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 The girl is honestly messed up about her emotions!! Let's say you did take her back...you don't think that she wouldn't try something like this again?? Move on before you have a long, long depressing life with this girl!!  Just my 2 cents.... |
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 This is the kind of stuff that I remember dealing with when I was 15
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My girlfriend just left me for an ex. Now the thing is, she says she still loves me, just not like she used to. She also says that she's only with him temporarily and that she still wants to get married and have a life together like we planned. That's a simplified version... there are lots of things she's saying and doing that makes me go "wtf?" but the main thing I don't get is why she would be doing this when she's told me that she doesn't think it will last and that she plans to come back to me? She says she expects it to last a while, no shorter than a month or two but definitely not years. This is someone I have LOVED like I never thought I coudl love another human... for a year and almost 8 months. I was ready to spend my life with her and she hits me with this out of the blue. Wtf is going on? 
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My girlfriend just left me for an ex. Now the thing is, she says she still loves me, just not like she used to. She also says that she's only with him temporarily and that she still wants to get married and have a life together like we planned. That's a simplified version... there are lots of things she's saying and doing that makes me go "wtf?" but the main thing I don't get is why she would be doing this when she's told me that she doesn't think it will last and that she plans to come back to me? She says she expects it to last a while, no shorter than a month or two but definitely not years. This is someone I have LOVED like I never thought I coudl love another human... for a year and almost 8 months. I was ready to spend my life with her and she hits me with this out of the blue. Wtf is going on? Gosh I adore you
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My girlfriend just left me for an ex. Now the thing is, she says she still loves me, just not like she used to. She also says that she's only with him temporarily and that she still wants to get married and have a life together like we planned. That's a simplified version... there are lots of things she's saying and doing that makes me go "wtf?" but the main thing I don't get is why she would be doing this when she's told me that she doesn't think it will last and that she plans to come back to me? She says she expects it to last a while, no shorter than a month or two but definitely not years. This is someone I have LOVED like I never thought I coudl love another human... for a year and almost 8 months. I was ready to spend my life with her and she hits me with this out of the blue. Wtf is going on? Charming |
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If you take her back you are teaching her you allow cheating and in general just being dumped and that you'll hang around.
I know it's tough, but what she did is not forgiveable. She made a choice. |
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nighmare....if you really examine the situation...
these things never come "out of the blue" |
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My girlfriend just left me for an ex. Now the thing is, she says she still loves me, just not like she used to. She also says that she's only with him temporarily and that she still wants to get married and have a life together like we planned. That's a simplified version... there are lots of things she's saying and doing that makes me go "wtf?" but the main thing I don't get is why she would be doing this when she's told me that she doesn't think it will last and that she plans to come back to me? She says she expects it to last a while, no shorter than a month or two but definitely not years. This is someone I have LOVED like I never thought I coudl love another human... for a year and almost 8 months. I was ready to spend my life with her and she hits me with this out of the blue. Wtf is going on? The very fact she left you for an ex proves that she DOESN'T love you and probably didn't in the first place. No one who "loved" you would ever do such a thing, as that's totally low-rent crap. I wouldn't be surprised if she used YOU to manipulate her ex to get back with her. The bottom line here is that you're probably better off without the person and should probably move on to something better. WAY better in this case. And tell the wench to get lost if she starts crawlin' back too, as chances are she'll do it again. |
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Insert Lilith's favorite Dr. Philisms here....
You teach people how to treat you. How's that working for you? The best predictor of future behavior is relevant past behavior. |
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My girlfriend just left me for an ex. Now the thing is, she says she still loves me, just not like she used to. She also says that she's only with him temporarily and that she still wants to get married and have a life together like we planned. That's a simplified version... there are lots of things she's saying and doing that makes me go "wtf?" but the main thing I don't get is why she would be doing this when she's told me that she doesn't think it will last and that she plans to come back to me? She says she expects it to last a while, no shorter than a month or two but definitely not years. This is someone I have LOVED like I never thought I coudl love another human... for a year and almost 8 months. I was ready to spend my life with her and she hits me with this out of the blue. Wtf is going on? Gosh I adore you  
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My girlfriend just left me for an ex. Now the thing is, she says she still loves me, just not like she used to. She also says that she's only with him temporarily and that she still wants to get married and have a life together like we planned. That's a simplified version... there are lots of things she's saying and doing that makes me go "wtf?" but the main thing I don't get is why she would be doing this when she's told me that she doesn't think it will last and that she plans to come back to me? She says she expects it to last a while, no shorter than a month or two but definitely not years. This is someone I have LOVED like I never thought I coudl love another human... for a year and almost 8 months. I was ready to spend my life with her and she hits me with this out of the blue. Wtf is going on? Charming  Now I will tell you the story about the condoms and the 3 bears....
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My girlfriend just left me for an ex. Now the thing is, she says she still loves me, just not like she used to. She also says that she's only with him temporarily and that she still wants to get married and have a life together like we planned. That's a simplified version... there are lots of things she's saying and doing that makes me go "wtf?" but the main thing I don't get is why she would be doing this when she's told me that she doesn't think it will last and that she plans to come back to me? She says she expects it to last a while, no shorter than a month or two but definitely not years. This is someone I have LOVED like I never thought I coudl love another human... for a year and almost 8 months. I was ready to spend my life with her and she hits me with this out of the blue. Wtf is going on? You aren't seriously wondering what to do right? Uhhh hello??? You are a back-up plan. Please know you are worth more than that. Anytime, anywhere. Memorize this quote will ya: "Don't make someone a priority who only makes you an option" Now there .. doesn't that feel better already? Go out and find someone who wants YOU, not a plan B. or C. Or D. 
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 If I were you I'd dance naked in the middle of the street just to embarrass you. |
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Absolutely Fade!!!!
 And there is always a plan B, C and D.......waiting!!!  |
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she blew it... she's toast.
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This is the kind of stuff that I remember dealing with when I was 15 feels sorry for the monkey
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seen this happen to a friend...same situation...it will just continue in the future...very difficult to "get it out your system.." so to speak....advice - don't giver her your heart anymore, have her earn it..
Roco |
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