Topic: Spay....3 days and counting.....
Morena350's photo
Wed 05/02/07 04:23 PM
SMELLS FISHY SIS!!!sick

songbirrd's photo
Wed 05/02/07 04:23 PM
*watches it unravel in silence*



Spay would be laughing now.

buckethand56's photo
Wed 05/02/07 04:24 PM
lex, leave morena alone, she was just venting, and as far as I am
concerned she is right

songbirrd's photo
Wed 05/02/07 04:24 PM
What the crap? Muahahaha posted twice? It said "error"sad laugh

buckethand56's photo
Wed 05/02/07 04:26 PM
lex, leave morea alone, she is just venting, just like you are, and for
the record I think she is right.

no photo
Wed 05/02/07 04:27 PM
Buck, I'm just pointing out a couple facts.

Whose fault is it he sent the e-mail?

Gonna have one hell of a time blaming THAT on anybody other than the
sender!

Reap what you sow....

Morena350's photo
Wed 05/02/07 04:29 PM
I BELIEVE THAT I HAVE THE RIGHT TO EXPRESS MY FEELINGS, AND IF I HAVE I
WILL, SORRY BUT MY FEELINGS ARE MY FEELINGS
AND IM NOT HURTING NO ONE WITH WHAT I SAID OR BASHING,
BELIEVE ME IF I WAS YOU WOULD KNOW AND EVERYONE ELSE HERE AS WELL CUZ IM
CLEAR AS WATER IN MY POST AND THOUGHTS AS I WRITE ALL THE TIME
AND IF IM OFFENDING YOU WITH WHAT I SAID, IM FEEL SORRY FOR YOU
KNOW I KNOW SPAY REALLY TOUCHED YOUR WOUND FOR SOME REASON
CUZ WHY ARE YOU GETTING MAD AT OTHER PEOPLES POST, WHEN YOUR BEEF IS
WITH SPAY? DO YOU HATE HIM THAT MUCH? THAT EVEN WHEN ANYONE MENTION HIS
NAME YOU LASH OUT AT THEM,
I DID NOTHING TO YOU, SO WHY ARE YOU TALKING TO ME THAT WAY,, HUH?

tantalizingtulip's photo
Wed 05/02/07 04:29 PM
lex you have made ur point several times now!!!


everyone heard u the first time let it go...


cripes.

buckethand56's photo
Wed 05/02/07 04:32 PM
Lex I will ask nicely, LET IT GO, or I may be the next to get banned,
leave morena alone

lily38's photo
Wed 05/02/07 04:33 PM
Well, ya know, Kerry, some people cannot accept the fact that we choose
our friends and our opinions according to our own personal decision
based on the facts giving us. Some people think if they keep DRIVING A
POINT like a freakin' jackhammer they will be able to force it on
others. Some people feel the need to strive for a God-like status
online, because they can't quite cut it in the outside world. They live
vicariously through their online personas......I know it is
sad....pathetic, really.....but if permitted, they can use a site as
their new playing field. A pseudo-form of getting back at those grade
school bullies..............

tantalizingtulip's photo
Wed 05/02/07 04:33 PM
Kerry don't take it via...

I have made new friends here and some of you, are them....


dont waste your breath on garble.

mike's photo
Wed 05/02/07 04:33 PM
Folks -

Just to be very clear on this - no one did anything to Spay. For
example, just because someone gets an abuse report doesn't mean they are
automatically banned or suspended. We get tons of abuse reports every
day, but VERY few people are suspended or banned. I can count on one
hand the number of permanent bans we've given.

Every report is investigated thoroughly so we can determine what really
happened and who's at fault. No abuse report is taken at its word - we
always check to make sure the information contained within them is
accurate first.

Our actions are based on the facts and our rules for the site, nothing
more. We were not influenced by the people who like Spay, or the people
who don't. This is how we make decisions for all users, not just Spay.
We make decisions based on our own judgment. So you can't blame the
people who don't like Spay for his being banned. And for those of you
who think Spay was allowed on the site for too long as it is, you can't
blame Spay fans for that either. If you want to be mad at anyone, be
mad at Vanchau and I.

In Spay's instance, he was given every opportunity to stay on the site.
We gave him multiple warnings before suspending him, and even gave him
warnings during his suspension. If he had behaved himself, he could
have stayed. But for some reason, he couldn't. He was warned prior to
his banning that this was his last chance, but he still attacked another
user unprovoked, even while he was suspended. And that was the last
straw.

I just want to make sure everyone understands how we try to enforce the
rules on the site. We absolutely do not take banning lightly. Frankly,
we hate doing it. But we will do it if we have to. Users who
continually attack or abuse other users will be banned, regardless of
how long they've been on the site or how many friends they have. That
is not the kind of atmosphere we will permit.

Thanks for listening.


Morena350's photo
Wed 05/02/07 04:33 PM
BUCK, HE IS SO UPSET AND THE EMAIL WASN'T SEND TO HIM
NOW LETS FORGET ABOUT THIS AND KEEP THE PEACE, BABY

lily38's photo
Wed 05/02/07 04:34 PM
Beautifully stated, Morena!drinker

Morena350's photo
Wed 05/02/07 04:37 PM
MIKE I DO UNDERSTAND YOU POINT, AND YOU KNOW I DO
BUT WE ARE JUST EXPRESSING FEELINGS AS USUAL, WHEN ONE OF US GETS BANNED
PERMANENTLY, THERE IS NO REASON FOR LEX TO TAKE IT PERSONAL WITH ME I
CAN EXPRESS MY FEELINGS, NOT TO HIM..

lily38's photo
Wed 05/02/07 04:38 PM
Mike, it's your site.....do it your way. Maybe Spay was wrong for some
things,but I really think you should dig a whole lot deeper. This isn't
just Spay. There are ulterior motives at play. Maybe you and Van don't
see it, but there is a buttload of us who do.

buckethand56's photo
Wed 05/02/07 04:38 PM
Sorry morena, don't like anyone attacking my babes, I will back out for
awhile, love you gals, see you later

Morena350's photo
Wed 05/02/07 04:40 PM
LOVE YA 2 HANDSOME

mike's photo
Wed 05/02/07 04:43 PM
Edited by mike on Wed 05/02/07 04:46 PM
Morena -

Yes, I know you're upset that a friend was banned which is perfectly
natural and absolutely understandable. Hopefully my post at least helps
to explain why the banning occurred and eliminate any question at all of
favoritism, etc. And I also hope BOTH sides, both Spay fans AND Spay
haters, can see the other sides perspective. Some people have lost a
friend here which is never fun. I just hope those fans can also
understand why we acted.

Thanks,
Mike

lily38's photo
Wed 05/02/07 04:43 PM
Kerry, you are a true gentelman...The beautifully stated was in
referrence to Morenas post in referrence to Lex. He needed to hear that.
Love you lots, Kerry. Thanks for having our backs! flowerforyou