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Topic: GUYS I NEED SOME ADVICE
hgraham88's photo
Sat 12/27/08 09:53 AM
I started talking to this guy. Now he never txts me I always txt him then he never answers back right away if he answers at all. But during a convo we had last night he told me that he thinks we will be really good together and that I'm beautiful. So I'm REALLY REALLY confused! I need some advice is he in to me or not?

mssilverfox's photo
Sat 12/27/08 09:55 AM
Maybe he doesn't have a text plan with his phon, some people don't..

MeChrissy2's photo
Sat 12/27/08 09:55 AM
My advice darlin is be careful. This does not compute.

no photo
Sat 12/27/08 09:55 AM
first of all being an older man I will say this... no he is not or he is to childish to realize.... your a beautiful woman so why the aloofness from him... be careful very very careful.smokin

misstina2's photo
Sat 12/27/08 09:56 AM
flowerforyou I say if ya have to ask then probaly notflowerforyou

Jhavez's photo
Sat 12/27/08 09:57 AM
The next time you are on the phone with him, just ask him why he does not reply to your text. Maybe he just does not like to text.

no photo
Sat 12/27/08 09:59 AM

first of all being an older man I will say this... no he is not or he is to childish to realize.... your a beautiful woman so why the aloofness from him... be careful very very careful.smokin


I agree its that or he just wants one thing so he talks to her just enugh to get what it is that he wants

hgraham88's photo
Sat 12/27/08 09:59 AM

flowerforyou I say if ya have to ask then probaly notflowerforyou


But then why would he say that he thinks we could be good together and he always calls me babe you know.

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Sat 12/27/08 10:01 AM
Edited by special_guy on Sat 12/27/08 10:01 AM

I started talking to this guy. Now he never txts me I always txt him then he never answers back right away if he answers at all. But during a convo we had last night he told me that he thinks we will be really good together and that I'm beautiful. So I'm REALLY REALLY confused! I need some advice is he in to me or not?



Check it out... make sure he isn't married or something... use a little comman sense... be nice in case it really is nothing.... and definately don't give it up until you know for sure....don't make me have to give you an indian name like spreadslikebutter

just use a little common sense and don't get into anythign your not comfortable with


hgraham88's photo
Sat 12/27/08 10:01 AM


first of all being an older man I will say this... no he is not or he is to childish to realize.... your a beautiful woman so why the aloofness from him... be careful very very careful.smokin


I agree its that or he just wants one thing so he talks to her just enugh to get what it is that he wants


but then the question is all we do is txt or IM so i'm not sleeping with him so there is no incentive to string me along

misstina2's photo
Sat 12/27/08 10:01 AM
flowerforyou


flowerforyou I say if ya have to ask then probaly notflowerforyou


But then why would he say that he thinks we could be good together and he always calls me babe you know.
Sometimes we don't know why people say things,the simple truth is if he was that into you he'd make sure you knew and find away to be with youflowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

hgraham88's photo
Sat 12/27/08 10:02 AM
Trust me I'm not a slut lol I know guys will all say things you want to hear

SB28481's photo
Sat 12/27/08 10:03 AM
If he likes you, then you should be on his mind and he should be excited to be getting a text from you and answer back. If he isn't then its not a good sign. I have been there and every time a guy started doing that he was either cheating, or up to no good.

hgraham88's photo
Sat 12/27/08 10:03 AM
I know that, but he is soo cute and really sweet. I hate dating lol its been such a long time since i had to put my self out there like this

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Sat 12/27/08 10:06 AM



first of all being an older man I will say this... no he is not or he is to childish to realize.... your a beautiful woman so why the aloofness from him... be careful very very careful.smokin


I agree its that or he just wants one thing so he talks to her just enugh to get what it is that he wants


but then the question is all we do is txt or IM so i'm not sleeping with him so there is no incentive to string me along


No incentive other than having a pretty girl sitting there on a string just waiting for him to give it a little tug.

Nice little ego boost with very little effort involved.

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Sat 12/27/08 10:07 AM
i would move on...sry but if he wants you let him chase you...

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sat 12/27/08 10:08 AM

I know that, but he is soo cute and really sweet. I hate dating lol its been such a long time since i had to put my self out there like this


So the fact that he is aloof and acts like a dink is totally disregarded because he is " soo cute and sweet "???

Come on. Seriously???

If you don't feel like you deserve better than that...well..more power to you I suppose.

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Sat 12/27/08 10:12 AM
Edited by foxrider on Sat 12/27/08 10:14 AM
Why do women over analyze everything. Why dont you ask instead of assume whats going on. He could not have a txt plan. He could not get great cell service at his house, and he also could not carry around his phone 24 /7. Why do people get in the mindset that they like me if they do everything I want them to do without telling them anything? People dont have ESP... The key to any good relationship is communicating not trying to figure stuff out...

hgraham88's photo
Sat 12/27/08 10:17 AM

Why do women over analyze everything. Why dont you ask instead of assume whats going on. He could not have a txt plan. He could not get great cell service at his house, and he also could not carry around his phone 24 /7. Why do people get in the mindset that they like me if they do everything I want them to do without telling them anything? People dont have ESP... The key to any good relationship is communicating not trying to figure stuff out...


You people certainly get vicious lol

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Sat 12/27/08 10:18 AM


Why do women over analyze everything. Why dont you ask instead of assume whats going on. He could not have a txt plan. He could not get great cell service at his house, and he also could not carry around his phone 24 /7. Why do people get in the mindset that they like me if they do everything I want them to do without telling them anything? People dont have ESP... The key to any good relationship is communicating not trying to figure stuff out...


You people certainly get vicious lol


Not really. We've just seen a whole lot of people getting yanked around.

Most of us have been through it and we have realized that no one really deserves that kind of crap.

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