Its not always possible. Sometimes circumstances are out of our control. Its not in our hands always to be able to change something. Once in awhile, we need to accept that, despite our best efforts, things only stay the same or get worse. My hunch is that for a lot of the people drawn to an ad and a site like that, loneliness is something they feel powerless to change on their own. Perhaps they know what they have, but they don't know what could be. There's always the possibility that it could be worse. Society does make it very difficult for single women, divorced women, especially single, divorced, mothers. Its frowned upon even in this day and age.

after your in my arms you will never concider that banner again