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Topic: People You Might Be Interested In ?
Johncenawlife316's photo
Sat 01/10/09 10:50 PM
So have you ever contact any of those's people, when you click on show me more and you just search through it for the hell of it and you see this man or women,do you ever contact them or hope and sit back awaiting for them to contact you.

????? smitten what smitten

MirrorMirror's photo
Sat 01/10/09 10:52 PM

So have you ever contact any of those's people, when you click on show me more and you just search through it for the hell of it and you see this man or women,do you ever contact them or hope and sit back awaiting for them to contact you.

????? smitten what smitten
:smile: I contact them:smile:

Smilin_eyez's photo
Sat 01/10/09 10:53 PM
a couple times I've figures what the heck and said 'hi' .... but i wouldn't say i sat back and hoped for a reply... i mean that is a point of thise site... we can't all sit around and only expect others to make the first move..

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sat 01/10/09 10:53 PM
I'll occasionally send out an email.

Never get any responses but I'm not really expecting any.

I usually just email them to make a comment about something in their profile.

Winx's photo
Sat 01/10/09 10:54 PM
I don't email men first.

Johncenawlife316's photo
Sat 01/10/09 10:54 PM


So have you ever contact any of those's people, when you click on show me more and you just search through it for the hell of it and you see this man or women,do you ever contact them or hope and sit back awaiting for them to contact you.

????? smitten what smitten
:smile: I contact them:smile:


laugh I contact some of them.. I just guess they dislike me saying Hi or Hello.. never hear a word back from any of them. frustrated frustrated

jacaspian's photo
Sat 01/10/09 10:54 PM
Yes, I have contacted a lot more people than have contacted me back. Do I sit around and wait on them. No, I'd be here far too long if I did that...frustrated frustrated frustrated

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sat 01/10/09 10:55 PM

a couple times I've figures what the heck and said 'hi' .... but i wouldn't say i sat back and hoped for a reply... i mean that is a point of thise site... we can't all sit around and only expect others to make the first move..


I brought this up in a thread a while ago...

You would ( well...maybe not ) be surprised to find out just how many women actually do just that.

There is still a school of thought that it must be the man that makes first contact.

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sat 01/10/09 10:55 PM

I don't email men first.


See??

misstina2's photo
Sat 01/10/09 10:56 PM

I don't email men first.
I don't eitherflowerforyou

Johncenawlife316's photo
Sat 01/10/09 10:57 PM
Edited by Johncenawlife316 on Sat 01/10/09 10:58 PM


a couple times I've figures what the heck and said 'hi' .... but i wouldn't say i sat back and hoped for a reply... i mean that is a point of thise site... we can't all sit around and only expect others to make the first move..


I brought this up in a thread a while ago...

You would ( well...maybe not ) be surprised to find out just how many women actually do just that.

There is still a school of thought that it must be the man that makes first contact.


Yeah but it's freakin 2009 already.. women should jump on the band so to speak and say something.. I mean guys shouldn't have to do all of the work on these dating sites or none dating sites etc.


Then again unless that women is fake.. you would be the guy getting emails like crazy.. I guess that's why no guy ever get's an email from women now a days first. Unless she's not a live or a fake etc.. like from another country wanting your money etc.

Fragilis's photo
Sat 01/10/09 10:57 PM
I'll e-mail the guy unless they're hundreds of miles away :/

It just seems pointless to get attached to someone I'll never meet in my life... why get my hopes up? Why risk falling for that person?

So I just don't send them an e-mail. Every once in a while they'll e-mail me though, after seeing I've viewed their profile, and of course, they're friggin amazing.

*le sigh*

daleray1606's photo
Sat 01/10/09 10:57 PM


I send them a short note. If they reply great and if not... No worries...

no photo
Sat 01/10/09 10:59 PM
i try it just don't worktears

Johncenawlife316's photo
Sat 01/10/09 11:00 PM
Well I'm not at all worried if I get a respond back..

All my point was it would be nice to hear back from some one and just say hi back, this doesn't mean you have to keep speaking to that person etc.


JustAGuy2112's photo
Sat 01/10/09 11:00 PM
Edited by JustAGuy2112 on Sat 01/10/09 11:01 PM



a couple times I've figures what the heck and said 'hi' .... but i wouldn't say i sat back and hoped for a reply... i mean that is a point of thise site... we can't all sit around and only expect others to make the first move..


I brought this up in a thread a while ago...

You would ( well...maybe not ) be surprised to find out just how many women actually do just that.

There is still a school of thought that it must be the man that makes first contact.


Yeah but it's freakin 2009 already.. women should jump on the band so to speak and say something.. I mean guys shouldn't have to do all of the work on these dating sites or none dating sites etc.





I said something to that effect too.

The amount of women who responded with something like " That's just the way it should be " was astounding.

Especially when they sit there and say that men should " Grow a pair " and make contact .

Winx's photo
Sat 01/10/09 11:03 PM


I don't email men first.
I don't eitherflowerforyou


Great minds think alike.happy

Winx's photo
Sat 01/10/09 11:03 PM


I don't email men first.


See??


See what?

Johncenawlife316's photo
Sat 01/10/09 11:03 PM




a couple times I've figures what the heck and said 'hi' .... but i wouldn't say i sat back and hoped for a reply... i mean that is a point of thise site... we can't all sit around and only expect others to make the first move..


I brought this up in a thread a while ago...

You would ( well...maybe not ) be surprised to find out just how many women actually do just that.

There is still a school of thought that it must be the man that makes first contact.


Yeah but it's freakin 2009 already.. women should jump on the band so to speak and say something.. I mean guys shouldn't have to do all of the work on these dating sites or none dating sites etc.





I said something to that effect too.

The amount of women who responded with something like " That's just the way it should be " was astounding.

Especially when they sit there and say that men should " Grow a pair " and make contact .


lol.. gotca. which is too bad some women if not all of them feel that way.


odie3008's photo
Sat 01/10/09 11:03 PM
ive emailed about 10 different ladies that are near me but not 1 responsefrustrated frustrated frustrated

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