the wedding anniversary date, but the date he met her....... :heart: :heart: :heart: After all these years........ He celebrates that day as much as the anniversary..... :heart: :heart: :heart:


Wow, it means something to himflowerforyou

Dragoness's photo
Fri 05/02/08 09:55 AM
I can be forgetful myself but I like to remember important dates, it shows you think of another person, to me anyway.

auburngirl's photo
Fri 05/02/08 02:40 PM
I remember dates well. My anniversary, (Which oddly enough would be today) was something we always remembered, but then we were married.

Since, I have dated one person long enough to have 2 anniversaries and yes we marked them...went to dinner.

flowerforyou Buttons

buttons's photo
Fri 05/02/08 03:26 PM
isnt that why one says we have been married for 11 yrs and been together 15?laugh laugh cause it seemed important to them and ive heard guys and gals both say that...:smile:

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