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Topic: Where have I heard that before?
o0SilentHero0o's photo
Mon 12/01/08 09:53 AM
I've notice that about 85% of all the women profiles on this site say this very same line. "I'm shy at first but I open up when you get to know me." Whats up with that? Doesn't that apply to everyone? Well, at least most people. It's like saying "Hi, I breath air to live." We all know that. So why even mention something like that? frustrated

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Mon 12/01/08 09:54 AM
and they are all "bubbly"

whatever that means

Mr_Music's photo
Mon 12/01/08 09:55 AM
Oh, my....Lex is gonna have a field day with this thread! rofl

I like the "I don't know what to write here" ones. What am I supposed to do, guess?

franshade's photo
Mon 12/01/08 09:56 AM
They are just letting you know they may not be as social as you expect. They may be introverts and wanted to be up front about it.


Adrenaline's photo
Mon 12/01/08 09:57 AM
I guess the opposite to that would be, "I'm a wild woman that will most likely jump your bones on the first date". Maybe it establishes a "light at the end of the tunnel" that makes you pursue them hoping for the day they will open up.

PATSFAN's photo
Mon 12/01/08 09:57 AM
" I'll write more later"

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Mon 12/01/08 10:01 AM

" I'll write more later"


"Hit me up if you have any questions. I'm an open book." blah blah blah

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Mon 12/01/08 10:02 AM

I've notice that about 85% of all the women profiles on this site say this very same line. "I'm shy at first but I open up when you get to know me." Whats up with that? Doesn't that apply to everyone? Well, at least most people. It's like saying "Hi, I breath air to live." We all know that. So why even mention something like that? frustrated


It isn't quite stating the obvious as those who have to list sex as an interest.

o0SilentHero0o's photo
Mon 12/01/08 10:11 AM
Yeah, I was going to mention that...
Other lines that seem to pop up a lot.
Great... It's so funny...

Anyhow, I still think overall that people don't just blurt anything out to any stranger, until they talk to them for a bit. It depends I guess... but still... like I'm one to blurt things out to a perfect stranger... don't get me wrong I don't want to sound obnoxious or any thing... I just mean that I feel I can pretty much say anything about myself... In other words I'm pretty open...

I hope I made some SENSE...

o0SilentHero0o's photo
Mon 12/01/08 10:17 AM
Especially the ones that say SEX SEX SEX...
The first thing that comes to mind is _____. Yeah, you know...

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Mon 12/01/08 10:23 AM
Why do all the women's profiles claim to be looking for the same thing..."honest, loving, sincere, loyal, sense of humor...blah, blah, blah..." but most wouldn't recognize it if they tripped over it in broad daylight.

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Mon 12/01/08 10:25 AM

Why do all the women's profiles claim to be looking for the same thing..."honest, loving, sincere, loyal, sense of humor...blah, blah, blah..." but most wouldn't recognize it if they tripped over it in broad daylight.


Maybe it's the men who think they're those things and aren't?

o0SilentHero0o's photo
Mon 12/01/08 10:35 AM


Why do all the women's profiles claim to be looking for the same thing..."honest, loving, sincere, loyal, sense of humor...blah, blah, blah..." but most wouldn't recognize it if they tripped over it in broad daylight.


Maybe it's the men who think they're those things and aren't?


Sounds like maybe you've been made a lot of false promises before... I guess I don't blame your reply to hunky62...
But I do agree with him... I know exactly what he means...

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Mon 12/01/08 10:42 AM



Why do all the women's profiles claim to be looking for the same thing..."honest, loving, sincere, loyal, sense of humor...blah, blah, blah..." but most wouldn't recognize it if they tripped over it in broad daylight.


Maybe it's the men who think they're those things and aren't?


Sounds like maybe you've been made a lot of false promises before... I guess I don't blame your reply to hunky62...
But I do agree with him... I know exactly what he means...


Oh, no. I know when I see those things in a man. :smile:

hunky62's photo
Mon 12/01/08 10:46 AM
Case in point...apparently NOT!!!

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Mon 12/01/08 10:50 AM


Why do all the women's profiles claim to be looking for the same thing..."honest, loving, sincere, loyal, sense of humor...blah, blah, blah..." but most wouldn't recognize it if they tripped over it in broad daylight.


Maybe it's the men who think they're those things and aren't?


This is exactly the kind of response one would expect from those who would not know it if it was right under their noses...DUH!!!

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Mon 12/01/08 10:52 AM

Case in point...apparently NOT!!!


Why not? You're just sounding bitter.

Riding_Dubz's photo
Mon 12/01/08 10:53 AM

" I'll write more later"


did you just look at my profile,

laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

o0SilentHero0o's photo
Mon 12/01/08 10:59 AM
Edited by o0SilentHero0o on Mon 12/01/08 11:01 AM


" I'll write more later"


did you just look at my profile,

laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh


Ha... you are one of those people...
Come on now... you can do better than that...
How are you suppose to get any of the ladies attention?
I mean, that's what you want right?

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Mon 12/01/08 11:00 AM
I'm not shy. I don't do shy, I don't understand shy, and I don't relate to shy.

I'm not laid back, I don't want a laid back guy looking to have fun, and in my opinion guys who describe themselves as laid back are lazy and apathetic, passionless about life. They usually have jobs, not careers, and loathe what they do. They don't vote or cook.

I'm outspoken and assertive and I adore laughing and learning. I want the same in my potential partner.

I'm thrilled to be in that 15%.

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