Topic: Attraction
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Mon 01/05/09 11:33 AM

the too-sweet one would be sickening after awhile.

give me the one that keeps me on my toes (but don't let him know that's what i desire cause if he tries to, on purpose, it actually becomes revolting not attracting).


Yes, exactly.

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Mon 01/05/09 05:42 PM

smittenAre you more attracted to someone who challenges you or someone who is just super sweet?smitten

Someone kind and caring and loving who challenges me to grow emotionally and blossom in beauty from the inside out.

luckyguy2008's photo
Mon 01/05/09 07:05 PM
I want both, but if I had to choose, I would say challenge, no sweet, no challenge, no sweet, no...frustrated frustrated frustrated

PATSFAN's photo
Mon 01/05/09 07:10 PM
Both, but I also want someone to worship medevil

nurjoyce's photo
Mon 01/05/09 07:14 PM


aww i like both.
agreed. You have to challenge me and know when to be sweet.


i agree both
who wants one without the other?

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 01/06/09 01:12 AM

Both, but I also want someone to worship medevil
laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

keepthehope's photo
Tue 01/06/09 01:19 AM
I like both. They almost NEED to both be there, at least in my opinion.

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 01/27/09 04:46 AM

Fade2Black's photo
Tue 01/27/09 05:25 AM

smittenAre you more attracted to someone who challenges you or someone who is just super sweet?smitten


don't do well with super sweet :wink:

prisoner's photo
Tue 01/27/09 05:52 AM
:smile: challenges,i'm glad my fwb is a tuff broad,it has made me a stronger person...i have been with spineless train wrecks b4 and they are not for me...be seeing you

DragonFlyTat's photo
Tue 01/27/09 09:20 AM
challenges me intellectually

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 02/20/09 12:43 AM

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Fri 02/20/09 12:45 AM


smittenAre you more attracted to someone who challenges you or someone who is just super sweet?smitten

Someone kind and caring and loving who challenges me to grow emotionally and blossom in beauty from the inside out.

Just "how" that challenge happens isn't as important as the outcome, imho.

misstina2's photo
Fri 02/20/09 05:14 AM

Both, but I also want someone to worship medevil
on their kneesdevil

DragonFlyTat's photo
Fri 02/20/09 05:15 AM
A challenge is always good but they have to treat me with respect or it isn't going anywhere.

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Fri 02/20/09 05:28 AM
I'm attracted to both, but more so, one who challenges me

lilith401's photo
Fri 02/20/09 05:40 AM
Definitely challenges me. A person who does that, or especially one who is quite knowledgeable and shares that knowledge... ohhh baby!

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 02/20/09 10:30 PM

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Fri 02/20/09 11:36 PM

smittenAre you more attracted to someone who challenges you or someone who is just super sweet?smitten


I'm attracted to ladies who are genuinely nice to me. That's something in short supply here in L.A.- everyone's got their ulterior motives for getting into a relationship, and none of them have anything to do with affection or kindness.

tessa68's photo
Fri 02/20/09 11:37 PM
bothlove love love