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Topic: Things that turn me away from certain profiles.. list yours.
23mBoredinKilleen Joined Fri 01/09/09 Posts: 377	Thu 01/15/09 02:46 PM
So then what is the point in getting upset if you know they are not on the same intellectual level and know that you won't be meeting them? Seems like a waste of perfectly good time/energy, doesn't it? I'm not sure why it upsets me. I do have an anger problem so that could be the reason, but it's not something I really control well. I mean I don't go out and beat someone down because of it. It's only a small amount of anger.. just a tad. heh

AndyBgood Joined Thu 12/25/08 Posts: 12437	Thu 01/15/09 02:48 PM
Almost next to nothing in their profile.

Mr_Music Joined Wed 10/22/08 Posts: 10677	Thu 01/15/09 02:48 PM
moon lit walks in the park... and hiking. You get on a dating site and suddenly EVERYONE hikes and goes on moonlit walks in the park or by the river. Come on now. After months of dating he hardly hikes his azz to the fridge to get his own beer. Don't forget "the beach" (ugh!)

polaritybear Joined Tue 10/16/07 Posts: 4669	Thu 01/15/09 02:49 PM
moon lit walks in the park... and hiking. You get on a dating site and suddenly EVERYONE hikes and goes on moonlit walks in the park or by the river. Come on now. After months of dating he hardly hikes his azz to the fridge to get his own beer. I have noticed the same "hiking" phenomena. Sometimes based on pics and other interests I highly doubt said person has ever contemplated hiking. I on the other hand do frequent the woods and mountains for hikes.

LilOlMeFromSD Joined Sat 01/10/09 Posts: 983	Thu 01/15/09 02:49 PM
So then what is the point in getting upset if you know they are not on the same intellectual level and know that you won't be meeting them? Seems like a waste of perfectly good time/energy, doesn't it? I'm not sure why it upsets me. I do have an anger problem so that could be the reason, but it's not something I really control well. I mean I don't go out and beat someone down because of it. It's only a small amount of anger.. just a tad. heh Well, perhaps try getting to the core of that issue and you might make some progress in the direction you desire.

Jess642 Joined Sat 03/31/07 Posts: 22732	Thu 01/15/09 02:50 PM
moon lit walks in the park... and hiking. You get on a dating site and suddenly EVERYONE hikes and goes on moonlit walks in the park or by the river. Come on now. After months of dating he hardly hikes his azz to the fridge to get his own beer. Don't forget "the beach" (ugh!) EXCCCCCUUUUUUUUUSSSSSSSSSSSSEEEEEEEEEEEE MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! And what pray tell is wrong with the beach??????????????????????? HUH??????????????

CaliChickCassie Joined Wed 01/14/09 Posts: 76	Thu 01/15/09 02:51 PM Edited by CaliChickCassie on Thu 01/15/09 02:53 PM
"I don't know what to write here." "I'll fill this out later." "My friend told me about this site and I'm not going to write anything here until I see if it's worth it." "Anything you want to know, you'll have to ask." "I'm laid back and easy going." "I love my friends and family." "I'm different from anyone else you've ever met." (Then their profile is a word-for-word identical copy of the last 285,000 I've read.) "I'm a single mother of two kids and they are my world." "No game players." "I like going out or staying in." "I'm a fun person who likes to have fun." (A COMPLETE profile from another site.) "I'm me." (Another complete profile -- how very informative!) Profile pictures with more than one person and they never bother to tell you which one the profile belongs to. Misspelled words are bad, yeah. Inability to use apostrophes correctly. "Tired of dating loosers." "Good sence of humor." etc. \ sounds like you want a woman with absolutely nothing or anyone in her life. maybe you'd be better off with a blow up doll. she doesn't say anything and has no attachment to anyone else ever!

polaritybear Joined Tue 10/16/07 Posts: 4669	Thu 01/15/09 02:51 PM
Almost next to nothing in their profile. Honestly, mine works wonders. Sometimes less is more.

polaritybear Joined Tue 10/16/07 Posts: 4669	Thu 01/15/09 02:53 PM
"I don't know what to write here." "I'll fill this out later." "My friend told me about this site and I'm not going to write anything here until I see if it's worth it." "Anything you want to know, you'll have to ask." "I'm laid back and easy going." "I love my friends and family." "I'm different from anyone else you've ever met." (Then their profile is a word-for-word identical copy of the last 285,000 I've read.) "I'm a single mother of two kids and they are my world." "No game players." "I like going out or staying in." "I'm a fun person who likes to have fun." (A COMPLETE profile from another site.) "I'm me." (Another complete profile -- how very informative!) Profile pictures with more than one person and they never bother to tell you which one the profile belongs to. Misspelled words are bad, yeah. Inability to use apostrophes correctly. "Tired of dating loosers." "Good sence of humor." etc. \ sounds like you want a woman with absolutely nothing or anyone in her life. maybe you'd be better off with a blow up doll. Or maybe Aiko.

CaliChickCassie Joined Wed 01/14/09 Posts: 76	Thu 01/15/09 02:54 PM
i just noticed that was rosie odonell's head on grizzly adams body lol

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Thu 01/15/09 02:56 PM
sounds like you want a woman with absolutely nothing or anyone in her life. maybe you'd be better off with a blow up doll. she doesn't say anything and has no attachment to anyone else ever! No, I want a woman who can think for herself and doesn't find it necessary to plagiarize the same profiles that 50 million other people have plagiarized. Someone who has her OWN mind, not a cardboard cutout who can't cope with an outside-the-box mentality. If I wanted cardboard, that's what MySpace is for. Oh, you're new....!

Mr_Music Joined Wed 10/22/08 Posts: 10677	Thu 01/15/09 03:00 PM
I get really sick of seeing profiles of people all talking about "the beach, the beach, the beach". "I like going to the beach." "I like long walks on the beach." "I spend a lot of time at the beach." Gag me already. If you don't automatically turn into a hiker or a moonlight walker, you turn into a fish. Gimme a friggin' break.

AngieH79 Joined Sun 09/07/08 Posts: 2494	Thu 01/15/09 03:00 PM
Referring to women as "chicks." Yeah, I'm going to be respected by that one.

sparksley Joined Wed 11/19/08 Posts: 169	Thu 01/15/09 03:01 PM
"I don't know what to write here." "I'll fill this out later." "My friend told me about this site and I'm not going to write anything here until I see if it's worth it." "Anything you want to know, you'll have to ask." "I'm laid back and easy going." "I love my friends and family." "I'm different from anyone else you've ever met." (Then their profile is a word-for-word identical copy of the last 285,000 I've read.) "I'm a single mother of two kids and they are my world." "No game players." "I like going out or staying in." "I'm a fun person who likes to have fun." (A COMPLETE profile from another site.) "I'm me." (Another complete profile -- how very informative!) Profile pictures with more than one person and they never bother to tell you which one the profile belongs to. Misspelled words are bad, yeah. Inability to use apostrophes correctly. "Tired of dating loosers." "Good sence of humor." etc. \ sounds like you want a woman with absolutely nothing or anyone in her life. maybe you'd be better off with a blow up doll. she doesn't say anything and has no attachment to anyone else ever! Actually, I am in total agreement with Lex on this one. What does any woman who relies on these stupid cliche's have to offer in terms of intelligence or originality? In the end, these might be all the qualities that are left. Even the best looking woman begins to sag and wrinkle with time, so she better have something more worthwhile than a cute face to offer if she is looking for long-term.

Jess642 Joined Sat 03/31/07 Posts: 22732	Thu 01/15/09 03:02 PM
I get really sick of seeing profiles of people all talking about "the beach, the beach, the beach". "I like going to the beach." "I like long walks on the beach." "I spend a lot of time at the beach." Gag me already. If you don't automatically turn into a hiker or a moonlight walker, you turn into a fish. Gimme a friggin' break. Poor little puddin'..... have a nice dummy spit???? Some like the beach some don't.... get over it... mr music....are you ready now?

CaliChickCassie Joined Wed 01/14/09 Posts: 76	Thu 01/15/09 03:03 PM
hahaha there are a lot of super judgemental people on here.

Mr_Music Joined Wed 10/22/08 Posts: 10677	Thu 01/15/09 03:03 PM
I get really sick of seeing profiles of people all talking about "the beach, the beach, the beach". "I like going to the beach." "I like long walks on the beach." "I spend a lot of time at the beach." Gag me already. If you don't automatically turn into a hiker or a moonlight walker, you turn into a fish. Gimme a friggin' break. Poor little puddin'..... have a nice dummy spit???? Some like the beach some don't.... get over it... mr music....are you ready now? I don't. Get over it.

sparksley Joined Wed 11/19/08 Posts: 169	Thu 01/15/09 03:04 PM
I have no problem being considered judgmental. I judge people all the time, just like you do every time you look at a profile.

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Thu 01/15/09 03:04 PM
"I don't know what to write here." "I'll fill this out later." "My friend told me about this site and I'm not going to write anything here until I see if it's worth it." "Anything you want to know, you'll have to ask." "I'm laid back and easy going." "I love my friends and family." "I'm different from anyone else you've ever met." (Then their profile is a word-for-word identical copy of the last 285,000 I've read.) "I'm a single mother of two kids and they are my world." "No game players." "I like going out or staying in." "I'm a fun person who likes to have fun." (A COMPLETE profile from another site.) "I'm me." (Another complete profile -- how very informative!) Profile pictures with more than one person and they never bother to tell you which one the profile belongs to. Misspelled words are bad, yeah. Inability to use apostrophes correctly. "Tired of dating loosers." "Good sence of humor." etc. \ sounds like you want a woman with absolutely nothing or anyone in her life. maybe you'd be better off with a blow up doll. she doesn't say anything and has no attachment to anyone else ever! Actually, I am in total agreement with Lex on this one. What does any woman who relies on these stupid cliche's have to offer in terms of intelligence or originality? In the end, these might be all the qualities that are left. Even the best looking woman begins to sag and wrinkle with time, so she better have something more worthwhile than a cute face to offer if she is looking for long-term. That's really my point -- if she can't write anything better than that -- if she can't write anything even remotely engaging or original at all -- why should I waste my time? Yet, about 98% of all the profiles I read are just that vapid and empty.

Jess642 Joined Sat 03/31/07 Posts: 22732	Thu 01/15/09 03:05 PM
I get really sick of seeing profiles of people all talking about "the beach, the beach, the beach". "I like going to the beach." "I like long walks on the beach." "I spend a lot of time at the beach." Gag me already. If you don't automatically turn into a hiker or a moonlight walker, you turn into a fish. Gimme a friggin' break. Poor little puddin'..... have a nice dummy spit???? Some like the beach some don't.... get over it... mr music....are you ready now? I don't. Get over it. What happened to the sense of humour? Did it get a bug up it's butt??? I like music, the beach and would vomit at a moonlit walk by the beach with music.... no biggy... get your groove back mr..