Topic: Tell or not to tell
CodyWozniak's photo
Fri 02/06/09 07:14 PM
Should you tell your best friend how you really feel b4 they move away??? Or just let them leave with no regrets or guilt?

Totage's photo
Fri 02/06/09 07:16 PM
F%&ck friends smokin

I moved away from my friends then when I moved back, they moved away, we don't keep in touch anymore.

ThomasJB's photo
Fri 02/06/09 07:17 PM

Should you tell your best friend how you really feel b4 they move away??? Or just let them leave with no regrets or guilt?

I say tell them. Just don't expect it to change anything.

PATSFAN's photo
Fri 02/06/09 07:18 PM
Let it go.......

galendgirl's photo
Fri 02/06/09 07:18 PM

Should you tell your best friend how you really feel b4 they move away??? Or just let them leave with no regrets or guilt?


Are they more than a best friend??? Are they less than a best friend??? Is there anything to be gained?

Your call...just remember words said can't be taken back, good or bad.

Drago01's photo
Fri 02/06/09 07:22 PM

Should you tell your best friend how you really feel b4 they move away??? Or just let them leave with no regrets or guilt?

Shouldnt you tell your best friend how you really feel all the time? I mean shoot, what r friends for?

SilentlyScreaming's photo
Fri 02/06/09 07:37 PM
i say tell them... but don't try to fool yourself into thinking it will make them stay...

no photo
Sun 02/08/09 04:18 AM
Why haven't you already told them?

In my experience, distance hasn't changed the friendship I have with my best friend. We can go forever without talking or seeing eachother, and then when we do, its like no time has passed.

Now, if you are interested in them as more than friends, I can see where that can be intimidating.. and I still say tell them.

ThomasJB's photo
Sun 02/08/09 07:34 AM
I think I understand what you are thinking. Your friend is leaving. You have had feelings for them that are than friendship, likely for some time, but you have not been brave enough to tell them. Now that she is leaving you feel that maybe you have nothing to lose.