Topic: When
itsmetina's photo
Sat 05/10/08 10:39 AM
considering a relationship how much does the person being good in bed factor in?

FearandLoathing's photo
Sat 05/10/08 10:39 AM
Little to none. Not going to base a relationship entirely around sex, hell probably not going to base it at all off sex.

andreajayne's photo
Sat 05/10/08 10:40 AM
I think it's a big factor, if someone can't satisfy all of your needs, then it's not worth it. When looking for the right one, everything has to be right or else you'll dwell on the bad things.

robert1652's photo
Sat 05/10/08 10:40 AM

considering a relationship how much does the person being good in bed factor in?

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Etrain's photo
Sat 05/10/08 10:41 AM
very importantdrinker drinker

robert1652's photo
Sat 05/10/08 10:42 AM

I agree with FandL. Like woody allen said, bad sex is still pretty good.

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DestinysDream's photo
Sat 05/10/08 10:42 AM
I can teach. If she is open to learning is the only question.

For that reason, pretty high. We each need to learn from one another. Not only in bed but throughout our lives. If she closes that part down then it may be fatal to the relationship.

No1sLove's photo
Sat 05/10/08 10:44 AM
Edited by No1sLove on Sat 05/10/08 10:45 AM
I think the ability to be open in the bedroom is more important than skill itself...one can always learn their partners preferences.

If they can't open up during intimacy, I think it says a lot about their comfort level with you in general.

bobdesigns4262's photo
Sat 05/10/08 10:44 AM
there is life other than sex? since when?

no photo
Sat 05/10/08 10:46 AM
there is sooo much more that has to "be there" before sex..

THEN it becomes a Factor........smokin

DestinysDream's photo
Sat 05/10/08 10:48 AM

I think the ability to be open in the bedroom is more important than skill itself...one can always learn their partners preferences.

If they can't open up during intimacy, I think it says a lot about their comfort level with you in general.


Exactly. flowerforyou Its not the act itself, it's what goes on around it. drinker

MsCarmen's photo
Sat 05/10/08 10:48 AM
Being that I'm 37 and the age range that I prefer, I would hope to God that they have enough experience that I don't have to teach them anything. So I have to say it's very important.

And the "bad sex is better then no sex". I beg to differ. I'd rather have no sex at all then bad sex. Besides, that's what they make toys for. :wink: :wink:

Tanzkity's photo
Sat 05/10/08 11:07 AM
Oh yeah sex is important, if it wasnt then people wouldnt cheat so much cuz their partners dont want to do it or have no skills on doing it............im all for teaching but if that person isnt responsive then its no use.................

itsmetina's photo
Sat 05/10/08 11:19 AM
agreeing rather have no sex than bad sex

no photo
Sat 05/10/08 11:25 AM
it's fairly important. being with someone who can't satisfy my needs is not going to last too long.

seahawks's photo
Sat 05/10/08 11:26 AM

there is life other than sex? since when?
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no photo
Sat 05/10/08 11:27 AM

I think the ability to be open in the bedroom is more important than skill itself...one can always learn their partners preferences.

If they can't open up during intimacy, I think it says a lot about their comfort level with you in general.


i agree with this.

no photo
Sat 05/10/08 11:41 AM

considering a relationship how much does the person being good in bed factor in?
WEll you usually find out after you have considered a relationship. I think it takes a few tries before you get comfortable enough with that person to get everything right!!bigsmile drinker

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seahawks's photo
Sat 05/10/08 11:43 AM
well someone wanna test me out.!!!laugh laugh

No1sLove's photo
Sat 05/10/08 11:45 AM


I think the ability to be open in the bedroom is more important than skill itself...one can always learn their partners preferences.

If they can't open up during intimacy, I think it says a lot about their comfort level with you in general.


Exactly. flowerforyou Its not the act itself, it's what goes on around it. drinker
Hi ya (((Dream man)))! flowerforyou Careful what you're teaching those ladies darlin'! tehehehe!