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Topic: relationship question needed
Queene123's photo
Thu 05/29/08 08:16 PM
there is this guy that i have been talking to and i decided that i wanted to see more info so i type his sn in google and i came across a few other websites, where it states that he was looking for bi's or gay men.

would you question this before even consider meeting him, and if he was would you go out with someone that was bi-sexual???

we have alot in common and im waiting for him to email back and tell me this is not so. and if it true, which i feel it is.. then i cant see myself even wanting to meet up with him...

im not against gays as i have a friend of mine that is gay and i have 2 cousins that are gay. but im not about to date anyone that is bi

crazy_lover's photo
Thu 05/29/08 08:18 PM
i wouldnt either

Fade2Black's photo
Thu 05/29/08 08:18 PM

there is this guy that i have been talking to and i decided that i wanted to see more info so i type his sn in google and i came across a few other websites, where it states that he was looking for bi's or gay men.

would you question this before even consider meeting him, and if he was would you go out with someone that was bi-sexual???

we have alot in common and im waiting for him to email back and tell me this is not so. and if it true, which i feel it is.. then i cant see myself even wanting to meet up with him...

im not against gays as i have a friend of mine that is gay and i have 2 cousins that are gay. but im not about to date anyone that is bi


I wouldn't go there .. nope

Fade2Black's photo
Thu 05/29/08 08:19 PM
plus it would bother me he hadn't of shared that info with you .. that's HUGE

It's not like whether he as a dog or not, or if he likes Pepsi or Coke .. yanno glasses

no photo
Thu 05/29/08 08:20 PM
I wouldn't, but some don't care. Are you sure though? How much info do you have with "that" screen name? Could there be others with that one?

I didn't even know you could do that, I gotta try it.huh

LIJOMA's photo
Thu 05/29/08 08:20 PM
Oh my, If it were known that the man was gay or bi, then I personally would not date him, however this day and time there is alot of that going on on the DL, so u may just be with a man, who is with another wo-man, and you not even know it anyway. Good luck whatever you decide to do.

poohbearface19's photo
Thu 05/29/08 08:20 PM
i woulndt eithier all thught u have lots in common hey bi is better then just simply gay i used too be crazy for a guy until i found out he was gay.......................................................relaly hurt me........he explained me.........everything and said sorry

Queene123's photo
Thu 05/29/08 08:21 PM

plus it would bother me he hadn't of shared that info with you .. that's HUGE

It's not like whether he as a dog or not, or if he likes Pepsi or Coke .. yanno glasses


i did a reading on him and i saw alot of secert hidden areas and i email the reading to him, feeling he may open up or something and at the end i ask if he was bi

no photo
Thu 05/29/08 08:21 PM
Edited by melissaaaa on Thu 05/29/08 08:24 PM
My opinion on this is he should have told you this to begin with. The nice thing about these sites is you can be completely honest. This helps a person to avoid getting involved with someone that isnt right for them and wasting all that time. If what you found is true and he did not tell you this then you have to wonder what else he has not told you.

LIJOMA's photo
Thu 05/29/08 08:24 PM

My opinion on this is he should have told you this to begin with. The nice thing about these sites is you can be completely honest. This helps a person to avoid getting involved with someone that isnt right for another and wasting all that time. If what you found is true and he did not tell you this then you have to wonder what else he has not told you.



I have met and went out with 3 men on this site, and none of them were honest with me from the start, looking at their pics.... So yes, you CAN BE COMPLETELY HONEST, but some people arent...grumble

Max_Darkling's photo
Thu 05/29/08 08:28 PM
Hell no they are to strange. jmo

Queene123's photo
Thu 05/29/08 08:28 PM

My opinion on this is he should have told you this to begin with. The nice thing about these sites is you can be completely honest. This helps a person to avoid getting involved with someone that isnt right for them and wasting all that time. If what you found is true and he did not tell you this then you have to wonder what else he has not told you.


he wasent from this site

no photo
Thu 05/29/08 08:29 PM
That is so sad that people would waste time lieing. I would rather be straight up from the start to avoid wasting time. You would think everyone else would be also. As far as I know people are here looking for something real. People who cant be honest are far from real and just a waste.

bgeorge's photo
Thu 05/29/08 08:33 PM

there is this guy that i have been talking to and i decided that i wanted to see more info so i type his sn in google and i came across a few other websites, where it states that he was looking for bi's or gay men.

would you question this before even consider meeting him, and if he was would you go out with someone that was bi-sexual???

we have alot in common and im waiting for him to email back and tell me this is not so. and if it true, which i feel it is.. then i cant see myself even wanting to meet up with him...

im not against gays as i have a friend of mine that is gay and i have 2 cousins that are gay. but im not about to date anyone that is bi

gay guys are great fun cuz they're like guy girlfriends...and ususally really cute and fun to shop and hang out w/...but definitely not dating material...i personally wouldn't even q him about it...you'll never know if he's telling the truth or not and that's no way to start a relationship...throw him back he's not a keeper...and have fun hooking the next oneflowerforyou :heart: flowerforyou

No1sLove's photo
Thu 05/29/08 08:37 PM
I only go one way and want my partner to be going my way. bigsmile

no photo
Thu 05/29/08 08:41 PM
It seems you answered your own question. NEXT!

Citizen_Joe's photo
Fri 05/30/08 01:18 AM

would you question this before even consider meeting him, and if he was would you go out with someone that was bi-sexual???


You might be underestimating his sexuality. He might be a tri-sexual. You are considering having him tri you out, right?

laugh laugh laugh laugh

boneyjoe's photo
Fri 05/30/08 01:27 AM
awwwww joe,,,,,,she is trying to get it straight,,,,,,,,but she got a curve ball rite off th get go,,,,,,she has to make up herown mind what she wants

no photo
Fri 05/30/08 01:32 AM
Edited by Gypsy41 on Fri 05/30/08 01:33 AM
hmmmmmmmm sn ???? Could it be the same or the wrong guy?? Is said picture attached to profile? Do you have any idea how many people in the world have the same screen name as YOU???huh

LouLou2's photo
Fri 05/30/08 03:02 AM
Kind of difficult to compete with another man...tough enough to compete with women...

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