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Topic: may be the end, not too sure
stevenpwis's photo
Fri 05/16/08 02:44 PM
Alright, here's the deal, my "girlfriend" and I have been seeing each other for a little over 4 months, haven't really seen each other but twice for a half hour each time in the past month. She goes to school to get her masters and works about 30 hours a week. I have no problem, but she seems to think that I do. It would be nice to see her more, but her school work should be her number one priority right now. If we are in for a long term relationship, things will work out, once she is done with school we would see each other more. But here is my thing right now, she was supposed to call me tonight before she drove out to the airport to pick up her friend, we were going to talk about whether to end it or keep it going. She didn't tell me when she was going to call whether early evening or later evening, so I am getting a little nervous, don't know if she forgot about me or if the flight is late. Should I send her a text asking when she is driving out to the airport?

jedigirl's photo
Fri 05/16/08 02:46 PM
you dont EVEN want to know my opinion....gl with all thatflowerforyou

DebbieJT's photo
Fri 05/16/08 02:47 PM
shes probably chatting to her friend about you hun and other stuff and is excited to see her friend..i would leave it and chill let her get in touch with you

James1234567's photo
Fri 05/16/08 02:48 PM



dont wont to be negative, but I say move on, plenty more out there, Id find another and not worry about, lifes too short to worry. drinker drinker

dae11x's photo
Fri 05/16/08 02:48 PM
Edited by dae11x on Fri 05/16/08 02:49 PM
I say give don't call.

James1234567's photo
Fri 05/16/08 02:49 PM
yeah, I agree with Debbie too. drinker glasses

franshade's photo
Fri 05/16/08 02:49 PM
I wouldn't text nor call but that just my opinion.

Wait for her to contact you, she may be chatting it up w/her friend or waiting like you mentioned at airport.

have a great weekend.flowerforyou

cutelildevilsmom's photo
Fri 05/16/08 02:50 PM
i would wait for her to call you.go get a pizza.

Duchess_Athena's photo
Fri 05/16/08 02:53 PM
i am a full time student myself and if I had someone bugging me about weather to end it or not I would end it. If you want to keep her stop bugging her about if the realationship is on or off. And stop bugging her about spending more time with you she is working and going to school be happy you get time at all.:angry: :angry: devil devil drinker drinker drinker have a drink and right her a letter about how much you love her and are sorry for pressuring her if you really love her

stevenpwis's photo
Fri 05/16/08 02:54 PM

i am a full time student myself and if I had someone bugging me about weather to end it or not I would end it. If you want to keep her stop bugging her about if the realationship is on or off. And stop bugging her about spending more time with you she is working and going to school be happy you get time at all.:angry: :angry: devil devil drinker drinker drinker have a drink and right her a letter about how much you love her and are sorry for pressuring her if you really love her


it's not me, she is the one who mentioned it...she said she feels bad that she doesn't give me any time.

jedigirl's photo
Fri 05/16/08 02:57 PM
Never miss a good chance to shut up.bigsmile
seriously!

Jill298's photo
Fri 05/16/08 02:57 PM

I say give don't call.
I agree

ljcc1964's photo
Fri 05/16/08 02:57 PM
Geez....

delvony's photo
Fri 05/16/08 03:04 PM
Dont call, hey if she cant be with sumone as kool as u are, u will certainly find sumone who will apprecaite u more and make time the word is make time, we all are busy and can give a million excuses why we cant do this or dat, so if she cant make time,now dat the rel's is new,she will never make time...keep searching u will find the right one, all the best though :)

Citizen_Joe's photo
Fri 05/16/08 04:00 PM

30 hours a week. I have no problem, but she seems to think that I do. It would be nice to see her more, but her school


What kind of problem does she think you have?

stevenpwis's photo
Fri 05/16/08 04:03 PM

How odd that you would schedule a time to discuss whether or not to end it.

It seems that if either of you had thoughts on that, it would be discussed while you made that time to arrange to discuss it.

Since you say you are fine with the arrangement as is, why are there plans to discuss it? I mean its obviously her issue. She should just email you between classes if shes gotta.

You are the worlds most patient guy Steven.


we were talking on instant messenger and that's not somewhere to discuss something like that, I actually believe it should be talked about in person, but if phone is all she can do then that is how we are going to talk about it.

franshade's photo
Fri 05/16/08 04:06 PM

Why is talking about breaking up not ok on instant messenger but ok on the phone?




on phone there are no typos laugh

stevenpwis's photo
Fri 05/16/08 04:16 PM

You fall for difficult women Steven. It seems to be your lot in life.

My fingers are crossed that the worm will turn for you soon.


indeed i do, and thanks, hopefully things will turn for the better. I'm too good of a person for games

Jill298's photo
Fri 05/16/08 04:18 PM
Edited by Jill298 on Fri 05/16/08 04:19 PM


i am a full time student myself and if I had someone bugging me about weather to end it or not I would end it. If you want to keep her stop bugging her about if the realationship is on or off. And stop bugging her about spending more time with you she is working and going to school be happy you get time at all.:angry: :angry: devil devil drinker drinker drinker have a drink and right her a letter about how much you love her and are sorry for pressuring her if you really love her


it's not me, she is the one who mentioned it...she said she feels bad that she doesn't give me any time.
I say she's using it as an excuse to make her feel better... If you are willing to deal with her being busy all the time and you are ok with it, why is she feeling so guilty about it that she thinks you should break up? Because it's so unfair to you...??huh huh

bastet126's photo
Fri 05/16/08 04:20 PM
didn't you post this like last week, and the week before that? move on already!! flowerforyou

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