I know I am going to catch heck from this. A nice lady tagged me on Mutual Match. Yes, miracles do happen. Well, to make it short. I am blocked from contacting her due to me smoking cigarettes. So, I don't know if my response went through.
I swear this is worse than trying to pass notes in class. For you younger folks. When us old folks wanted to pass messages in class, we wrote them on paper. Then prayed it made to the right person, before the teacher intercepted the note and read it to the rest of the class.
And,if you had a particularly nasty teacher, they would write the note on the blackboard verbatum!(Blackboards were repaced by dry erase boards)(again for the younger generation). Then grade said letter for spelling and grammer (Niether of which I excell at). And, if totally bored, the teacher would grade on topic and delivery!
But, if you see this. Please email me. I am already working on my habit. I sure as heck hope this works..........









OKAY, FRESH MEAT! I know I am going to catch heck for this!

Could you change your profile to non-smoking just long enough to send her an email explaining your situation? I know that's a little risky but maybe she would understand and continue the interaction that way. Or try to add her as a friend. Then you can email her no matter what her preferences are.

Maybe a non-smoker could relay a message for you....?

Several of my friends offered to do this for me here awhile back....

I thought of that. But, then I would be lieing.That isn't acceptable in my book. Self respect issue, I'll tell sea stories. But, nothing more.

Can you nudge her and get her attention that way?

No offense, I just think it's kind of odd that someone who blocks smokers is interested in a smoker? I mean, if you are going to be that strict about it, why bother to show interest?

Well, she does have one habit I Don't know about..... golf! But, I could be a nice guy and caddy I guess. I don't know what happened. But, I said yes on the Mutual Match thing and she dissapeared!

Should have figured. Said she lived less than 10 miles away.