Topic: dam i messed up
seahawks's photo
Tue 09/23/08 06:24 PM

Sounds like you've got quite a terrific gal there...better hang on to her:wink: . Unfortunately there are a lot of people out there who are much less understanding. Glad she is giving you a do-overflowerforyou!
my thoughts xactly.!!:wink:

seahawks's photo
Tue 09/23/08 06:24 PM


I would give a second shot if he called and sounded apologetic



you mean a second shot with a .45, don't you?laugh tears
laugh laugh laugh wiley yur lovin this i know it.!!!!laugh laugh laugh frustrated

willy_cents's photo
Tue 09/23/08 06:26 PM
been there done that...been shot atdevil

unsure's photo
Tue 09/23/08 06:29 PM
Actually, you are lucky she is so understanding. I myself would not be so understanding. My thoughts would be, why wasn't my number in his cell phone? Usually I give someone 2 chances, they don't get a 3rd!! Now if I thought that person was out drinking...then no, they wouldn't get another chance.
I would say buy her flowers!!!
Good luck flowerforyou

seahawks's photo
Tue 09/23/08 06:31 PM

been there done that...been shot atdevil
laugh laugh laugh

seahawks's photo
Tue 09/23/08 06:32 PM

Actually, you are lucky she is so understanding. I myself would not be so understanding. My thoughts would be, why wasn't my number in his cell phone? Usually I give someone 2 chances, they don't get a 3rd!! Now if I thought that person was out drinking...then no, they wouldn't get another chance.
I would say buy her flowers!!!
Good luck flowerforyou
i hearya.!!! flowers n dinner and wash nwax her car.!!!laugh :wink:

mscherbear's photo
Tue 09/23/08 06:33 PM


I would give a second shot if he called and sounded apologetic



you mean a second shot with a .45, don't you?laugh tears

rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl


Voluptuous's photo
Tue 09/23/08 09:15 PM
huh You FORGOT about another human being!huh

How important could she possiblythink be to you if you FORGOT about her completely?

obxwavenut's photo
Tue 09/23/08 09:18 PM

huh You FORGOT about another human being!huh

How important could she possiblythink be to you if you FORGOT about her completely?
Be nice V!!

DTHRomeo's photo
Tue 09/23/08 09:19 PM

chatted with a lovely gal, and things went very well. i have bin very stressed of late, and had bin drinkin, not that i do this eveyday. we had sorta mentioned meetin at a local pub, but job called for longer shift. i forgot to call her , even then i didnt have her cell number with me.when i got home ,this is when i realized that i had forgot when i checked messages.!!!!! i know i will take alotta heat from the gals on here but man i feel so ****ty, but she is gonna let it slide and gimme a chance to make it up. i guess what im tryin to say is would you gals gimme another shot or shoot me.!!!tears


You ARE very lucky bro

Some women don't forgive things like that

Next time don't forget , Otherwise

I'mma cyber b*tch slap you Sea laugh

Ruth34611's photo
Tue 09/23/08 09:20 PM
You apologized, of course you get a second chance. flowerforyou

DTHRomeo's photo
Tue 09/23/08 09:21 PM

huh You FORGOT about another human being!huh

How important could she possiblythink be to you if you FORGOT about her completely?


People forget about other people everyday

Hearts get broken everyday too

We make mistakes , it is HUMAN

Lily0923's photo
Tue 09/23/08 09:22 PM

chatted with a lovely gal, and things went very well. i have bin very stressed of late, and had bin drinkin, not that i do this eveyday. we had sorta mentioned meetin at a local pub, but job called for longer shift. i forgot to call her , even then i didnt have her cell number with me.when i got home ,this is when i realized that i had forgot when i checked messages.!!!!! i know i will take alotta heat from the gals on here but man i feel so ****ty, but she is gonna let it slide and gimme a chance to make it up. i guess what im tryin to say is would you gals gimme another shot or shoot me.!!!tears


I can usually tell when people are genuine or when they are full of BS. I'm almost positive you are genuine here, she will hopefully be able to tell the same...

I give second chances when they are deserved, not when they are expected.


catchme_ifucan's photo
Tue 09/23/08 09:24 PM
****Rolls Eyes****

We can tell how often you do this :wink: :tongue:

{{{Seahorse}}}waving

SVImager's photo
Tue 09/23/08 09:25 PM
Edited by SVImager on Tue 09/23/08 09:27 PM
Don't sweat it.

You will be fine.

Women are attracted to a Man with Purpose and Passion and Goals. And that she is not your main goal in life.
But are limited on patiences if you do this constantly.
One or Two (Two is stretching it) miss dates are like telling her you are in short supply. Therefore she will perceive a High Demand for you.

If you have too much time on your hand and you have so much time to call her... you will lose the girl as coming on a Needy and Goal-less in life. Too Much Supply, Low Demand.

I have seen women fight over the last purse at a dept. store.

nvrsaynvr's photo
Tue 09/23/08 09:33 PM
Sincere apology....would give a second chance

BUT, if it happens again (BANG)waving

Voluptuous's photo
Tue 09/23/08 09:35 PM


huh You FORGOT about another human being!huh

How important could she possiblythink be to you if you FORGOT about her completely?
Be nice V!!


I tried but my second personality took over frustrated

Voluptuous's photo
Tue 09/23/08 09:37 PM


huh You FORGOT about another human being!huh

How important could she possiblythink be to you if you FORGOT about her completely?


People forget about other people everyday

Hearts get broken everyday too

We make mistakes , it is HUMAN


Are you kidding?
"people forget about other people everyday?"
...since when?

I'm not sure how it works for you BUT people of genuine "importance" are NEVER forgotten.

Moondark's photo
Tue 09/23/08 09:38 PM
One, you obvious feel bad about it. So as long as you let her know what happened as soon as possible, sure a second chance is possible. Now if it happens a SECOND time, then you're done for.

BlueskyJ's photo
Tue 09/23/08 09:57 PM
Sounds like everyone wants to give you a second chance....I think you deserve a second chance, or an academy award for Best Actor.....either way you get to try it all over again, not bad....hope it goes well for you....:smile: