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i keep finding guys that seem normal something stressful happens and then they want to kill themselves and want me to talk then out of it.  iam to the point i want to help not stop them iam going crazy iam just venting , as much as the one is annoying me right now, iam still talking him out of it. i just dont get why there attrated to me or me them???? 
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just tell them to do it !
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Where do you meet them? In the same place?
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just tell them to do it !  
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just dial 911......you dont need that crap!!!
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just tell them to do it ! Hey now, That is horrible!! Bad Chevy!!! 
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wow, well don't tell them to do anything, but you can't be responsible for what they do either...
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ive know one for 18 years hes my best friend or was and the other i use to work with and was married too
iam just so tired of it i feel really bad because iam buring out but i dont know how to help |
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Give them the mental health hotline number and hang up. That is emotional terrorism of you. People who are suicidal do talk about but you don't have the skills to really help so best to leave it to trained professionals. Calling it in to 911 will sometimes stop the behavior with you but not others so why waist 911 access for someone who wants real help? Maybe attending survivors of suicide would be a good thing for you. Looks like you seek out suicidal personalities or players who are very good at picking up on your vunerabilities. Either type are a poor candidate for a good future. Good Luck!
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Edited by
chevylover1965
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Wed 10/29/08 11:48 PM
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what it was a joke !
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just tell them to do it ! 
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what it was a joke !  
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i agreed with the joke
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i agreed with the joke 
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Gotta say....got no time or use for the pity seekers who pull that crap...the ones who are serious will do it....the ones who just want attention talk about it or just make a weak half-assed attempt.
Many will not agree with me but, I have a very Japanese approach to suicide and in the right context...I can respect someone who makes that personal choice. It is wholly dependant on the situation. |
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i keep finding guys that seem normal something stressful happens and then they want to kill themselves and want me to talk then out of it. iam to the point i want to help not stop them iam going crazy iam just venting , as much as the one is annoying me right now, iam still talking him out of it. i just dont get why there attrated to me or me them???? It seems that the main common link between them is you. Maybe you should start dating women?! |
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Is it possible that you like to go for the needy, vulnerable type? Sounds like you got a lot of guys that just love a bit of dramatic attention. Go look for people with self respect and balls.
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Gotta say....got no time or use for the pity seekers who pull that crap...the ones who are serious will do it....the ones who just want attention talk about it or just make a weak half-assed attempt. Many will not agree with me but, I have a very Japanese approach to suicide and in the right context...I can respect someone who makes that personal choice. It is wholly dependant on the situation. I agree..Ive never tried to "talk" anyone out of killing themselves, because the fact that they are talking shows they dont really want to kill themselves, they just need help with overwhelming problems..however for the OP, you have the right to let these guys know you are not their personal crisis center and that if they need help they need to look elsewhere. |
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