would any of u men date a single mother or do u have problems with dateing women that have children ??????

There's so many of us out there and men as single parents too.. so I would surely hope so.

I would date a man that had custody of his children, I actually think that says a lot about him.

dating one now that has a child......well 15 anyhow

It seems that women have more of a problem with single dads than men have with single moms

i have and would date a girl with up to 3 kids. being that i have one myself i cant be to picky about that

I WOULD NOT HAVE A PROBLEM WITH THAT

I WOULD NOT HAVE A PROBLEM WITH THAT

I WOULD NOT HAVE A PROBLEM WITH THAT

I am currently dating a single mother. So NO - I do not have a problem with it

I would not have any problem with it whatsoever.....AND I would try to be the best "Dad" (male figure) possible for the kids....and quite frankly....I'm rather good at that...

Nope, no problem at all. As a single father, I have come across women, like some men, who won't date because of my child. Guess it only seems more popular with single mothers because there are more of them than there are of us single fathers. Doesn't matter.. if they can't accept my child, then I don't need them. Just shows how self-centered and selfish people can be.

you know what i love...chicks that look all slutty in some pics and then have a kid in their arms right next to it...that = trashy

Calm down dude don't get excited 3 times is enough. caps lock is on the left side of your keyboard

I WOULD NOT HAVE A PROBLEM WITH THAT

still can't find the caps lock huh??

I am not on the "market" but I would advise men to be very careful when dating women who have young children.

The girl-friend will make decisions she perceives to the correct ones based upon what she "feels" is best for her child(ren) not you or your relationship. You are not the parent therefore any advice you offer will carry very little weight. Should you question the decision she will bring that point up to you, leaving you speechless.

Does any of this sound healthy to a relationship? Does it sound unrealistic that a mom would act that way? I don't think so based off of personal experience and what I have read here.

I really want to know the pluses in dating a single mom. Can someone tell me?

Well.....I must tell you that I have run into this many many times as my relationship has fallen apart. This, however can happen even with natural children!! But moreso with step-children. This is something I guess we all have to take a chance on, but I would still date someone with children!!!

There are a lot of pluses and minuses to dating a woman with a child or children. It's true that she will make her decisions based on what's best for the kids, but that is what a mother is supposed to do isn't it. I think the big problem is when a man comes into the picture that is not the childrens father, especially if the children are old enough to understand that daddy is not there anymore. To many men want to try and replace the "father" figure in the household. The biggest part isn't trying to replace dad, but to get the children to understand that you are not there to replace dad, but that you will have a special love for them as well as their mother. I think women have a little thing in the back of their heads also when they get into a relationship with a new man that he might try to do just that. I don't have a problem dating a woman with children as I myself have a wonderful daughter, but the women need to realize that I'm not trying to replace anyone either, I'm just trying to get them to accept me for me, not compare me to what went wrong in their previous life. At heart, I don't think that most people want to accept that their previous relationship (if relatively long term) can truly be over. I think that has a lot more to do with it than the actual children per say.