hey i am so depressed my wife is divorcing me after 8 monthes to go be with a ufc fighter i dont know what to do

yeah kick his flabby ass

Go kick his ass

why would i kick his ass if she doesnt want me i learn that she a unstable girl

Yeah true, Go get someone better, I remember when I got Parole from a life sentance of marriage.

go commit her

Hmmmm maybe she has a thing for Boxers and not the kind you wear...HaHa...No for real if you knew she was unstable why did you marry her?

Then feel yourself blessed

well i dont know what happen to her one day me and her were happily in love and the next day she said she didnt want me she grew hate for me over night and because of this break up i been in the hospital twice this week because my body is trying to shut itself down is what the docs been saying

body shutting down isn't good. you might want to seek professional help to get over her.

take up a hobby

well its like tonight i just got out of the hospital my heart started to stop and my lungs started to collapse and now my job says im not stable to work because im a firefighter

my Ex met her new man while we were married, I told him about my "No Return Policy"

Wow...I just LOVE how folks responded to go "kick HIS ass"! *sighs and rolls eyes...GOOD LORD*

Conversely, her "ass" does not deserve kicking either.

Granted, I (we) don't know the whole scenario...but, I can safely surmise that if you were only married 8 months, you likely did not have a very lengthy courtship either, eh? Just guessing here....

However, I would suggest looking into yourself, and you and her as a union. What went wrong...what signs did you not see...what could you have done differently?

Nothing occurs between TWO with only ONE as the sole cause, although often times we would like to point the finger devoid of responsibility.

Does this mean you are at "fault"? NOPE, not necessarily...but, it certainly presents a grand opportunity for YOU to look at YOU and how you engage in an intimate and committed relationship.

If this is affecting you physically, then it is time for you to make the only decision YOU can make..."do you want to be a *victim* and fall in the quicksand of self-pity...or do you want to LEARN from this about yourself and carry the lesson forward in future relationships and be a *survivor"?

Your CHOICE, dear one...no one else's. Choose wisely!

Dude i feel your pain trust me. But this might help a little be thankful that it is only 8months in. My wife(now ex) just got divorced after four years. She cheated on me once when we first got married and i forgave...but it happened again. I look back and wish to God that i would have ended it then...these last four years i'll never get back.

I do know that it sucks though when you make a commitment...you think for life...and then it is taken away...But trust me when i say you do get over it eventually it just takes time..my suggestion surround yourself with family and friends

I hope you're going to get counseling... it sounds like you really need it. Stress and panic attacks can make everything seem horrible... but regardless of this woman leaving to be with some other man: no person is worth losing your life over, at least not for a reason like that. Take care of yourself and get some professional help

see i met her on this website waited a year and got married she had us move out here to colorado and then left me all my family is in florida and they wont even help me though this they say i got myself into this and that i need to fix it. one thing is before i met her i was engaged to a lovely girl and i left that girl for what i thought would of been my soul mate now i just wish i could get ahold of my ex and see how she doing but i cant

i just dont know if i could trust anyone after this

Dude...not trying to be an A$$ but if you were engaged already why were you on here? sounds to me like karma.....

pull, your big boy pant's up ! get a fist full of one dollar bills and go to the local strip club and have some fun !