You need to talk to the man about your concerns. Did you do this and he said he wasn't feeling it but still interested? Confusion....keep asking questions until you know where you two stand. Stop being afraid to initiate contact or ask questions. If a guy feels this is "coming on too strong" it is an excuse not to see you. Communication is the most important thing and being honest goes along with that.

Good luck to you. If he is not the one go ask out another guy and see what happens. People are too afraid to do such things and this is a prime reason why they remain alone. Happy holidays and wish you good luck.

ok maybe it's not as simple as I originally thought.. it was just one date.. but you said you met him on the PC.. how long or often were you talking on the PC? Does he still talk on the PC the same way? and the part about keep asking questions til you know where you stand.. if you were just chatting once in a while.. and then just had one date.. thats where you stand.. I wouldn't worry about where I stand unless I felt the relationship was getting a little serious...

You just reminded me of this quote I read sometime ago.. something about..
Life has taught us that love does not consist in gazing at each other but in looking outward together in the same direction.

If a ldr is working.. go for it...

Thank you, we talked a lot before we met, I just felt a lot of mixed messeges, tonight I let him know I think we are looking for two different things and thank you for the last seeral weeks and wished him the best of luck. He said he was sorry I felt that way and wished me luck as well.

ask him what kind of bike.....and whats wrong!!!!


geesh....his ride is broke and your worried about a date.....