Topic: How do I get people to know the real me
trevorkai's photo
Sat 04/11/09 05:44 PM
I made a profile, I tryed to describe my self to the best of my ability but I think I am still not hitting the nail on the head. What about my profile turns people off? Should I change, add, or deleate anything? Please help.

EZ4Sheezy's photo
Tue 04/14/09 11:56 PM
Edited by EZ4Sheezy on Tue 04/14/09 11:57 PM
I see nothing wrong except for that last sentence. You should be the best you can be without the need of a woman.

Other than that...decent profile I guess

Good luck

*edit* maybe adding a pic where you look a little happier will help

Wulinwow's photo
Thu 04/16/09 02:16 AM
Not seeming so needy, believe it or not, that's a huge turn off.

SEXYLATINA666's photo
Thu 04/16/09 07:24 AM
dang keep it real .... i don't lie and i don't like ppl kissin my azz

7z3r05's photo
Thu 04/16/09 12:34 PM
just post a lot and be honest. thats all.

confidence.

a_shields's photo
Fri 05/01/09 03:26 AM
Edited by a_shields on Fri 05/01/09 03:27 AM

I made a profile, I tryed to describe my self to the best of my ability but I think I am still not hitting the nail on the head. What about my profile turns people off? Should I change, add, or deleate anything? Please help.



The real you is dynamic and constantly changing.

Sometimes, your current outlook on life will click with someone that happens to view you, and you have a date/mutual match.

you are a human, and no symbols on a screen or still images can explain who you truly are to other people. dates happen based upon something simple and small that they liked about you - not on a well considered choice based upon the exact image your profile was selling.

When I try to make myself appealing, no women message me. When I just say screw it and type whatever messed up stuff is in my head that day, suddenly mutual matches start popping up.

humans are too complex to predict, and I'm beginning to see that it is insulting to try. exist as a human, and women will want you.