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I think if you really like her then just give her what she needs and if thats space then do that.....i think if its the real thing then space wouldnt be such a problem...........
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I think if you really like her then just give her what she needs and if thats space then do that.....i think if its the real thing then space wouldnt be such a problem...........  what she said.!!
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I'm seriously trying to do this asap, I've procrastinated cause of the fee that i was dreading, i had no job to pay for it until now well now that you have a job go file for divorce....divorce proceedings could take a few years, though yours sounds rather simple....once you've filed then go pursue this girl....but like Jules said you probably need time between the two relationships to regroup....if not, then go for it.... |
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I gave this to her through a text message, the girl lives in Long Beach, I'm by Magic Mtn just a few minutes of an hour of a drive... I can't really just stop by and surprise her.
trust in me cause i know the pain trust in me cause i know the cold nights trust in me cause i know the lonliness trust in me cause i know my heart trust in me cause i know my soul trust in me cause i know what i give trust in me cause i know who i am trust in me cause i know what i want trust in me cause i know i can trust you! ! |
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you either need advice or not if you do just listen and make your mind up
At the end it is up to you. |
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My divorce will only take 6 months and 1 day why can't my current gf and i just get passed this? i've been honest with her since day one, my feelings for my ex wife have gone cold
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yes, give her space and show her you are really working towards getting that divorce. You have no idea how many times women are told that "I'll get it as soon as I can afford it" and it never happens. You need to prove yourself to her... good luck
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i'm trying all i can to fix this, it seems like she's not making any effort to get passed her feelings, i got up at 7am rare for me cause i hate mornings!!! to wait at court for paperwork to start this
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I am working for this divorce, I started today I don't get up at 7am for just anyone lol.
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i'm trying all i can to fix this, it seems like she's not making any effort to get passed her feelings, i got up at 7am rare for me cause i hate mornings!!! to wait at court for paperwork to start this |
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I gave this to her through a text message, the girl lives in Long Beach, I'm by Magic Mtn just a few minutes of an hour of a drive... I can't really just stop by and surprise her. trust in me cause i know the pain trust in me cause i know the cold nights trust in me cause i know the lonliness trust in me cause i know my heart trust in me cause i know my soul trust in me cause i know what i give trust in me cause i know who i am trust in me cause i know what i want trust in me cause i know i can trust you! ! |
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Idk just to talk to me when i send her random non divorce related text messages. I want to know that she's trying to fix this issue as much as me
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Idk just to talk to me when i send her random non divorce related text messages. I want to know that she's trying to fix this issue as much as me |
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she didn't ask for space, i'm giving it to her on my own... she just wanted to take a step back until my divorce is over with.
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she didn't ask for space, i'm giving it to her on my own... she just wanted to take a step back until my divorce is over with. 
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she has the thought that i'm going to get back with my ex thats her issue i want her to know that i'm not going to hurt her and go to my ex.
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If you two are seriously talking about a future together...what is 6 months apart now? If she is really the one, she will wait as will you. You seem like you're scared to lose her, but if you can lose her in 6 months waiting for you, then do you really think she would last forever in a marriage? I have been in a relationship where 6 months apart traveling with work happened every couple of years. It's a matter of trust..might as well discover both of your capacities for that now.
I also agree that time between relationships is very important and personally feel that starting one before your divorce is final is not a great start. Good luck with whatever you decide.
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Idk just to talk to me when i send her random non divorce related text messages. I want to know that she's trying to fix this issue as much as me |
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Edited by
BlueskyJ
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Wed 07/02/08 10:59 PM
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Balky you live in my neck of the woods though further North...from where you are to Long Beach has got to be at least an hour and a half drive....and you know how bad the 405 FWY can be....its hard having a relationship that far away in Los Angeles....
your text message is very nice for you....just remember trust cannot just be given it has to be earned...I think the word 'believe' would have been a more accurate choice than 'trust'... and your text is very 'I' oriented meaning 'you centered'.... suggestion for change?---example-- Believe in me cause I feel your pain as my own Believe in me cause together we can take away the loneliness blah, blah, blah....dunno, just the way i'd approach it.... |
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she has the thought that i'm going to get back with my ex thats her issue i want her to know that i'm not going to hurt her and go to my ex. |
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