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Topic: Fllirting with text?
TexasScoundrel's photo
Thu 10/30/08 09:50 AM
Edited by TexasScoundrel on Thu 10/30/08 09:52 AM
You know, I do all right out in the world meeting women. I can chat up a young lady, have her giggling in a few seconds and giving me her phone number ten minutes later. But, none of this transfers into text. It seems that without the tone in my voice and body language she doesn't get it and may even think I'm insulting her or she's offended me some how.

The art of flirting is in sending mixed singles. You say "yes" with your words, but "no" with your tone and body or the other way around. It's fun, playful, teasing and women get it.

How the heck do you flirt using only text?

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Thu 10/30/08 09:52 AM
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bad_girl's photo
Thu 10/30/08 09:53 AM
You just say what you feel, always works for Tom and Ilove

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Thu 10/30/08 09:53 AM

You know, I do all right out in the world meeting women. I can chat up a young lady, have her giggling in a few seconds and giving me her phone number ten minutes later. But, none of this transfers into text. It seems that without the tone in my voice and body language she doesn't get it and may even think I'm insulting her or she's offended me some how.

The art of flirting is in sending mixed singles. You say "yes" with your words, but "no" with your tone and body or the other way around. It's fun, playful, teasing and women get it.

How the heck do you flirt using only text?


It's funny, I'm the exact opposite.

tanyaann's photo
Thu 10/30/08 09:54 AM
I am sure MirrorMirror can give you some pointers when he comes back online.

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Thu 10/30/08 09:58 AM

You just say what you feel, always works for Tom and Ilove
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bad_girl's photo
Thu 10/30/08 10:00 AM
flowers flowers Thanks honey


You just say what you feel, always works for Tom and Ilove
{{{{{Merle}}}}}flowers flowers flowers Hey Honey...hope you guys have a safe tripflowers

TexasScoundrel's photo
Thu 10/30/08 10:06 AM
Maybe it would help if I gave an example.

I've said things like "OMG! you are such a little sh*t. My mother warned me about girls like you" while I nudge her with my hip. She'll giggle and nudge me back. How could that be translated into text only?

tanyaann's photo
Thu 10/30/08 10:08 AM

Maybe it would help if I gave an example.

I've said things like "OMG! you are such a little sh*t. My mother warned me about girls like you" while I nudge her with my hip. She'll giggle and nudge me back. How could that be translated into text only?


dude, it sounds like you are flirting with younger women at the bar. No matter how you go about it online, its gonna come across as creepy.

Pete026's photo
Thu 10/30/08 10:08 AM

It's funny, I'm the exact opposite.



Same here, I think it's a thousand times easier to flirt with text.

tanyaann's photo
Thu 10/30/08 10:13 AM
Google... its a wonderful thing.....


http://www.wikihow.com/Flirt-Through-Text-Messages

http://www.ehow.com/how_2324598_via-text-message-easy-steps.html

http://www.funsms.net/flirt_messages.htm

http://www.top-flirting-tips.com/flirt-text-messages.html

TexasScoundrel's photo
Thu 10/30/08 10:16 AM
Yes, I do go out to nightclubs, coffee houses and the like and I do flirt with and date mostly women in their 20s. I'm not opposed to dating older women. I just never see any of them out.

If some of you guys find it so easy, how about giving me an example or two?

franshade's photo
Thu 10/30/08 10:18 AM
me (pointing to me)
you (pointing to you)

now (as in right this very second)

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Thu 10/30/08 10:27 AM

Yes, I do go out to nightclubs, coffee houses and the like and I do flirt with and date mostly women in their 20s. I'm not opposed to dating older women. I just never see any of them out.

If some of you guys find it so easy, how about giving me an example or two?


Well, what have you been trying? Perhaps you need to try things on your own and see what works, instead of waiting for someone to give you lines to use.

FearandLoathing's photo
Thu 10/30/08 10:31 AM
Stop trying and go with the flow...works for me most of the time anyway.

TexasScoundrel's photo
Thu 10/30/08 10:38 AM
I'm not asking for lines to use. I'm trying to understand how to send a mixed single using only text the way I can do it with my voice and body.

Pete026's photo
Thu 10/30/08 10:41 AM

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Yep, emoticons are the body language of text. It's quite amazing how a :tongue: can change the context of a sentence.

franshade's photo
Thu 10/30/08 10:41 AM

I'm not asking for lines to use. I'm trying to understand how to send a mixed single using only text the way I can do it with my voice and body.

insert emoticon waving

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Thu 10/30/08 10:44 AM

I'm not asking for lines to use. I'm trying to understand how to send a mixed single using only text the way I can do it with my voice and body.


Try different things. See what works for you.

tanyaann's photo
Thu 10/30/08 10:47 AM
You are the biggest dork in the world drool

Why don't you jump up and down its good for your health pitchfork


You aren't my type but I'll make an exception flowers

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