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      Ok so I have been chatting with this guy for a bit, about a week and a half.  Sometimes he sounds very interested, sometimes he doesn't.  He tells me he will call me, then doesn't do it when he says he will.  He is from another site and I can see when he is on line and it is during the time he says he will call.  Then he tells me to call him anytime but when I do I feel like I am bothering him.  We are suppose to meet next Saturday, but he did the phone call thing again to me tonight.  Am I wrong to be suspicious?  I feel like he is just talking to me if he can't find anything else better to do....and **** I don't need that   | |
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      like a bad habit...........drop him
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        Edited by
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      Pecc you think he is a player?  That's what I am feeling.
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      That does seem a bit odd. You'd think if he was interested and said he'd call then he'd call.  I might go on Saturday just to see.  I get a better feel for people face to face.
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|  dump him...hes playing the field...99% sure   | |
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      i say that you should meet the guy and see what he is all about ...that is if you want to meet him....but be ready to drop him like a bad habit if he does turn out to be a douche
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      its hard to call when the wife / girlfriend is around
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| That does seem a bit odd. You'd think if he was interested and said he'd call then he'd call. I might go on Saturday just to see. I get a better feel for people face to face. Good luck!   Yeah but would you waste a half of tank of gas to risk it lol | |
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      well duh..............lol yep, i did the same thing back in the day
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|  dump him...hes playing the field...99% sure   I am thinking the same thing...thanks! | |
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|  dump him...hes playing the field...99% sure   yep what E said | |
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| its hard to call when the wife / girlfriend is around lol no i am certain that is not it but it is an idea   | |
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| its hard to call when the wife / girlfriend is around | |
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      cut that sucka loose...he's probably a dirt bag
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      Like the book states..."he's just not that into you"
 Find someone better who will keep their promises   | |
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| well duh..............lol yep, i did the same thing back in the day Well i am new to this whole dating thing so ya I may be a little slow...it has been over 25 years. I guess men are still just pigs   | |
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|  dump him...hes playing the field...99% sure   I must agree   | |
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        Edited by
        BetterDazes
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| Like the book states..."he's just not that into you" Find someone better who will keep their promises   You are too right! =) Date canceled! | |
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      There is something to be said about going with your gut, thanks folks for the great advice!                 | |
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      are you going to write him off that easily?? maybe he is going through a rough time or something like that....but yeah, he is probably a pig
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