Topic: if you??
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Sun 05/25/08 05:06 PM
it has taken me a 11 years and I got to laught in my doctors face laugh but be up front if he truly loves you it will work out flowerforyou beside children really changes your life as we know it lots of men now days don't want children or have started at a young age and have them..and you can adopt if he wants children that bad..

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Sun 05/25/08 05:06 PM

had a illness like me called endometriosis, and it can reduce your chances of getting pregnant, how soon would you tell a man that if he was interested in you??

means double time for having sex............:wink: :wink: :wink:

Winx's photo
Sun 05/25/08 05:06 PM



Second date.


i mean before the dating part, like on email IF i did meet someone??


i have no experience in this area, but i don't think this would be an email conversation. personally, if it were me, i would see where things were going and have this conversation before things got serious.


I agree.

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Sun 05/25/08 05:06 PM

you dont have to spell out what medical problems you have just let them know that you could have a very hard time getting pregnant.
if you tell some too soon they are going to be thinking they can try for sex any time they want. because of your medical problems. that would be the users


i didnt think of that, but yes your right.

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Sun 05/25/08 05:08 PM



My ex-wife had this, we tryed for years before we could have a child. If you are serious with the other person and he is interested in having children you need to be up front with him from the beginning.


how many years did it take for your ex wife to get pregnant??

We both had to be tested to find out if it was me or her with the problem, they found it was her and did a operation, then put her on steriods or something like this. I guess we tried 3 or 4 years before we had our daughter.


congrats on getting your baby, its my dream to have a baby, if i cant, then i dont know what i would do. :cry:

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Sun 05/25/08 05:09 PM
I mean don't get a sandwich board but if you actually go out and like him, tell him right away.

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Sun 05/25/08 05:09 PM
i don't think your medical history or situation is something you need to talk about, until you are serious....
my opinionohwell ohwell


Fair???? we don't use that word in our house laugh laugh



why tell them??? at all....

ummmmm. ok ..right after the engagement ring is presented....and before you say , yes


dont you think its only fair to tell him?

Winx's photo
Sun 05/25/08 05:09 PM




My ex-wife had this, we tryed for years before we could have a child. If you are serious with the other person and he is interested in having children you need to be up front with him from the beginning.


how many years did it take for your ex wife to get pregnant??

We both had to be tested to find out if it was me or her with the problem, they found it was her and did a operation, then put her on steriods or something like this. I guess we tried 3 or 4 years before we had our daughter.


congrats on getting your baby, its my dream to have a baby, if i cant, then i dont know what i would do. :cry:


My Aunt has endo. She received hormone shots and implantation.
She got pregnant.

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Sun 05/25/08 05:11 PM

i don't think your medical history or situation is something you need to talk about, until you are serious....
my opinionohwell ohwell


Fair???? we don't use that word in our house laugh laugh



why tell them??? at all....

ummmmm. ok ..right after the engagement ring is presented....and before you say , yes


dont you think its only fair to tell him?



thankyou.flowerforyou

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Sun 05/25/08 05:12 PM

had a illness like me called endometriosis, and it can reduce your chances of getting pregnant, how soon would you tell a man that if he was interested in you??


I'd first make sure if said man was interested in having kids, first. Some people out there just aren't interested in having kids for whatever reason there is.

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Sun 05/25/08 05:12 PM


had a illness like me called endometriosis, and it can reduce your chances of getting pregnant, how soon would you tell a man that if he was interested in you??

means double time for having sex............:wink: :wink: :wink:


it sure does, they said when i do want a child to have plenty of practising, then my chnaces are higher.

Tankk's photo
Sun 05/25/08 05:12 PM


had a illness like me called endometriosis, and it can reduce your chances of getting pregnant, how soon would you tell a man that if he was interested in you??


I'd first make sure if said man was interested in having kids, first. Some people out there just aren't interested in having kids for whatever reason there is.

Like me....flowerforyou

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Sun 05/25/08 05:13 PM





My ex-wife had this, we tryed for years before we could have a child. If you are serious with the other person and he is interested in having children you need to be up front with him from the beginning.


how many years did it take for your ex wife to get pregnant??

We both had to be tested to find out if it was me or her with the problem, they found it was her and did a operation, then put her on steriods or something like this. I guess we tried 3 or 4 years before we had our daughter.


congrats on getting your baby, its my dream to have a baby, if i cant, then i dont know what i would do. :cry:


My Aunt has endo. She received hormone shots and implantation.
She got pregnant.


thats lovely. flowerforyou flowerforyou

so if i had hormone shots or ivf, would i have a good chnace then??

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Sun 05/25/08 05:13 PM


Second date.


i mean before the dating part, like on email IF i did meet someone??
That way you could see his expression.

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Sun 05/25/08 05:13 PM



had a illness like me called endometriosis, and it can reduce your chances of getting pregnant, how soon would you tell a man that if he was interested in you??


I'd first make sure if said man was interested in having kids, first. Some people out there just aren't interested in having kids for whatever reason there is.

Like me....flowerforyou


you dont want children, why??

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Sun 05/25/08 05:13 PM
I don't think you say hi my name is Debbie its hard for me to get pregnant[which might be a plus to some men]whenever the subject comes up or you think he's seriousflowerforyou

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Sun 05/25/08 05:14 PM

I don't think you say hi my name is Debbie its hard for me to get pregnant[which might be a plus to some men]whenever the subject comes up or you think he's seriousflowerforyou


i dont mean straight away like that, i mean do i tell him in a few weeks time, or just wait and see what happens with the relationship first?

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Sun 05/25/08 05:16 PM




had a illness like me called endometriosis, and it can reduce your chances of getting pregnant, how soon would you tell a man that if he was interested in you??


I'd first make sure if said man was interested in having kids, first. Some people out there just aren't interested in having kids for whatever reason there is.

Like me....flowerforyou


you dont want children, why??


My reason is as follows-

I've gone through a rather turbulent childhood, and the absolute LAST thing I would want to do is perpetuate history by putting any offspring of mine through the same kind of crap I've had to endure. I would rather not have kids than go through the ignominy of having to explain to them why mommy and daddy are getting divorced, etc.


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Sun 05/25/08 05:16 PM
don't be upset Deb, if you really want kids adopt them you can love them the same believe me I use to cry alot and I wanted a big family, but was lucky to have two and they told me no more or the two I have would not have a Mom at all.. or you can have my kids..:smile: I'll pack them up :wink:

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Sun 05/25/08 05:16 PM




My ex-wife had this, we tryed for years before we could have a child. If you are serious with the other person and he is interested in having children you need to be up front with him from the beginning.


how many years did it take for your ex wife to get pregnant??

We both had to be tested to find out if it was me or her with the problem, they found it was her and did a operation, then put her on steriods or something like this. I guess we tried 3 or 4 years before we had our daughter.


congrats on getting your baby, its my dream to have a baby, if i cant, then i dont know what i would do. :cry:


With today advances in the medical field there are things that can be done to solve the problem. Talk to doctors, and if you don't agree with what they say get second and third opinion. It can be done, you can have a child.