OK I dated this guy I met steady for about a month, and he is a complete
bore, so here I am again lol!! I tried really hard to see if it would
change and it didnt, Bummer as he was so nice and great looking. To old
to wait around for something that isnt there.
Do you all dump men pretty fast when they are boring?

LOL you know, I always give them a chance...you never know maybe you can
bring them out of it? Did you really try to make him be the life of the
party? Was he older then you? It seems to me that the older guys are the
boring ones---now I know I am going to get ripped on this one!!
I just seem to get a long with the younger ones, they seem to be more
fun

He was a year older then I am, There were just some things about it that
were petty but BUGGED the **** out of me. His laugh and his damn colonge
(SP) smelled like Shi^. But I tried and it was kind of fun when it
lasted, that gosh I didnt have sex with him HAHAHAHA!

I HAVE GOT RID OF A GUY DUE TO HIM BORING THE HELL OUT OF ME. BUT WHAT I
DECIDED TO DO WAS START BORING HIM TO LET HIM SEE WHAT I FELT. AND MAN O
MAN DID HE GET THE HINT. THEN HE KINDA GOT LOOSE AND WANTED TO TRY
HARDER. NEEDLESS TO SAY I MARRIED HIM A YEAR LATER. HA'HA' ITS COOL GIRL
IF IT AINT FOR YOU THEN LEAVE BUT SOMETIMES YOU HAVE TO MAKE LEMONADE
WITH THE LEMONS.

Well I don't have a problem dumping men real quick LOL. But if the
chemistry isn't there then it isn't there, right. One thing I've learned
& still sometimes screw it up , is to go by your gut instints.

You gave him a chance which is what I would have done. But I've found
that if he's boring you at the beginning then chances are he's not the
right one. Good luck in your search!

BORING SUCKS!! Doesn't it? Some folks need a date or two to loosen up.
If he hasn't livened up by now....

eeyyy Shagna, you took the words right out of my mouth. Today he proved
not to be there when needed...now he's a gonner. Yea for me! think
i'll go get a pizza and a decent movie.

I want pizza. :O( I had grilled chicken and veggies instead. :O(
I look at it this way, I am 36 and why settle?? NO WAY been there dont
that! I would rather be single then with someone I am not compatible
with. Dont you agree ladies!

You are still a young fantastic woman! Do Not Settle!!! Be Happy!!!
These guys are fun for awhile, but then they get comfortable and expect
too much. this one drank my wine, ate my food, had the heat turned up
constantly (thanks for the gas bill!!!) and drove my car when his died.
In his defense, he painted my garage door and changed my light fixtures.
But still. I think the older we all get, the more baggage too, kids and
bills and higher expectations. We don't want to settle like we did in
our younger years - heck, the goal was a date on Saturday night in high
school, didn't matter with who! Now it does matter -

I have shagna..if im not into him, why bother..theres plenty more,
darlin..hang tight..

Shagna I agree I have been there several times this past year and I am
happier single than coping with something that isn't there.

I actually enjoy being single~ I can still enjoy my "friend" now
hahahah!

I ENJOY THE FREEDOM... AND THE MONEY...

I never take up a lot of money lol, I am a cheap date, coffee is always
fun for me, Dont get me wrong I do like the flowers on occassion!

hello shagna,, was up girl,,,
stay here and check out the guys, we have some new hot guys on
the list girl!!!!

I might be a little slow on the online thing.. but I don't think I could
ever be described as boring.

Shanga,

Whats 'boring' - give us the warning signs.

good analogy miko

If he's a bore, politely walk away. Don't ever just settle !!!
Keep walking and looking, maybe someday you will find the Right one and
if not, on your journey, you will achieve inner happiness on your own.