Topic: first visit to his/her place
njmom05's photo
Tue 03/31/09 04:34 PM


Thankfully most of the men I've dated have been great about keeping their home clean. I am usually the messier one.


Well it's not like you don't have other things you have to worry about first!

I agree with that. I am not a total slob, but after a few days the clutter drives me nuts and I go through the house like a tornado and clean everything up.

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Tue 03/31/09 04:36 PM
I am in such great shape, compared to what I am reading here.
But I am very weird about people in my place. Yes it will be quite tidy before you come over.

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Tue 03/31/09 05:42 PM

I am in such great shape, compared to what I am reading here.
But I am very weird about people in my place. Yes it will be quite tidy before you come over.


Me too MM! I don't like people to just show up. My family all learned that the hard way. Even they know they need to call before they come.

imsingle951's photo
Tue 03/31/09 05:46 PM


What turns you off or on the first time you see your new 'dates' place?

Among my turn offs are lots of clutter and dirty dishes, a dirty bathroom is a real turn off. If it should go that far, dirty sheets are just gross - run!
Conversly, clean is good! Lived in is good, some clutter - signs of life happening...

Her parents teeth in a glass in the bathroom
laugh laugh laugh

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Tue 03/31/09 06:01 PM
I hate it when his wife is still sitting on the couchnoway laugh noway laugh

s1owhand's photo
Tue 03/31/09 06:04 PM
ALWAYS, ALWAYS, CHECK THE MEDS LIST FIRST THING laugh

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Tue 03/31/09 06:29 PM
make sure he doesnt have more nail polish than you!!!noway laugh noway

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Tue 03/31/09 06:29 PM
seriously.......my ex hubby had his ex gfs old clothes there and her old nail polish.........gaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaawddddddddddddd sicko!!!noway

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Tue 03/31/09 06:32 PM
Hide the meds from the medicine cabinet in sock drawer.

Meg8771's photo
Tue 03/31/09 06:34 PM
A dirty bathroom; bed is unmade; porn left lying out; overfull trashcan spilling out on the floor. Ususally, these things tell me that it can be right there in front of him, needing attention, and it ain't getting any.

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Tue 03/31/09 06:40 PM
Edited by michiganman3 on Tue 03/31/09 06:40 PM

A dirty bathroom; bed is unmade; porn left lying out; overfull trashcan spilling out on the floor. Ususally, these things tell me that it can be right there in front of him, needing attention, and it ain't getting any.


All porn is via internet, none to leave out. (Check wallpaper on computer)
I have two daughters, and two bathrooms, so I keep it clean for when they come over.(Girls are fussy that way)
Clean sheets on bed, so it is made too. (I might get lucky, best to be prepared)

Empty trash-Check.

I am ready now!!!!

Meg8771's photo
Tue 03/31/09 06:51 PM


A dirty bathroom; bed is unmade; porn left lying out; overfull trashcan spilling out on the floor. Ususally, these things tell me that it can be right there in front of him, needing attention, and it ain't getting any.


All porn is via internet, none to leave out. (Check wallpaper on computer)
I have two daughters, and two bathrooms, so I keep it clean for when they come over.(Girls are fussy that way)
Clean sheets on bed, so it is made too. (I might get lucky, best to be prepared)

Empty trash-Check.

I am ready now!!!!



Alright, I am on my way over....bigsmile

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Tue 03/31/09 06:52 PM



A dirty bathroom; bed is unmade; porn left lying out; overfull trashcan spilling out on the floor. Ususally, these things tell me that it can be right there in front of him, needing attention, and it ain't getting any.


All porn is via internet, none to leave out. (Check wallpaper on computer)
I have two daughters, and two bathrooms, so I keep it clean for when they come over.(Girls are fussy that way)
Clean sheets on bed, so it is made too. (I might get lucky, best to be prepared)

Empty trash-Check.

I am ready now!!!!



Alright, I am on my way over....bigsmile


Vacuum, vacuum,?? Quick where is the vacuum??????????????????

Meg8771's photo
Tue 03/31/09 06:55 PM
:laughing: Will I be that close to the floor to notice?

prisoner's photo
Tue 03/31/09 06:59 PM
:smile: her husband sitting on the couch watching TV is a big turn-off be seeing you

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Tue 03/31/09 07:01 PM

:laughing: Will I be that close to the floor to notice?


No, I just feel less anxious when I know I have ran the vacuum.

Meg8771's photo
Tue 03/31/09 07:05 PM


:laughing: Will I be that close to the floor to notice?


No, I just feel less anxious when I know I have ran the vacuum.



Good - wouldn't want you to be anxious :wink:

MelodyGirl's photo
Tue 03/31/09 07:06 PM
Edited by MelodyGirl on Tue 03/31/09 07:07 PM
If anyone has seen the show "Monk" -- that is me!!!

Basically, everything has to be spic and span or I bounce.

- I hate hair on any surface -- even one
- Dirty floors
- Dust
- Dirty sinks, showers, toilets
- Dirty carpet, walls, door handles, baseboards
- Refrigorators



Every week, I take clorax wipes and wipe down my walls, baseboards, the top of door jams, door handles, and I take out my dishes to clean the cabinets.

When the doggies go out for potties, I wash their paws before they are allowed in the house. Oh, I hose their butts if the go poopies.

I vacuum twice a day and wash my floors every day.

I clean my toilets twice a day too. UGH! I hate toilets! I hate seeing them or even that word! ill

I keep my bedroom door closed 24/7 because I don't want the cats in my room; otherwise, they would get in the bed with their 'litter paws'.

I clorax clean my counter tops about 4 times a day.

I can only imagine what my cats do when I am not home, so I assume they are every place they are not allowed when I'm home. So, I clorax clean the all surfaces.

Yes, I am over the top. I can't be with anyone that is dirty. It makes me question his hygiene.

JasmineInglewood's photo
Tue 03/31/09 08:48 PM

If anyone has seen the show "Monk" -- that is me!!!

Basically, everything has to be spic and span or I bounce.

- I hate hair on any surface -- even one
- Dirty floors
- Dust
- Dirty sinks, showers, toilets
- Dirty carpet, walls, door handles, baseboards
- Refrigorators



Every week, I take clorax wipes and wipe down my walls, baseboards, the top of door jams, door handles, and I take out my dishes to clean the cabinets.

When the doggies go out for potties, I wash their paws before they are allowed in the house. Oh, I hose their butts if the go poopies.

I vacuum twice a day and wash my floors every day.

I clean my toilets twice a day too. UGH! I hate toilets! I hate seeing them or even that word! ill

I keep my bedroom door closed 24/7 because I don't want the cats in my room; otherwise, they would get in the bed with their 'litter paws'.

I clorax clean my counter tops about 4 times a day.

I can only imagine what my cats do when I am not home, so I assume they are every place they are not allowed when I'm home. So, I clorax clean the all surfaces.

Yes, I am over the top. I can't be with anyone that is dirty. It makes me question his hygiene.


gosh

will you be my mommy? love

ashinaustin's photo
Tue 03/31/09 08:53 PM
My two big ones are kitchen and bathroom. If where you eat and get clean aren't up to par, how is the rest of it going to be?