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I always try to focus on other things to keep my mind and my heart from having a melt down.
Its hard but these things make us stronger-and oneday when you look back on the situation you will probably see that... remember the song "unanswered prayers"?? Everything happens for a reason so try to stay positive- Remember that good things fall apart so that better things can fall together- |
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Sometimes you dont move on and maybe that is good and bad...........it depends on the circumstances............I think if you think you tried your hardest to hold on an it wast reciprocated back then you should move on..............but if its external circumstances that ended the relationship then you just wait.....it can be had to let someone go but sometimes it is a positive thing if you learn form it............what is the problem exactly? Oh I went over this on some other threads, and people are probably sick of my whining by now but here is the extremely short version: Met this girl and thought she was the greatest thing ever. She claimed I was the greatest thing ever also. Had her meet my parents and the whole bit. Found out she had been physically and emotionally abused by several men. After quite awile she just completely switched gears from me being the best thing that ever happend to her to her not even wanting to talk to me. At first she said she really wanted things to work out, but was never clear on what needed to be "worked out" even when asked. I saw the writing on the wall, but hung in there, and finally she gave me the boot. (and still managed to tell me how great I treated her) I was devestated. I have been through breakups before, but this one for some reason hit me like a ton of bricks. if she`s been in abusive relationships,..she`s probably grew up in an abusive home,.'love' to her is pain & suffering,..anything else is foreign,..and doesn`t know how to accept it,. also,..your attraction to her is a red flag ( hit me like a ton of bricks ) by choosing an emotionally unavailable partner,.and hangin on,.. I feel your pain,..been there before,..taught me I have some of my own serious issues to work on,.. |
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How do you move on from someone you thought was the "one." Someone you shared every interest with you could possibly imagine. Are there copies of the same type out there, but actually are willing to love you back? This is about where I am at right now. That's a really good question, and I wish I had a really good answer. I'm more or less in the same boat.... |
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 don't hit the bottle...you'll get shards of glass in your hand...be seeing you
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