Topic: RELATIONSHIP AND INTERNET DATING SITES
PAMBAM's photo
Sun 04/26/09 06:33 PM
Hello everyone! My question is to male and females! I was just recently informed that my "friend" that I have been seeing is now calling me his "girlfriend"...BUT he is on at least 5 of these dating sites and states that "he is only looking for friends" and that I am making a big deal out of nothing....blowing things out of proportion! am i? please advise...oh...if they are truly friends y am I not meeting them?

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 04/26/09 06:35 PM

Hello everyone! My question is to male and females! I was just recently informed that my "friend" that I have been seeing is now calling me his "girlfriend"...BUT he is on at least 5 of these dating sites and states that "he is only looking for friends" and that I am making a big deal out of nothing....blowing things out of proportion! am i? please advise...oh...if they are truly friends y am I not meeting them?
flowerforyou Ask him thatflowerforyou

robert1652's photo
Sun 04/26/09 06:39 PM
Edited by robert1652 on Sun 04/26/09 06:39 PM
I knew a guy and I might add not on this site that had a booty call in every state of the union and was a truck driver. In California he was a married man with a 3 year old son. So yours is mild in comparison.

This guy convinced his wife it was financially more beneficial for them to get divorced as she can have better social security status.

I lost touch with him when they all moved away




codelockbox's photo
Sun 04/26/09 06:42 PM

Hello everyone! My question is to male and females! I was just recently informed that my "friend" that I have been seeing is now calling me his "girlfriend"...BUT he is on at least 5 of these dating sites and states that "he is only looking for friends" and that I am making a big deal out of nothing....blowing things out of proportion! am i? please advise...oh...if they are truly friends y am I not meeting them?


In a relationship the most important thing is trust. With out it there is really nothing there. So you have to ask yourself do you really trust this person? If you feel something might be wrong then talk with them about it. Its the only thing you can really do.

PAMBAM's photo
Sun 04/26/09 06:46 PM
I agree...he said he would take himself off...but for me...it must truly cum from HIS heart...right? not becuz I want him too....~;<

bastet126's photo
Sun 04/26/09 06:46 PM


Hello everyone! My question is to male and females! I was just recently informed that my "friend" that I have been seeing is now calling me his "girlfriend"...BUT he is on at least 5 of these dating sites and states that "he is only looking for friends" and that I am making a big deal out of nothing....blowing things out of proportion! am i? please advise...oh...if they are truly friends y am I not meeting them?


In a relationship the most important thing is trust. With out it there is really nothing there. So you have to ask yourself do you really trust this person? If you feel something might be wrong then talk with them about it. Its the only thing you can really do.


i agree! there are people on mingle2 that are in relationships, but still hang out in the forums for a social outlet. totally upfront and hopefully they've expressed that with their significant others and it's all cool - but communication is key!!

coz1976's photo
Sun 04/26/09 06:48 PM


Hello everyone! My question is to male and females! I was just recently informed that my "friend" that I have been seeing is now calling me his "girlfriend"...BUT he is on at least 5 of these dating sites and states that "he is only looking for friends" and that I am making a big deal out of nothing....blowing things out of proportion! am i? please advise...oh...if they are truly friends y am I not meeting them?
flowerforyou Ask him thatflowerforyou

true dat:smile:

codelockbox's photo
Sun 04/26/09 06:51 PM

I agree...he said he would take himself off...but for me...it must truly cum from HIS heart...right? not becuz I want him too....~;<


Relationships are give and take. I mean he can take it off for many reasons. Because he really only wants you, or maybe he will remove so you worry no more. When people date there are habits, hobbies, or other things that may bother the other person. So if he says he will remove the others it many be for many reasons. His heart, maybe so you will be happy.

goldenlay's photo
Sun 04/26/09 06:58 PM
HELLO MEETING A SWEEHEART FRIDAY ON HERE AND IF IT WORKS OUT IM DONE WITH ALL THE SIGHTS IM ON. JUST BECAREFUL AND DONT EXPECT MORE THAN YOU CAN HANDLE. I HAVE FOUND OUT THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE ON THESE SIGHTS THAT TRY TO MAKE US MISERABLE ALSO

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Sun 04/26/09 07:01 PM
Nothing wrong with being on a lot of dating sites after you find someone, because along the way in your search- you make friends as well and you can't just cut them off...

TattooedDude81's photo
Sun 04/26/09 07:02 PM
Pambam...you have some kick ass hair!

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Sun 04/26/09 07:05 PM


Hello everyone! My question is to male and females! I was just recently informed that my "friend" that I have been seeing is now calling me his "girlfriend"...BUT he is on at least 5 of these dating sites and states that "he is only looking for friends" and that I am making a big deal out of nothing....blowing things out of proportion! am i? please advise...oh...if they are truly friends y am I not meeting them?
flowerforyou Ask him thatflowerforyou


I totally agree. But I will add, if I met someone and started dating I wouldn't give this up. I like my friends here.

cuppy59's photo
Sun 04/26/09 07:06 PM
It's a hard call on this....I agree with Audi....I have so many friends on this site.

Now the other sites are quite different....

buttons's photo
Sun 04/26/09 07:09 PM
after reading your profile im not sure that should matter to you.. however maybe his profiles read "just looking for friends"

Ruth34611's photo
Sun 04/26/09 07:23 PM
Your profile says you are looking for someone for dating. what