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I love you Mirror
well thank you I wasnt expecting that Jill
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Im feelin a bit dumb here! but wat do you mean by "practical"? Is it a good idea to tell someone you met online that you love them?
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what is practical
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Is it practical to tell someone you met online that you love them?
If you haven't met them in person .... I don't belive so .... There are two very equal and separate parts to being IN love. Both the physical chemistry as well as the emotional connection are needed for romantic love. A person might 'love' someone else by their online persona but not necessarily be IN love with them. I have met a few guys online that I swore I could marry based on our phone conversations and emails. Once I met them in person, that attraction waned to friendship because the physical chemistry just wasn't there.
Wow! You had people wanting to marry you that never met you in person?
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sure..if you love someone why hide it? do you really have to met someone face to face to tell if you are in love? I think not.. love is more about falling for that persons personalty.... if you can trust that person is being honest with you about everything then I don't see why you can't love them.
You have an excellent point Britney
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heres the definition of practical I felt was appropiate for this question Level-headed, efficient, and unspeculative.
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Im feelin a bit dumb here! but wat do you mean by "practical"? Is it a good idea to tell someone you met online that you love them?
Ahh, i see, well is this in the romantic sense? then i would be a bit reluctant to say i loved someone i had never spent any real time with...its hard to trust ur feelings when dealing with online encounters, real life meeting is the defining moment of determining exactly wat u feel for them. Hasty imo. If however we r talking about friends, then i think thats ok. |
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Is love practical?
What do you think Tina?
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I like to think of it as "I love the concept of you"... I'll know more once we meet face to face. I agree. |
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Im feelin a bit dumb here! but wat do you mean by "practical"? same here?
How do you define it?
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Is it practical to tell someone you met online that you love them?
If you haven't met them in person .... I don't belive so .... There are two very equal and separate parts to being IN love. Both the physical chemistry as well as the emotional connection are needed for romantic love. A person might 'love' someone else by their online persona but not necessarily be IN love with them. I have met a few guys online that I swore I could marry based on our phone conversations and emails. Once I met them in person, but that attraction waned to friendship because the physical chemistry just wasn't there.
The question was, if you love someone....not IN love.... but love... I love the Who of Gypsy.... Artgurl, S1owhand... and a gazillion others.... doesn't mean I want to hump their leg, or marry them.
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Is it practical to tell someone you met online that you love them?
If you haven't met them in person .... I don't belive so .... There are two very equal and separate parts to being IN love. Both the physical chemistry as well as the emotional connection are needed for romantic love. A person might 'love' someone else by their online persona but not necessarily be IN love with them. I have met a few guys online that I swore I could marry based on our phone conversations and emails. Once I met them in person, that attraction waned to friendship because the physical chemistry just wasn't there.
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Is it practical to tell someone you met online that you love them?
If you haven't met them in person .... I don't belive so .... There are two very equal and separate parts to being IN love. Both the physical chemistry as well as the emotional connection are needed for romantic love. A person might 'love' someone else by their online persona but not necessarily be IN love with them. I have met a few guys online that I swore I could marry based on our phone conversations and emails. Once I met them in person, but that attraction waned to friendship because the physical chemistry just wasn't there.
The question was, if you love someone....not IN love.... but love... I love the Who of Gypsy.... Artgurl, S1owhand... and a gazillion others.... doesn't mean I want to hump their leg, or marry them. Can a person love someone and not want to hump their leg or marry them?
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Is love practical?
What do you think Tina?
perhaps a person can love someone they haven't met and when they meet that person that love becomes deeper
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sure..if you love someone why hide it? do you really have to met someone face to face to tell if you are in love? I think not.. love is more about falling for that persons personalty.... if you can trust that person is being honest with you about everything then I don't see why you can't love them.
You have an excellent point Britney
kisses for Lee..
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what is practical
. You are right
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Is it practical to tell someone you met online that you love them?
If you haven't met them in person .... I don't belive so .... There are two very equal and separate parts to being IN love. Both the physical chemistry as well as the emotional connection are needed for romantic love. A person might 'love' someone else by their online persona but not necessarily be IN love with them. I have met a few guys online that I swore I could marry based on our phone conversations and emails. Once I met them in person, but that attraction waned to friendship because the physical chemistry just wasn't there.
The question was, if you love someone....not IN love.... but love... I love the Who of Gypsy.... Artgurl, S1owhand... and a gazillion others.... doesn't mean I want to hump their leg, or marry them. Can a person love someone and not want to hump their leg or marry them?
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heres the definition of practical I felt was appropiate for this question Level-headed, efficient, and unspeculative.
You are so intelligent Tina
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Im feelin a bit dumb here! but wat do you mean by "practical"? Is it a good idea to tell someone you met online that you love them?
Ahh, i see, well is this in the romantic sense? then i would be a bit reluctant to say i loved someone i had never spent any real time with...its hard to trust ur feelings when dealing with online encounters, real life meeting is the defining moment of determining exactly wat u feel for them. Hasty imo. If however we r talking about friends, then i think thats ok. Well said and thank you for your excellent posting
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Edited by
MelodyGirl
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Thu 03/05/09 01:00 PM
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Is it practical to tell someone you met online that you love them?
If you haven't met them in person .... I don't belive so .... There are two very equal and separate parts to being IN love. Both the physical chemistry as well as the emotional connection are needed for romantic love. A person might 'love' someone else by their online persona but not necessarily be IN love with them. I have met a few guys online that I swore I could marry based on our phone conversations and emails. Once I met them in person, but that attraction waned to friendship because the physical chemistry just wasn't there.
The question was, if you love someone....not IN love.... but love... I love the Who of Gypsy.... Artgurl, S1owhand... and a gazillion others.... doesn't mean I want to hump their leg, or marry them. I was just expanding the topic. My answer remains the same.
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well thank you
Is it a good idea to tell someone you met online that you love them?
Wow!

Can a person love someone and not want to hump their leg or marry them?
My answer remains the same.