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Topic: No, Never, Not Right Now, I am Sorry I Can't
whispertoascream's photo
Fri 02/20/09 08:21 PM
Edited by whispertoascream on Fri 02/20/09 08:27 PM
Do you ever have a hard time saying No?

I was approached by my teacher today asking if I would mind doing the school newsletter. And like some sort of idiot I said,"sure." Then she she went on to tell me that it needs to be done by early this week. I am at this point thinking to myself WTF! This week is only a three day school week, with a two day long exam happening on Monday and Tuesday, and this needs to be done by this week? DANG I know how to get myself into some tight situations. frustrated


So what about you? Are you a yes person or a no person?

longislandangel's photo
Fri 02/20/09 08:22 PM
I have had to learn to say NOOOO. Too used to saying yes.

no photo
Fri 02/20/09 08:24 PM
People know better than to ask me to do anything. If I like you, I'll proofread and edit stuff for you. If I REALLY like you, I'll name a character after you. That's about as far as I go.



7z3r05's photo
Fri 02/20/09 08:25 PM
i wish i could say yes more ofteb

whispertoascream's photo
Fri 02/20/09 08:26 PM

People know better than to ask me to do anything. If I like you, I'll proofread and edit stuff for you. If I REALLY like you, I'll name a character after you. That's about as far as I go.


Hmm it really is nice to be liked. ((((((Lex))))) Why are you not on Yahoo?

whispertoascream's photo
Fri 02/20/09 08:28 PM

i wish i could say yes more ofteb
I will teach you how to say yes, if you teach me how to say no.laugh

no photo
Fri 02/20/09 08:28 PM


People know better than to ask me to do anything. If I like you, I'll proofread and edit stuff for you. If I REALLY like you, I'll name a character after you. That's about as far as I go.


Hmm it really is nice to be liked. ((((((Lex))))) Why are you not on Yahoo?


I'm on a different computer right now. I did reactivate my old e-mail address (the one I used before the current one) so I should be able to access the IM through that again. Just have to set it up.

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whispertoascream's photo
Fri 02/20/09 08:28 PM
Edited by whispertoascream on Fri 02/20/09 08:28 PM

I have had to learn to say NOOOO. Too used to saying yes.
Welcome to the club girl. Cocktails on Tuesday.

MsCarmen's photo
Fri 02/20/09 08:29 PM
I have no problem saying no.

whispertoascream's photo
Fri 02/20/09 08:30 PM



People know better than to ask me to do anything. If I like you, I'll proofread and edit stuff for you. If I REALLY like you, I'll name a character after you. That's about as far as I go.


Hmm it really is nice to be liked. ((((((Lex))))) Why are you not on Yahoo?


I'm on a different computer right now. I did reactivate my old e-mail address (the one I used before the current one) so I should be able to access the IM through that again. Just have to set it up.

flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou


I never deleted the old one. Too many memories on that one. Right now sadly enough I am the only one on my friends list on Yahoo....laugh

whispertoascream's photo
Fri 02/20/09 08:30 PM

I have no problem saying no.
Do you give lessons?

no photo
Fri 02/20/09 08:31 PM




People know better than to ask me to do anything. If I like you, I'll proofread and edit stuff for you. If I REALLY like you, I'll name a character after you. That's about as far as I go.


Hmm it really is nice to be liked. ((((((Lex))))) Why are you not on Yahoo?


I'm on a different computer right now. I did reactivate my old e-mail address (the one I used before the current one) so I should be able to access the IM through that again. Just have to set it up.

flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou


I never deleted the old one. Too many memories on that one. Right now sadly enough I am the only one on my friends list on Yahoo....laugh



Ouch! I'll get that set up tomorrow, then we'll be able to resume that particular conversation....!



no photo
Fri 02/20/09 08:32 PM


I have no problem saying no.
Do you give lessons?
become a bitter suspicious pessimist.

JustAGuy2112's photo
Fri 02/20/09 08:33 PM

People know better than to ask me to do anything. If I like you, I'll proofread and edit stuff for you. If I REALLY like you, I'll name a character after you. That's about as far as I go.





What if I just sent you something and asked for your opinion, Lex???

cdanny47's photo
Fri 02/20/09 08:33 PM

I have no problem saying no.
Yes,,, I need a class on how to say NO!!!!! Tell me what your fee will be?????

MsCarmen's photo
Fri 02/20/09 08:33 PM


I have no problem saying no.
Do you give lessons?


I think the biggest reason people can't say no is they are afraid they are going to hurt the person's feelings or disappoint them.

Once you can get past that part and realize that you are only putting yourself out by saying yes all the time, you can say no to pretty much anything.

whispertoascream's photo
Fri 02/20/09 08:40 PM



I have no problem saying no.
Do you give lessons?


I think the biggest reason people can't say no is they are afraid they are going to hurt the person's feelings or disappoint them.

Once you can get past that part and realize that you are only putting yourself out by saying yes all the time, you can say no to pretty much anything.
You know you are right. I was given the articles to put in the newsletter, and was told that I did not need to use all of them, but I just can't bring myself to leave anybody. Most of them were written by my fellow students and children under 11. One article is a conversation between a 2.5 year old and her mom about smoking.

whispertoascream's photo
Fri 02/20/09 08:41 PM





People know better than to ask me to do anything. If I like you, I'll proofread and edit stuff for you. If I REALLY like you, I'll name a character after you. That's about as far as I go.


Hmm it really is nice to be liked. ((((((Lex))))) Why are you not on Yahoo?


I'm on a different computer right now. I did reactivate my old e-mail address (the one I used before the current one) so I should be able to access the IM through that again. Just have to set it up.

flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou


I never deleted the old one. Too many memories on that one. Right now sadly enough I am the only one on my friends list on Yahoo....laugh



Ouch! I'll get that set up tomorrow, then we'll be able to resume that particular conversation....!





That would be nice.flowerforyou

whispertoascream's photo
Fri 02/20/09 08:45 PM



I have no problem saying no.
Do you give lessons?
become a bitter suspicious pessimist.
The pessimist sees difficulty in every opportunity. The optimist sees the opportunity in ever difficulty.

~Winston Churchill~

no photo
Fri 02/20/09 09:28 PM
I'm great at saying NO...
I used to be the YES girl, but that got old real quick....

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