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Topic: Is it possible to be happy?
MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 02/01/09 12:30 PM
smitten Is it possible to be happy in a relationship if the sex isn't good?smitten

MsCarmen's photo
Sun 02/01/09 12:31 PM
Not for me.

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Sun 02/01/09 12:31 PM
the sex can be improved if the two want to make it so

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Sun 02/01/09 12:35 PM
Yes,huhOh it would be good, Because if he or she knows what they are doing, they can make it enjoyable for both...drooldrool

misstina2's photo
Sun 02/01/09 12:35 PM
oh dam sex thoughts thanks but i have them regularly anywaysflowerforyou I think if you love someone the sex is goodlove

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Sun 02/01/09 12:36 PM

smitten Is it possible to be happy in a relationship if the sex isn't good?smitten


It's more the lack of affection that would probably ruin any kind of happiness. Like if the person you're dating suddenly bails on you because of some nebulous reason of theirs- that'd pretty much be a major buzzkill. LOL

But there doesn't necessarily have to be good sex in order to be happy. It'd HELP, of course, but it doesn't need to be there.

Jess642's photo
Sun 02/01/09 12:39 PM
When we project the responsibilities of our emotions onto someone else...(when we externalise ourselves)... we create a victim type achetype that is far from sustainable, or healthy for us.

When we OWN our own emotions... and are completely responsible for ourselves, of course one's 'happy-ness' isn't affected by good or bad sex.

If it isn't there... if it is not fulfilling, rewarding or enjoyable.... address the situation... that's why we have vocal chords...

:wink: bigsmile

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Sun 02/01/09 12:46 PM

When we project the responsibilities of our emotions onto someone else...(when we externalise ourselves)... we create a victim type achetype that is far from sustainable, or healthy for us.

When we OWN our own emotions... and are completely responsible for ourselves, of course one's 'happy-ness' isn't affected by good or bad sex.

If it isn't there... if it is not fulfilling, rewarding or enjoyable.... address the situation... that's why we have vocal chords...

:wink: bigsmile


If only more "ladies" would heed that advice...

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Sun 02/01/09 12:51 PM

smitten Is it possible to be happy in a relationship if the sex isn't good?smitten


oops I must have signed up for the wrong class?slaphead

I thought this was going to be:

Good sex causes a happy relationship 101 :wink:

Later...waving

Peccy's photo
Sun 02/01/09 12:54 PM
I could suffer through the first few times of it, but after that if it was still the same, it would need to be addressed.

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Sun 02/01/09 01:54 PM
To be sure, you have to start out with a "good" relationship, the rest, (sex) is about, learning about what makes each other tick, and be willing to work with it, and loving each enough, to make it happen...:smile:

SilentlyScreaming's photo
Sun 02/01/09 02:08 PM

smitten Is it possible to be happy in a relationship if the sex isn't good?smitten


it as for a while... but if the sex doesn't improve over time, the relationship won't last... sorry...

Seakolony's photo
Sun 02/01/09 02:10 PM
NO NO NO NO NO NO noway

Mr_Music's photo
Sun 02/01/09 02:14 PM

NO NO NO NO NO NO noway


Tell us how you really feel. :laughing:

Seakolony's photo
Sun 02/01/09 02:16 PM


NO NO NO NO NO NO noway


Tell us how you really feel. :laughing:

laugh I thought I just did!!:wink:

DTHRomeo's photo
Sun 02/01/09 04:28 PM
Someone once told me

"Siendo estupido seras feliz"ohwell

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Sun 02/01/09 04:56 PM
I think if it's the right relationship the sex IS good.

Adamal29's photo
Sun 02/01/09 05:00 PM
I agree with the above statement. If she just lays there and does nothing, and never improves, even when talked about...it isn't ment to be.

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Sun 02/01/09 05:02 PM

I agree with the above statement. If she just lays there and does nothing, and never improves, even when talked about...it isn't ment to be.
True- but sometimes we are not quite sure if it's in

Redshirt's photo
Sun 02/01/09 05:10 PM

smitten Is it possible to be happy in a relationship if the sex isn't good?smitten


Mirror - Good to see you back.

It would be difficult...then again anything is possible.

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