Topic: Please help me understand...
redhead44613's photo
Sat 02/21/09 03:05 PM






question?? have you ever even talked to him on the phone


I've talked to my bf on the phone and webcam before all this happened. Talked to him just the night before Valentines day.
I have never talked to his dad. My bf's best friend called me to tell me he was in the hospital.


but yet you didnt say what part of the usa he was from


He is in New Jersey
hehehe thats where I am woot. what part of Jersey?


He went to West Milford high and goes to college in Montclair
well I just moved here myself but I know Montclair is close by.. I live in Montville.

I_need_a_smoke_break's photo
Sat 02/21/09 03:05 PM






question?? have you ever even talked to him on the phone


I've talked to my bf on the phone and webcam before all this happened. Talked to him just the night before Valentines day.
I have never talked to his dad. My bf's best friend called me to tell me he was in the hospital.


but yet you didnt say what part of the usa he was from


He is in New Jersey
hehehe thats where I am woot. what part of Jersey?


hey redhead can find out all the info that you need to know...


How?

oldsage's photo
Sat 02/21/09 03:05 PM
Call the local hospitals & verify the story first.

I_need_a_smoke_break's photo
Sat 02/21/09 03:06 PM







question?? have you ever even talked to him on the phone


I've talked to my bf on the phone and webcam before all this happened. Talked to him just the night before Valentines day.
I have never talked to his dad. My bf's best friend called me to tell me he was in the hospital.


but yet you didnt say what part of the usa he was from


He is in New Jersey
hehehe thats where I am woot. what part of Jersey?


He went to West Milford high and goes to college in Montclair
well I just moved here myself but I know Montclair is close by.. I live in Montville.


Cool.

I'm figuring if his dad wont reply to me, then I'll just go to his college and see if I can't get any info there.

redhead44613's photo
Sat 02/21/09 03:09 PM
You need to find out what hosp. are close an call them all asking if he is there.. I would really hate to see you come all this way an end up getting screwed over. Do a little research first.

Queene123's photo
Sat 02/21/09 03:14 PM

You need to find out what hosp. are close an call them all asking if he is there.. I would really hate to see you come all this way an end up getting screwed over. Do a little research first.


EXACTLY!!! research everything. you shouldnt had bought the ticket first...

you should verify everything before you go overboard..

email redhead and give her all the info and let her check it out for you, sense she is close by

Queene123's photo
Sat 02/21/09 03:15 PM








question?? have you ever even talked to him on the phone


I've talked to my bf on the phone and webcam before all this happened. Talked to him just the night before Valentines day.
I have never talked to his dad. My bf's best friend called me to tell me he was in the hospital.


but yet you didnt say what part of the usa he was from


He is in New Jersey
hehehe thats where I am woot. what part of Jersey?


He went to West Milford high and goes to college in Montclair
well I just moved here myself but I know Montclair is close by.. I live in Montville.


Cool.

I'm figuring if his dad wont reply to me, then I'll just go to his college and see if I can't get any info there.


the college wont give you any info.. just like a work place they wont tell a anyone if that person works there or not.

MirrorMirror's photo
Sat 02/21/09 03:15 PM

I met an amazing boy on here back in early November last year and we decided to offically start dating a month ago. The hardest part is that we live on two completely different sides of the U.S. Yet, we don't mind at all and still love eachother. There's no physical connection between us, but an emotional one. Which is far more important than anything I could ever ask for.
On Valentines day, his kidney stones were causing such pain to his body that it resulted in a shock that gave him a heart attack. He's only 19 years old. His condition has been changing back and forth for the last week and my only connection to his condition is through his dad.
His dad doesn't like us being together though because they have never met me and I wasn't able to be at the hospital with him. I just bought a plane ticket yesterday to fly over there to see him this coming tuesday. I'm basically putting myself in debt and will probably have to drop out of college for a few quarters so that I can pay it all back; and once I'm out of college I lose my health insurance. I'm giving up work time, college, health care and possibly my parents trust just to be there for my boyfrien. Now his dad won't reply to me and is basically trying to shut me out completely and break us apart.
He said he doesn't want his only son to get hurt. I understand that but to try and shut me out of his son's life while he is going through a rough time? That doesn't sound like he really cares that much because the one person his son wanted to call after he woke up in the hospital was me and his dad is basically saying he doesn't care what his son wants.
I don't know what to do. Please help me understand why his dad wants to keep me from seeing him and how I can possibly still go over there and meet him.
:smile: I just hope this guy is legit:smile:

redhead44613's photo
Sat 02/21/09 03:18 PM
Girl...please do some research!! I have been down that road once an it sucks an hurts. I didn't do research an ended up in PA with no where to go an no money...nothing at all!! find out what hosp are close by an call them!!! please!

Queene123's photo
Sat 02/21/09 03:24 PM

Girl...please do some research!! I have been down that road once an it sucks an hurts. I didn't do research an ended up in PA with no where to go an no money...nothing at all!! find out what hosp are close by an call them!!! please!


YEPPS!! you need to listen and quit being so stubborn before you get into trouble.

Queene123's photo
Sat 02/21/09 03:26 PM

Call the local hospitals & verify the story first.


YEPPS.. I WOULD HAD DONE THAT

in fact there was this guy that i was seeing over a year ago. and he told me where he worked but guess what. he didnt work there. only his brother nlaw did..

everything he told me was a lie, and i knew it. as i tested my theroy

I_need_a_smoke_break's photo
Sun 02/22/09 09:38 AM
I dunno what to do anymore....
I'm cancelling the plane ticket.
And just gonna give up. I'm tired of this game with his dad.
If he still cares about me, he'll have to just come find me.

motowndowntown's photo
Sun 02/22/09 09:40 AM

I dunno what to do anymore....
I'm cancelling the plane ticket.
And just gonna give up. I'm tired of this game with his dad.
If he still cares about me, he'll have to just come find me.

good call

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Sun 02/22/09 09:40 AM
giving up sounds like the thing to do



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Sun 02/22/09 09:41 AM


I dunno what to do anymore....
I'm cancelling the plane ticket.
And just gonna give up. I'm tired of this game with his dad.
If he still cares about me, he'll have to just come find me.

good call



Very good call. The whole scenario reeks.

Queene123's photo
Sun 02/22/09 03:20 PM
you cant actually cancel the plane ticket. for they wont refund your money.

so you just lost out a bunch of money on something foolish you should had check into before you went overboard.

and you should still call the hospitol to make sure he is actually there.

for there was a member on here, i cant recall his name. but he was with someone as where he was told she was dying and in the hospitol, as to find out it was nothing but a scam

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Sun 02/22/09 03:29 PM
How long have you been seeing this young man?

Have you actually met in real life?

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Sun 02/22/09 03:37 PM
did the friend call your cell number? If so, call the number back and get the name of the hospital.

MsCarmen's photo
Sun 02/22/09 03:39 PM

you cant actually cancel the plane ticket. for they wont refund your money.



If it's a refundable ticket, then she can get her money back.

Queene123's photo
Sun 02/22/09 03:41 PM


you cant actually cancel the plane ticket. for they wont refund your money.



If it's a refundable ticket, then she can get her money back.


i didnt think any plane tickets were refunable
i do know if your late catching your schedule time (and miss it)you have to pay extra