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Topic: lol any one else get messaged by creeps???
ballpythonbbw's photo
Sun 04/12/09 02:22 AM
Edited by ballpythonbbw on Sun 04/12/09 02:26 AM
lol. im sorry but like 10 girls i talked to also said yes. no we dont want to see ur extremely saggy nutsos. lol not to be mean but us 18 year olds and on dont want to be with a over 50 year old. its like kissing our grandpas. gross. double our age and thats the absolute age limit 99.9 % of us will date. unless you anna nicole but we know how that ended. lol

OrangeCat's photo
Sun 04/12/09 02:28 AM
honestly you look like a 15 year old

ballpythonbbw's photo
Sun 04/12/09 02:32 AM
Edited by ballpythonbbw on Sun 04/12/09 02:38 AM
ya well you havent seen my drivers license. but people ive gone on dates with from here have

no photo
Mon 04/13/09 09:53 AM
...you realize your license has nothing to do with how you 'look',right?

ballpythonbbw's photo
Tue 04/14/09 02:24 AM
people say i cant be 18. license porves i am. What cant you understand.

ballpythonbbw's photo
Tue 04/14/09 03:22 AM
and by the way this wasnt a how old do you look post. this is a post to tell pervs to stop messaging ALL of us young girls no matter how old we look.

Heather420's photo
Tue 04/14/09 11:45 AM
Yeah, but it's a "dating" site... what do you expect. Some horney 13 year olds and 70 year olds are to do that stuff.

no photo
Thu 04/16/09 02:35 PM
Lookin for a lady around my age for a serious relationship.Im very nice and outgoing..All i need is a chance

7z3r05's photo
Thu 04/16/09 02:37 PM
Classy.

Radioheadish's photo
Mon 04/27/09 02:42 AM
How does one know if he or she is a creep?

alexpw's photo
Mon 04/27/09 11:40 AM
Good question, Radioheadish. In recent years, the word "creep" has grown beyond the original meaning; however, it is still a defense mechanism to appear superior, in terms of cultural norms, to another individual. So your answer is anyone, but generally a male, who violates the societal norms that are involved in courtship and relationships.

Miss ballpythonbbw is at a critical age of establishing her self-identity and she has decided to take the safe route to fit in with the rest, at least on this issue. The older person created a feeling of unease within her. That unease is the fear she feels at the prospect of not conforming to societal expectations and potentially being considered a deviant, even just by association.

In regards to the poster's question, the easiest solution is to limit your mail settings using a filter and you'll never hear from those "creeps." The next step is to change your perspective to be positive. Take it as a compliment that you are attractive to someone. Maybe consider watching the classic movie, "Harold and Maude," which may open your mind a bit.

Older men will continue to contact young women and it is a losing battle to make them stop, so it is unhealthy to become upset about it.

My best ;)
Alex

Radioheadish's photo
Mon 04/27/09 11:50 AM
Nice, you've obviously had to explain this before...
Lol.

alexpw's photo
Mon 04/27/09 04:19 PM
Edited by alexpw on Mon 04/27/09 04:19 PM
Hehe, it's definitely a first and just a spontaneous attempt to organize my thoughts. I see girls using it like a fad diet and it got me curious.

Radioheadish's photo
Mon 04/27/09 10:49 PM
Ah, that's fun isn't it?
I'm just glad - according to your theory - I'm not a creep.

SpencerH7's photo
Tue 04/28/09 05:58 PM
Edited by SpencerH7 on Tue 04/28/09 05:59 PM
Some guy messaged me the today. He asked if he wanted to meet up with me. I think he was a gay man raper. O_o

Smallblock_Ford2008's photo
Tue 04/28/09 08:27 PM
Lol same thing happened to me a few weeks ago. Out of all the frickin chicks on this site i get a frickin nudge from a gay dude frown!

ballpythonbbw's photo
Thu 04/30/09 01:22 AM
fyi i dont feel like being forty with a dead huisband i want some one around my age. im not going to marry a 50 year old creep. and no one wants to hear your psycho analysis crap. their creeps who target young men and women. theyre gross. they claim to use family members profiles. its nasty.

HawaiiMusikMan's photo
Thu 04/30/09 01:52 AM
I've had a few much older ladies hit on me through emails on here. They weren't too creepy about it though. Five years older is my limit (which happens to be my gf's age). I think it's just something you have to deal with when you're dating online.

joeItalian87's photo
Thu 04/30/09 02:08 AM
lol. I think the best creeps are girls. Any dudes on here got any of those yet? I did... KOOKOO

DrBogenbroom's photo
Thu 04/30/09 06:30 AM
I get massaged by creeps all the time...
waving

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