Topic: Why must we make choices...
TheShadow's photo
Wed 08/13/08 08:39 PM
That we don't want to make because it will hurt a few people and they wont want you around anymore. But if you don't, it will hurt you in the long run.

Well, the choice i'm going to have to make is to protect my 2 months old sun. I'm his father and i have to do what is right for him. If i don't, he will grow up a life like i did as a child and i couldn't handle that.

sara89's photo
Wed 08/13/08 08:41 PM
do what you got to...no matter how hard, at least you know its the right thing.

JoLynn's photo
Wed 08/13/08 08:42 PM
sounds like i'm going through something similar...right now...it's awful

no photo
Wed 08/13/08 08:42 PM
huh Tell the diary everything!!!bigsmile or just me!!!drinker

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 08/13/08 08:43 PM

sounds like i'm going through something similar...right now...it's awful
smokin yeahflowerforyou

ccindyct's photo
Wed 08/13/08 08:45 PM
You are doing what is best for your son, there is no choice there. No right or wrong thing, it's the only thing.

flame1cutie's photo
Wed 08/13/08 08:47 PM

That we don't want to make because it will hurt a few people and they wont want you around anymore. But if you don't, it will hurt you in the long run.

Well, the choice i'm going to have to make is to protect my 2 months old sun. I'm his father and i have to do what is right for him. If i don't, he will grow up a life like i did as a child and i couldn't handle that.
you'll do what's right in the long run for you and your son. Just have faith it will turn out right for everyoneflowers flowers

johncarl's photo
Wed 08/13/08 08:48 PM

You are doing what is best for your son, there is no choice there. No right or wrong thing, it's the only thing.
yea what she said.i to am going through this with my daughter only it has lasted 3 years now

TheShadow's photo
Wed 08/13/08 08:58 PM
I know what i'm going to be doing is right, so that why i'm doing it nomatter what happens. I don't want to take him from her, but she is pushing me agents a wall knowing he what ever guy beats on her. I can stand men that do chit like this and knowing she thinks it's ok huh :angry: She can put her daughter through this and i feel really bad for her, but i will not let my son go through this chit....

ArtGurl's photo
Wed 08/13/08 09:02 PM
You know that your son is your priority ... you must do what is in his best interest ...

Yes, it is difficult situation ... and yes, some will be hurt ... but being a father isn't always popular ... do what you know is right...

flowerforyou


TheShadow's photo
Wed 08/13/08 09:07 PM

You know that your son is your priority ... you must do what is in his best interest ...

Yes, it is difficult situation ... and yes, some will be hurt ... but being a father isn't always popular ... do what you know is right...

flowerforyou




I will, and hope that someone is on my side.

Thank you Art, it's good to see youflowerforyou

Amathyst2's photo
Wed 08/13/08 09:20 PM
I'm sorry you're having to go through this. I know it isn't easy. Sometimes the decisions we make will affect others. But the main thing is, you're trying to do the right thing. And taking your son out of that mess is for the best. Granted it may hurt some people in the process, but it will hurt your son more in the long run. I really respect you for standing up for what it right! flowerforyou

TheShadow's photo
Wed 08/13/08 09:25 PM

I'm sorry you're having to go through this. I know it isn't easy. Sometimes the decisions we make will affect others. But the main thing is, you're trying to do the right thing. And taking your son out of that mess is for the best. Granted it may hurt some people in the process, but it will hurt your son more in the long run. I really respect you for standing up for what it right! flowerforyou


I have to stand up for what is right. if i don't. What does that make me. I don't want to keep her from her son. I just don't want my son around him and if i don't get my son for some reason. he will grow up a hard life and that alone will kill me.

No1sLove's photo
Wed 08/13/08 09:45 PM
Of course the high road is the hard one...it's all uphill. flowerforyou

But I hear the view is better from the top, so do whatever you have to do to get your son up there. Thoughts and prayers with you Shadow. :heart:

no photo
Wed 08/13/08 09:49 PM
Sometimes the Dad's got to do what the Dads got to do.
Be strong.

TheShadow's photo
Wed 08/13/08 09:53 PM

Of course the high road is the hard one...it's all uphill. flowerforyou

But I hear the view is better from the top, so do whatever you have to do to get your son up there. Thoughts and prayers with you Shadow. :heart:


Thank you No1sLove and michiganman3.

I will be strong no matter what. just right now. id say this is one of the harder choices i ever had to make.

no photo
Wed 08/13/08 09:58 PM
Love & Light to you & yours Shadow~flowerforyou

TheShadow's photo
Wed 08/13/08 10:06 PM

Love & Light to you & yours Shadow~flowerforyou

flowerforyou :smile:

Marie55's photo
Thu 08/14/08 12:01 AM
It will be an uphill battle but it will be worth it in the long run. You know where I stand on this. You are a good daddy and he needs you in his life. Take care Mike. Hang in there, hopefully things will get better soon. flowerforyou flowerforyou

ladypegasus's photo
Thu 08/14/08 12:45 AM

I know what i'm going to be doing is right, so that why i'm doing it nomatter what happens. I don't want to take him from her, but she is pushing me agents a wall knowing he what ever guy beats on her. I can stand men that do chit like this and knowing she thinks it's ok huh :angry: She can put her daughter through this and i feel really bad for her, but i will not let my son go through this chit....


Would you be willing to take on the responsibilty of raising her daughter as well? If the courts deem her unfit to raise your son then she doesn't need the daughter either. JMO