wow romee Im sorry that happened to you,dont swear off love because of One bad experiance.Sounds to me like she played you,never change who you are,or do things you dont think are right to please someone else,You are a very wonderfull man,you deserve so much better and you will find it someday romee.

Romee, man sorry for your situation; honestly I have known a lot of women who have been in abusive relationships both personally and as a counselor and it is a whole different ball game with them. Remember what some drug addict, loser who allowed herself to be abused thinks of you isn't worth jack squat. Women like that feel that they don't deserve a man like you, so they try to rip them down.

wow thank you everyone for the replies! they helped me alot also the topic rehab that EZ4Sheezy posted helped me alot to thank's everybody

(((romee))) my dear old friend, Im so sorry you had to go through that, just think how wonderful you are, that woman don't know what she lost.
your a great person and don't feel you have a problem, she does obviously, just remember there are more fishes in the sea
and the right woman, the one your really looking for will come along soon, don't be sad.
is nice seeing you again, hope all goes well for you, just forger about her, I know is hard, but it had to be done, to move on.

thank you morena sweetie

Awwww my sweet Romee....We have talked a lot about this woman.....You know honey that I honestly think she wanted to take your virginity....that is something that is sacred...She took something that was so so so important to you honey and made it cheap and ugly....You know how much I love the Lord Romee and I know how much you do.....I think what she is doing is so wrong on so many levels. I want my sweet romee to go on......let the past be the past...that's why they call it the past...Learn from it sweetie and then go on.....I know the hardest part is letting go of a first love...You will never truly get over her...because she was the first....and something that should of been special and awesome she brought down to a horrible level Romee.....I am sorry, I didn't get to respond until now..and you know babe that I am always here for you....You are truly a unique man....don't waste time waiting for someone that can't appreciate all that you have to offer on someone. She didn't have a clue what she had...or she would of never let you get away.

And she better hope not to show her face....because it wouldn't be pretty what I would say to her...

wow thank you feral sweetie

i guess i will have to start seeing other women. since she has not contacted me. from rehab the relationship must be over oh well thank's everybody for the advice.

Romee ...You are a tough Guy!!! Move on..if need be..Everything will fall into place ...BEST of LUCK to a GREAT TRUE AwEsOmE friend!! Sherry

hey thank's for the advice sherry

Hi Romee,I'm new to this site so bear with me.I was touched by your story and maybe I have some good advice to lend.Because she was your first,it's normal to feel that you maybe in love with her.First of all remember who you are and most important your values.When you do things that are against what you believe and make you feel uncomfortable that should raise a red flag.People should accept you the way you are and not what they want you to be!!Hang in there everyone is right the hurt will subside and your whole outlook will look brighter!!Good Luck to you,Suzze44

thank you very much suzze

I am so sorry that you went through that but, the best thing you can do for yourself now is cut off all contact from this lady.

You deserve better!

thank you alexiateigra

Your a doll..Look forward..not behind!!!!

oh thank you sherry baby.

it's us europeans, best steer clear - we're all quite mad (i blame the climate!)

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