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Topic: HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!!
Justlookin4love07's photo
Sat 04/28/07 10:25 PM
I don't know what I did to desuve this. It seems like every guy i get
with does me wrong and brakes my heart in 2. if anyone has something to
say that will make me happy or anything. please feel free to drop a line
or two.


love always kat

Morena350's photo
Sat 04/28/07 10:29 PM
WHY DON'T YOU TAKE YOUR TIME TO KNOW THE GUY REALLY GOOD
AND BECOME FRIENDS FIRST TO GET TO KNOW EACH OTHER AND WHAT HE IS ALL
ABOUT, IF YOU DO TAKE YOUR TIME YOU WILL AVOID A BROKEN HEART

I THINK SO!!

iceprincess's photo
Sat 04/28/07 10:29 PM
sorry girly but get used to it such is life and it's not gonna change
much in the near future

Boomhower25's photo
Sat 04/28/07 10:32 PM
Ouch Ice.
Anyway. If you have a bad pattern going on....ask why. See where your
making bad choices and go step By step. Good Luck
P.S the same that Morena said

seahawks's photo
Sat 04/28/07 10:34 PM
DAM GOOD SPANKIN FOR ICE!!!!!!!!!! LOL

iceprincess's photo
Sat 04/28/07 10:36 PM
OMG not all men are bad most are great it's a fact of life your gonna
get hurt get used to it and deal. I'm sorry any relationship your in
you'll get hurt and you will hurt the other party it's just to what
degree do you hurt each other.

Sea keep making promises baby but you never deliver

no photo
Sat 04/28/07 10:41 PM
hey--morena can tell ya better than i-------

no photo
Sat 04/28/07 10:43 PM
Kat -- Like it or not, we all have to remember there are a lot of bad
people in the world -- selfish, inconsiderate, manipulative people. We
all want to find someone we can trust and rely on, and sometimes we are
too quick to trust. People sometimes take advantage of that.

It's important to remember that YOU ARE BETTER OFF WITHOUT someone like
that in your life. That person may not hurt you today, or tomorrow, but
if he is that kind of person, you are going to get hurt eventually.

Being alone is not always fun, but you can survive it until you find
someone who is actually worthy of you.

And by that I mean you need to take your time when getting to know
someone. Don't ever believe you "need" someone in order to be a
complete and functional person. You are you, whether you're with
someone or not. You don't need another person to be complete -- what
you need is to be safe and secure and content within yourself, and not
be in such a rush to find someone.

When you hurry, you tend to make mistakes.

Justlookin4love07's photo
Sat 04/28/07 10:45 PM
i know that imm gonna get hurt but not so much at once.

Boomhower25's photo
Sat 04/28/07 10:46 PM
Self esteem is key .

Justlookin4love07's photo
Sat 04/28/07 10:47 PM
Ty lex im gonna take what u said to heart bc it seems like u know what
ur talkin bout

Boomhower25's photo
Sat 04/28/07 10:49 PM
Yeah Lex is right. Good one !

Mechela's photo
Sat 04/28/07 10:50 PM
Girl, that's life. people come and they go. I too experienced many
devistating heartbreaks. What I've learned is that it's important to
love yourself and God ,more than you love that person. remember that
everything happens 4 a reason. and what is meant will be. Sometimes we
settle for less and we choose assholes. we lower our standards just
because don't want to be lonely. Tuhh, stand your ground don't let your
guard down so easily, not meaning act like a stuck b****, but don't let
them score. Make them wait. If you take the time to get to know them and
study them before you have sex with you can tell what the outcome of the
relationship is going to be.Most men think that a relationship's
foundation is sex. AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAANp WRONG!!! It's more
about your chemistry mentally, emotionally, and spiritually.

no photo
Sat 04/28/07 10:53 PM
and i'm---sooooooooooooo-wrong----lol forgive, folks----

seahawks's photo
Sat 04/28/07 10:56 PM
MOST MEN !!!!!!!!!!! HEY HEY TRAIN BLOWIN !!!! LOL

Boomhower25's photo
Sat 04/28/07 10:58 PM
Even though..I think she's right. See it pice by piece..those lil things
last in time:smile:

iRon's photo
Sat 04/28/07 11:40 PM
In life all we can do is take responsibility for our actions as we have
no control over anybody else. So it sounds like to me its time for a
reevaluation of you. What can you do to avoid these types of
situations/men.

I can share with that one of the things I used to do is rush in to
relationships and not really getting to know the women until it was too
late.

You are young don’t rush it or worry about it. Just take time get to
know yourself, enjoy your life and live a good life. Then a good man
will want to be apart of who you are and will treat you the way you
deserve and remember you deserve only the best life has to offer.

Peace

Ron

chris87's photo
Sat 04/28/07 11:49 PM
well the only thing want is to have sex and thats it but do it how i do
it for every u break up wit just there pic on a peace of paper and
crumble it up and kick it to the side...

Justlookin4love07's photo
Sun 04/29/07 12:03 AM
I just wanna say ty to all of u that have opened my eyes.

Justlookin4love07's photo
Sun 04/29/07 12:08 AM
And im gonna listen to everything everyone has said to me.

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