I think it would suck and you have a point.. That is what you could have said rather than he and I should date... See I leave my meetings at "we'll talk and confirm" so I assumed that is what he did as well.. I don't know many people that have never met and just say "meet you at so and so on Tuesday" and then not confirm it that day...


And NO Voluptuous is WAS NOT on topic b/c we've done the same thing he didn't ask "should I date someone that has as well"...

uummm.... how old are you?? cuz i beleve i heard this SAME conversation today between my 7 yr old and her 8 yr old couzin...

i dont mean any offence.. but if he is offended by what she said.. he can stand up for himself.. just a thought

Then why are you butting in?
Same comment would apply to you!
Indnprnc can stick up for herself...right...?

So, does that make you 7 or 8 year old
... cause I want to be the 7 year old

i dont remember ether of them saying that it was ok or a good thing that it happened...

they just said that they were in a buzy time in thier lives, and got mixed up in it..

im thinkin they felt horrible for doing it and made up for it...

point is... we are HUMAN... and humans make mistakes...
jmo

I completely agree, we all make mistakes, that is no dought. But it is not something that happens on a wide scale. Yes people do tend to get caught up in the jobs, life, whatever. But a first date, hard to beleive. The first date says everything about how much you are into that person. I know few if any that forgets about that first date. Mainly because it is so new. And Not to say they didn't feel bad for forgeting they had a date but I jus don't think it's one of those things that happens that often.

well... it HAS happened to me.. granted, only ONCE... and it wasnt a matter of forgeting that i had a date.. it was a matter of forgeting what day of the week i was in.. my job isnt a monday thru fri 9-5 kind of job.. my days get mixed around.. and i get called in alot!
i get lost in what day it is now..
and this happens to alot of people..
and it happens to me alot!
i was kinda glad that it happened.. kinda relieved some of the pressure off of both of us.. and he realized how hectic my job/kids/life are!

So then why attack me? If it's human to forget and I understand why he forgot.. Then why is it he and I should date??

I think it was more than a reference b/c if it were I should be dating the rest of the busy preoccupied people in the world.. And NO I don't think it's common at all, but I do think it's understandable if it does happen... I in no way think he's a horrible human being and I'm not mortified by it.. I was simply saying that I've done it as well... Everyone gets caught up in something or other and forgets... Maybe I missed where he said he left her sitting somewhere waiting b/c I so did not take it that way... I always touch base before I set off to go somewhere to meet someone and if I don't talk to them I don't leave until I do...

chatted with a lovely gal, and things went very well. i have bin very stressed of late, and had bin drinkin, not that i do this eveyday. we had sorta mentioned meetin at a local pub, but job called for longer shift. i forgot to call her , even then i didnt have her cell number with me.when i got home ,this is when i realized that i had forgot when i checked messages.!!!!! i know i will take alotta heat from the gals on here but man i feel so ****ty, but she is gonna let it slide and gimme a chance to make it up. i guess what im tryin to say is would you gals gimme another shot or shoot me.!!!

I didn't think he did but I know him a bit better I guess and the kind of person he is.. so I knew he wasn't being mean or making light of it.. He was really asking if we thought he was awful for what he did...

Men shouldnt argue with women...........we have sharp claws!!!

That was the original question and the answer to that is simple, no. When he kind of made light of it was a little later down the thread. But is he awful, no not at all. Not to mention you post these things and get made when people give you their opion, which their opion is what your asking for. Doesn't mean we have to agree. In the end it's only an opion. Although we basically agree, 1st that he is not an awful person, 2nd that it is not common, an everyday thing, 3rd we are human we do make mistakes.