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Teehee. Thanks everyone...glad ya'll are getting a kick out of it. :)
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What about a good girl who likes trips to the dark side every so often....with her main man, that is!   This is just my personal opinion, but all women have an inner slut that is just begging to come out. Usually it takes the right guy to bring it out. I could be wrong, but that's kinda the way I see it... That's where you are wrong.... a woman knows her sexuality... and doesn't USUALLY require some bloke to bring it out....just finding a man who wants to be a man, and not be mothered, will usually have a woman comfortable enough to show herself. I agree with that to an extent... A lot of women will find a nice guy that just doesn't know how to push those buttons inside of her. He could be a really good, decent man that provides for her but is just clueless in the sack. She knows she loves him but she also knows he doesn't create that spark. That's all I'm saying when it comes to the repression. She knows what she wants but he's not capable of providing it with his current set of beliefs. That's where it takes a bad boy to bring out those raw, uninhibited sexual desires. Not all guys are awesome lovers just like all women are not awesome lovers... It takes a lot of openness, experimentation and trust on both sides. I've gotta go for now but I'm looking forward to seeing what other replies come from this thread...  The hardest thing about being with someone is to open those boundarys and have a trusting relationship. Trusting someone from the view of socioty gets harder every year, people are afraid of hurt. That and a Nice guy is usualy seen as to good to be true. If that's the case then I guess alot of us guys arent real... |
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Awww :(
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i can honestly say that i have only dated girls i would marry - at least most of the time...
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Edited by
MelodyGirl
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Fri 03/13/09 07:13 PM
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Sociologically, I love this topic.
Guys always say they date wild girls but marry the prim and proper, girl next door. SOME eventually get bored of their wives, and they cheat with the wild girl again (not all - don't horsewhip me). A balanced girl that is in touch with herself in every way -- sexually, educationally, career oriented, etc -- can be the wild girl worth marrying! She can be all things to her hubby and keep the spark. That being said, people (not just guys) that cheat have their own issues and it rarely has to do with their spouse. A lot of my guy friends who married the prissy types regret doing so and they hunger for more spice in their life. I find that sad.  I am a wild child. I don't want to breed, I want to travel, never settle down (be responsible though) and have a wild boy next to me. I am loyal, and just because I am who I am, doesn't mean I'm not the marrying kind. I can have it all!  The attitude that there are two types of girls is archaic and not very modern. It's old fashioned and repressed.
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The attitude that there are two types of girls is archaic and not very modern. It's old fashioned and repressed. here, here!!!!!!!!  However, AGAIN I would like to add... I don't date 'boys'...marriage taught me that... I date MEN... and am interested by men who recognise a WOMAN... and doesn't want a 'girl'.
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My mother always tells me, one of her friends she grew up with always told her "There are the girls you date, and then there are the girls you marry...and they are two very different people..." I am wondering what all the guys' outlooks on this is? Is it true? If so why...if not why...? I'm not a guy, but I most definitely notice that this is many men's attitude. Its a shame they can't reconcile the Madonna/Whore complex. I think they'd be more satisfied, in general. However, I think I understand why, to their hard-wiring, this is not possible - especially for alpha males - and from a biological viewpoint. Conversely, I have been wondering if alpha females tend to be more territorial or "jealous" (non-accepting of their partner scr3wing around) than other females. I also suspect women might have their own version of what you posited. I believe that for some women, there are some men they will date or cheat on their life partners with - and then there are some men that they will feign loyalty to at all costs. I do not think all women are like this, but I am starting to notice that quite a large proportion are these days.... |
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Bring on the man that is sweet and a bad boy all rolled into one!
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I dunno........every guy I date wants to get married. Am I a good girl/bad girl????
Hmmmmmmmmmmmm maybe!!  
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