Who deserved happiness??? Deserve means hardship that you must go through to earn. So whos to say that anyone who has happiness now has ever gone through enough hardship to deserve it? Beautiful people are born with good looks. Catered all thier lives with women or men based on physical apperance even with a lack luster personality. Do they go through any hardships to deserve anything. Maybe Im a little drunk but the stance still holds true. Thier is no real happiness to those who truly deserve it.

Oh yes there is.................I say this to everyone...........you make life happen you dont let life happen to you................

yes but can you try so many times or try so hard but stil fail does that make it work? Or in the end the end result is stil falure?

Exactly.

Are we talking trying for a specific avenue of happiness, or just in general?

just a general conception of happiness not meaning content of the situtation your in

Happiness is a decision.

I find happiness a temporary emotion...content, is a state of being....I choose to be content ....


with moments of great happiness.

That's part of life, keep trying. If what is being tried consistently isn't working, try to figure out why, then figure out how it can be done differently. There's a saying something like...the same actions produce the same results. Try also not to look at it like failure, it's gaining experience and knowledge.

but we are told happiness is everlasting and content is just simply depressing. So if your just happy with your currrent situtation then isent that depressing cause you want to have this everlasting happiness we see everywhere

Who told you that happiness is ever lasting and contentment is simply just depressing?

What a crock of sh*t!


Content is inner calm.... contentment is being completely comfortable, safe, solid, joyful, pleasured, happy.


you need to get new advice buddy.

try try try try and gaining experence. you would think you would learn to either give up or be content. So is that life you try and try and try and try, is that all we can sucome to at this point? and that still doesnt answer my question of deserving it and why some people live so easy while other have to keep on trying

lolz advice? who said anything about advice. content simply means you lower your standards to become comfortable with the situation. Content is depressing beacause it removes drive and ambition

if you spend your time focussing on everyone else's seemingly happiness... and contentment, you miss out on discovering your own.

learn grasshoppper, learn yourself... and from that you will discover what happiness and contentment is.

Put the alcohol down, and open your mind.


What a warped veiw you have, no wonder you are bitter, and miserable, and feel the whole world has it better than you.


enjoy your misery.

its funny, Im not actually miserable I simply want to experence the world, this was just a block on my path. It interesting to see how people become defensive on this subject. Yet sigh again seeing how the only argument against this is the world is good you should stop being sad blah blah. Give me something good to combat this I would appreciate it.

try an anti depressant, and stay off the alcohol.

grasshopper?? dont think cause of age you have experenced any more than i have you have no idea who ive been through

and its funny cause I am actually content

My Daddy told me...

"Happiness is a state of mind". It is. Until you can be happy with yourself..then you can't be happy with someone else. Why subject what you supposedly love..or want to love, with your own insecurities? Not meaning that in a smart azz way..but that is indeed reality, imho.

again im not sad in any way, just curious on human perception on happiness

goddd best rebuttle thus far!!!

your fathers a smart man but why cant you be happy with someone else? isent someone suppose to bring you happiness? (meaning lovers and companions)