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Topic: The Good Stuff
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Wed 06/25/08 10:29 PM
Ya know, I've been around a bit, been married and divorced twice, had my bad relationships and bad dates along the way. scared What I've come to realize physical attraction and sex draws us together initially and keeps us together for a while, but it's the things about us that touch another's heart, inspires our souls, that ultimately makes us chose a partner. Physical attraction/sex does not sustain us for the long haul. It is the substance in each of us that we have to offer one another that gets us chosen as a keeper. That's what I want now, the substance that lasts the long haul....the good stuff....

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Wed 06/25/08 10:30 PM
You are so totally rockin right, Sista!!!

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Wed 06/25/08 10:31 PM
I would like to touch your heart. love

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Wed 06/25/08 10:32 PM
Great post!

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Wed 06/25/08 10:32 PM

You are so totally rockin right, Sista!!!


Thanks, hon! flowerforyou

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Wed 06/25/08 10:33 PM

I would like to touch your heart. love


love

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Wed 06/25/08 10:33 PM
flowerforyou :wink: flowerforyou

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Wed 06/25/08 10:33 PM

Great post!


(((Littlredhen))))flowerforyou

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Wed 06/25/08 10:34 PM

flowerforyou :wink: flowerforyou


(((cy))) flowerforyou

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Wed 06/25/08 10:34 PM
There's a lot of truth to that!flowerforyou

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Wed 06/25/08 10:35 PM

There's a lot of truth to that!flowerforyou


(((Bronco)))flowerforyou

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Wed 06/25/08 10:43 PM
I'm sure many of us have had people in our lives who do it for us in the bedroom, but want I want is someone who also does it for me beyond the bedroom...

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Wed 06/25/08 10:46 PM
you know I have heard people talk about this alot... there has been so many drunken debates at parties... but might I say I think you hit the nail on top of the head... and put it beautifully too... I agree...

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Wed 06/25/08 10:59 PM

you know I have heard people talk about this alot... there has been so many drunken debates at parties... but might I say I think you hit the nail on top of the head... and put it beautifully too... I agree...




(((grimdude))) flowerforyou Thanks, hon.

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Wed 06/25/08 11:45 PM

Ya know, I've been around a bit, been married and divorced twice, had my bad relationships and bad dates along the way. scared What I've come to realize physical attraction and sex draws us together initially and keeps us together for a while, but it's the things about us that touch another's heart, inspires our souls, that ultimately makes us chose a partner. Physical attraction/sex does not sustain us for the long haul. It is the substance in each of us that we have to offer one another that gets us chosen as a keeper. That's what I want now, the substance that lasts the long haul....the good stuff....


I was thinking about this a couple days ago, and I couldn't have put it better myself....because I spent years in 3-month relationships that were fun initially, but became tedious very quickly. No deeper connection. It took me awhile to figure out that what I was really looking for was something with a bit more substance....!!

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Thu 06/26/08 12:02 AM
And I thought the good stuff was the cream filling in the middle of an Oreo...:thumbsup:

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Thu 06/26/08 12:03 AM

Ya know, I've been around a bit, been married and divorced twice, had my bad relationships and bad dates along the way. scared What I've come to realize physical attraction and sex draws us together initially and keeps us together for a while, but it's the things about us that touch another's heart, inspires our souls, that ultimately makes us chose a partner. Physical attraction/sex does not sustain us for the long haul. It is the substance in each of us that we have to offer one another that gets us chosen as a keeper. That's what I want now, the substance that lasts the long haul....the good stuff....
I heard that Sears has a sale on the good stuff but you have to bring in 2 friends....bigsmile drinker

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Thu 06/26/08 12:17 AM

Ya know, I've been around a bit, been married and divorced twice, had my bad relationships and bad dates along the way. scared What I've come to realize physical attraction and sex draws us together initially and keeps us together for a while, but it's the things about us that touch another's heart, inspires our souls, that ultimately makes us chose a partner. Physical attraction/sex does not sustain us for the long haul. It is the substance in each of us that we have to offer one another that gets us chosen as a keeper. That's what I want now, the substance that lasts the long haul....the good stuff....


hhmmmmm kewl post...flowers
wonder where one finds this good stuff at..


can i buy it on ebay??think







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Thu 06/26/08 07:07 AM

I was thinking about this a couple days ago, and I couldn't have put it better myself....because I spent years in 3-month relationships that were fun initially, but became tedious very quickly. No deeper connection. It took me awhile to figure out that what I was really looking for was something with a bit more substance....!!

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Very well said. It is the stuff that happens beyond the bedroom that gives our relationships strength and character, substance to build upon. Sex is just the icing.

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Thu 06/26/08 07:14 AM

Ya know, I've been around a bit, been married and divorced twice, had my bad relationships and bad dates along the way. scared What I've come to realize physical attraction and sex draws us together initially and keeps us together for a while, but it's the things about us that touch another's heart, inspires our souls, that ultimately makes us chose a partner. Physical attraction/sex does not sustain us for the long haul. It is the substance in each of us that we have to offer one another that gets us chosen as a keeper. That's what I want now, the substance that lasts the long haul....the good stuff....

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