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Topic: Datings sites are 4 ppl with LOW SELF ESTEEM
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Thu 07/31/08 11:44 PM
Edited by cruisin on Thu 07/31/08 11:45 PM
Seriously. I'm on this shiz because I am away from my social network and don't really have the time to hang around in the town squares to desperately meet people.

Now I go on this site when I have the chance to check out the profiles of women in my area. I message quite a few and instant match basically all of them, and I get like 1 response (out of the 50 initiatives I made).

I am sorry to say, and I don't believe this holds true for all of you (especially those who frequent the forum part of this site), but it seems people (especially women) are here for their own egos to develop.

They get a host of guys swarming and leaving messages and base their self esteem on what guys can infer from a select few pixelated and disproportionate representations of themselves (they call them self portraits).

Its really a lose lose situation for guys who aren't cocky enough to post their most prized material possessions in their pictures. Guess it weeds out the gold digger response (which seems to be 98% of the female population here).

/rant

Misspharry1017's photo
Thu 07/31/08 11:45 PM
Well I hope this helps but Datings sites are 4 ppl with LOW SELF ESTEEM

FearandLoathing's photo
Thu 07/31/08 11:46 PM

Seriously. I'm on this shiz because I am away from my social network and don't really have the time to hang around in the town squares to desperately meet people.

Now I go on this site when I have the chance to check out the profiles of women in my area. I message quite a few and instant match basically all of them, and I get like 1 response (out of the 50 initiatives I made).

I am sorry to say, and I don't believe this holds true for all of you (especially those who frequent the forum part of this site), but it seems people (especially women) are here for their own egos to develop.

They get a host of guys swarming and leaving messages and base their self esteem on what guys can infer from a select few pixelated and disproportionate representations of themselves (they call them self portraits).

Its really a lose lose situation for guys who aren't cocky enough to post their most prized material goods in their pictures. Guess it weeds out the gold digger response (which seems to be 98% of the female population here).

/rant


State your reference, what mathmatical equation did you base this "discovery" off of? What statistics were used in this glorious study of your's? Please, help me understand where you came up with this load of rubbish.happy

lgo's photo
Thu 07/31/08 11:48 PM
huh

wraithme66's photo
Thu 07/31/08 11:49 PM

Seriously. I'm on this shiz because I am away from my social network and don't really have the time to hang around in the town squares to desperately meet people.

Now I go on this site when I have the chance to check out the profiles of women in my area. I message quite a few and instant match basically all of them, and I get like 1 response (out of the 50 initiatives I made).

I am sorry to say, and I don't believe this holds true for all of you (especially those who frequent the forum part of this site), but it seems people (especially women) are here for their own egos to develop.

They get a host of guys swarming and leaving messages and base their self esteem on what guys can infer from a select few pixelated and disproportionate representations of themselves (they call them self portraits).

Its really a lose lose situation for guys who aren't cocky enough to post their most prized material possessions in their pictures. Guess it weeds out the gold digger response (which seems to be 98% of the female population here).

/rant


Dude... You have not a clue. All I can say is you don't belong here then. You already stated it yourself. People didn't get on here to criticize eachother.

brooke007's photo
Thu 07/31/08 11:49 PM
whatever

LightVoice's photo
Thu 07/31/08 11:49 PM

Well I hope this helps but Datings sites are 4 ppl with LOW SELF ESTEEM


ummm... hon... is that why YOU are here?

and please, speak for yourself... I do not have low self esteem issues. flowerforyou Nor do the many wonderful friends I have here on this site :heart:

FearandLoathing's photo
Thu 07/31/08 11:50 PM
Edited by FearandLoathing on Thu 07/31/08 11:50 PM

lgo's photo
Thu 07/31/08 11:50 PM


Seriously. I'm on this shiz because I am away from my social network and don't really have the time to hang around in the town squares to desperately meet people.

Now I go on this site when I have the chance to check out the profiles of women in my area. I message quite a few and instant match basically all of them, and I get like 1 response (out of the 50 initiatives I made).

I am sorry to say, and I don't believe this holds true for all of you (especially those who frequent the forum part of this site), but it seems people (especially women) are here for their own egos to develop.

They get a host of guys swarming and leaving messages and base their self esteem on what guys can infer from a select few pixelated and disproportionate representations of themselves (they call them self portraits).

Its really a lose lose situation for guys who aren't cocky enough to post their most prized material possessions in their pictures. Guess it weeds out the gold digger response (which seems to be 98% of the female population here).

/rant


Dude... You have not a clue. All I can say is you don't belong here then. You already stated it yourself. People didn't get on here to criticize eachother.
yep!! :smile:

Etrain's photo
Thu 07/31/08 11:51 PM
laugh laugh laugh wonderful discovery...now move along Jr and let the grown ups playlaugh laugh laugh

Lorinwade's photo
Thu 07/31/08 11:51 PM

Seriously. I'm on this shiz because I am away from my social network and don't really have the time to hang around in the town squares to desperately meet people.

Now I go on this site when I have the chance to check out the profiles of women in my area. I message quite a few and instant match basically all of them, and I get like 1 response (out of the 50 initiatives I made).

I am sorry to say, and I don't believe this holds true for all of you (especially those who frequent the forum part of this site), but it seems people (especially women) are here for their own egos to develop.

They get a host of guys swarming and leaving messages and base their self esteem on what guys can infer from a select few pixelated and disproportionate representations of themselves (they call them self portraits).

Its really a lose lose situation for guys who aren't cocky enough to post their most prized material possessions in their pictures. Guess it weeds out the gold digger response (which seems to be 98% of the female population here).

/rant
I would deactivate my account IMMEDIATLY....And get an esteem as FAST as I could. And not post something like this becasue man.....You will get a lot of negative replies. A LOT. Especially from me. So get an esteem and will see you back here once you lose it. MMK?

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Thu 07/31/08 11:51 PM



Seriously. I'm on this shiz because I am away from my social network and don't really have the time to hang around in the town squares to desperately meet people.

Now I go on this site when I have the chance to check out the profiles of women in my area. I message quite a few and instant match basically all of them, and I get like 1 response (out of the 50 initiatives I made).

I am sorry to say, and I don't believe this holds true for all of you (especially those who frequent the forum part of this site), but it seems people (especially women) are here for their own egos to develop.

They get a host of guys swarming and leaving messages and base their self esteem on what guys can infer from a select few pixelated and disproportionate representations of themselves (they call them self portraits).

Its really a lose lose situation for guys who aren't cocky enough to post their most prized material possessions in their pictures. Guess it weeds out the gold digger response (which seems to be 98% of the female population here).

/rant


Dude... You have not a clue. All I can say is you don't belong here then. You already stated it yourself. People didn't get on here to criticize eachother.
yep!! :smile:


Sorry.. I almost made it to bed... Until I saw this.

FearandLoathing's photo
Thu 07/31/08 11:51 PM

laugh laugh laugh wonderful discovery...now move along Jr and let the grown ups playlaugh laugh laugh


I think he wants a tissue...laugh

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Thu 07/31/08 11:52 PM
Edited by Spaceman2008 on Thu 07/31/08 11:53 PM
I don't really care.....I'm just Yoda.

Lorinwade's photo
Thu 07/31/08 11:52 PM

I don't really care...I'm just Yoda.

HAHA lol

msmyka's photo
Thu 07/31/08 11:53 PM

Seriously. I'm on this shiz because I am away from my social network and don't really have the time to hang around in the town squares to desperately meet people.

Now I go on this site when I have the chance to check out the profiles of women in my area. I message quite a few and instant match basically all of them, and I get like 1 response (out of the 50 initiatives I made).

I am sorry to say, and I don't believe this holds true for all of you (especially those who frequent the forum part of this site), but it seems people (especially women) are here for their own egos to develop.

They get a host of guys swarming and leaving messages and base their self esteem on what guys can infer from a select few pixelated and disproportionate representations of themselves (they call them self portraits).

Its really a lose lose situation for guys who aren't cocky enough to post their most prized material possessions in their pictures. Guess it weeds out the gold digger response (which seems to be 98% of the female population here).

/rant


Oh young one, this is not the way to get attention.

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Thu 07/31/08 11:53 PM
Edited by wraithme66 on Thu 07/31/08 11:54 PM
It's kinda funny. People always complain about the personality problem that they hate most. Problem is... That's what they're most guilty of most often. I don't mean to bash the guy... But... This place is for good stuff. Am I wrong?

Winx's photo
Thu 07/31/08 11:54 PM
Dating sites are for people with low self-esteem. That's too funny.laugh laugh laugh

You obviously don't know many of the great people on here.

Many of us are on here because we don't do the bar scene. It has nothing to do with self esteem.noway

markecephus's photo
Thu 07/31/08 11:54 PM

If your approach to these ladies you email is in likeness to your entrance here, what do you suppose the problem is?

Socratease's photo
Thu 07/31/08 11:55 PM
Would like to disagree,but only been here 2 days and can already tell its a club..i think i need to be here for 2 months before i join it,its weird,either they are attention seeker or bitter,no offence...but then wonder why they cant find a good person.Because the good ones leave so quick by either being taken or just realizing its a ball not to be caught in.Its a good site though..and i like its attractions,im here for thought not dating,which is the opposite of joining.

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