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Topic: Just want to be friends
Adamal29's photo
Sat 01/17/09 08:43 PM
I may be the odd one out here, but generally I don't even want to just be friends. I have guy friends to hang out with that are way more fun. If I girl I really like wants to just be my friend, I kinda just steer clear cuz it would be a painful friendship.

galendgirl's photo
Sat 01/17/09 09:00 PM

I may be the odd one out here, but generally I don't even want to just be friends. I have guy friends to hang out with that are way more fun. If I girl I really like wants to just be my friend, I kinda just steer clear cuz it would be a painful friendship.


Sometimes women DO have guy friends and it doesn't get weird...not so much the hanging out, drinking a beer and watching the game sort of friendship, but friendship all the same.

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 01/18/09 11:05 AM


I may be the odd one out here, but generally I don't even want to just be friends. I have guy friends to hang out with that are way more fun. If I girl I really like wants to just be my friend, I kinda just steer clear cuz it would be a painful friendship.


Sometimes women DO have guy friends and it doesn't get weird...not so much the hanging out, drinking a beer and watching the game sort of friendship, but friendship all the same.
bigsmile trueflowerforyou

mchstiger06's photo
Sun 01/18/09 11:12 AM

You just have to be straight forward with them in a nice way so no feelings get hurt. They'll appreciate it for not leading them on and giving them false hopes.


she said it perfectly.
if the person is truly your friend, they will understand and get over it. if they don't get over it, it's probably best that you aren't friends anymore, anyway. it would just lead to you being stuck in a "relation****."

MirrorMirror's photo
Sat 01/24/09 05:56 AM


You just have to be straight forward with them in a nice way so no feelings get hurt. They'll appreciate it for not leading them on and giving them false hopes.


she said it perfectly.
if the person is truly your friend, they will understand and get over it. if they don't get over it, it's probably best that you aren't friends anymore, anyway. it would just lead to you being stuck in a "relation****."
flowerforyou

Drago01's photo
Sat 01/24/09 06:28 AM



bigsmile How do you make a guy/girl not like you when you just want to be friends?bigsmile

Just be direct and clear about it, in a round about way. frustrated

freeonthree's photo
Sat 01/24/09 11:08 AM



bigsmile How do you make a guy/girl not like you when you just want to be friends?bigsmile


If they can't understand plain english, try a baseball bat smokin

Cristina4fun's photo
Sat 01/24/09 12:23 PM
The sad part is once a friend has developed intimate feelings, the friendship is over. It'll never be the same.

DTHRomeo's photo
Sat 01/24/09 12:40 PM

The sad part is once a friend has developed intimate feelings, the friendship is over. It'll never be the same.


I agree

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