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jedigirl Joined Fri 02/02/07 Posts: 1070	Thu 04/30/09 10:23 PM
laughin at polarity. just be you ...don't send out no homo vibe there is a homo vibe???

STARTRAVELER Joined Thu 02/14/08 Posts: 9691	Thu 04/30/09 10:25 PM
Hey watch those hands mister

a_shields Joined Mon 02/02/09 Posts: 382	Thu 04/30/09 10:25 PM
Just takes common interests . And a good ice breaker unless your talking people you already socialize with ! oo. request icebreaker examples please.

msmyka Joined Sat 03/22/08 Posts: 17079	Thu 04/30/09 10:28 PM
Booze is an excellent ice breaker

Dro_In_Indio Joined Mon 02/16/09 Posts: 924	Thu 04/30/09 10:28 PM Edited by Dro_In_Indio on Thu 04/30/09 10:31 PM
Honestly dude... Just be a friend... It's our society that labels "affection" in such Narrow terms that two men can't hang out without appearing gay. My friends and I are very close. We go out and do things ... sometimes just two of us... It's cool. You're friends. I live in the Coachella Valley, California... Population is approximately 60% (or more) Gay. You can't let what others may think stand between you an friendship. You will miss out on far too much. Unless of course you are harboring some latent fears that you might want his pink pole... But if that is not the case... ASK YOUR FRIEND TO GO FISHING "Hey man... thinking about going fishing next week... Wanna come?Just fishing and drinking... c'mon man!"

a_shields Joined Mon 02/02/09 Posts: 382	Thu 04/30/09 10:29 PM
How do you become friends with another dude without him thinking you want to plant the pink pole of... um.... ok no more metaphors today. I can ask a girl on a date easily, but how do you say "hey bro let's go fishing together and drink beer." that seems like mission goddamn impossible for me. Men make friends when they play on sports teams. That's one place. i've been a 15k/marathon runner since 14. what team sport could a 25 year old guy get into (180 lbs/5'10'')? i feel like i'm too old or something.

msmyka Joined Sat 03/22/08 Posts: 17079	Thu 04/30/09 10:30 PM
I live in the Coachella Valley, California... Population is approximately 60% (or more) Gay. For reals?

msmyka Joined Sat 03/22/08 Posts: 17079	Thu 04/30/09 10:32 PM
How do you become friends with another dude without him thinking you want to plant the pink pole of... um.... ok no more metaphors today. I can ask a girl on a date easily, but how do you say "hey bro let's go fishing together and drink beer." that seems like mission goddamn impossible for me. Men make friends when they play on sports teams. That's one place. i've been a 15k/marathon runner since 14. what team sport could a 25 year old guy get into (180 lbs/5'10'')? i feel like i'm too old or something. Too old? You're trippin, I can tell you THINK way too much. I tend to over analyze things as well but you just need to chill and let sh!t happen.

Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Thu 04/30/09 10:35 PM Edited by Winx on Thu 04/30/09 10:36 PM
How do you become friends with another dude without him thinking you want to plant the pink pole of... um.... ok no more metaphors today. I can ask a girl on a date easily, but how do you say "hey bro let's go fishing together and drink beer." that seems like mission goddamn impossible for me. Men make friends when they play on sports teams. That's one place. i've been a 15k/marathon runner since 14. what team sport could a 25 year old guy get into (180 lbs/5'10'')? i feel like i'm too old or something. My brother is in his 40's and moved out-of-town. He didn't know anybody. He joined a soccer team and later a softball team. He made friends. There's basketball and coed volleyball to join too. Friends have female friends too. My church has a men's softball team.

a_shields Joined Mon 02/02/09 Posts: 382	Thu 04/30/09 10:36 PM
Honestly dude... Just be a friend... It's our society that labels "affection" in such Narrow terms that two men can't hang out without appearing gay. My friends and I are very close. We go out and do things ... sometimes just two of us... It's cool. You're friends. I live in the Coachella Valley, California... Population is approximately 60% (or more) Gay. You can't let what others may think stand between you an friendship. You will miss out on far too much. Unless of course you are harboring some latent fears that you might want his pink pole... But if that is not the case... ASK YOUR FRIEND TO GO FISHING haha. problem is that gay dudes occasionally get beaten up by straight dudes down here. i don't mind an ass kicking, but i seriously can't get arrested again, especially if they get hurt. my fear is not of being gay. if i wanted to pound butt, i probably would. my fear is alienating 50% of every human I see with the two extremes of asshole/gay.

Audie Joined Thu 07/17/08 Posts: 1898	Thu 04/30/09 10:36 PM
Just tell him you castrate queers as a hobby, if he stays around, you got yourself a friend...

a_shields Joined Mon 02/02/09 Posts: 382	Thu 04/30/09 10:40 PM
Just tell him you castrate queers as a hobby, if he stays around, you got yourself a friend... unless he's a gay guy with a castration fetish...

Audie Joined Thu 07/17/08 Posts: 1898	Thu 04/30/09 10:41 PM
Just tell him you castrate queers as a hobby, if he stays around, you got yourself a friend... unless he's a gay guy with a castration fetish...

a_shields Joined Mon 02/02/09 Posts: 382	Thu 04/30/09 10:43 PM
haha sorry. believe it or not, that's my sense of humor. it's like fart jokes... on cocaine.

jedigirl Joined Fri 02/02/07 Posts: 1070	Thu 04/30/09 10:44 PM
haha sorry. believe it or not, that's my sense of humor. it's like fart jokes... on cocaine. fart jokes on coke...

Riding_Dubz Joined Wed 05/21/08 Posts: 22110	Thu 04/30/09 10:45 PM
Good thing you don't live in japan you'd really be uncomfortable where they are much more comfortable with there sexuality.

a_shields Joined Mon 02/02/09 Posts: 382	Thu 04/30/09 10:50 PM
haha sorry. believe it or not, that's my sense of humor. it's like fart jokes... on cocaine. fart jokes on coke... Last night, for example. I was at a kareoke bar with this girl from work and her large group of friends. One dude got up there and started singing "killing me softly" as a joke. i joined in the fun by walking up to the stage and putting a dollar bill in his belt. im not sure if everyone was laughing really hard because it was funny or because they were surprised... all i know is that guy ****ing hates me now.

Dro_In_Indio Joined Mon 02/16/09 Posts: 924	Thu 04/30/09 10:51 PM
I live in the Coachella Valley, California... Population is approximately 60% (or more) Gay. For reals? For Reals... Way lots... I am cool with it, but here it is often ASSUMED that when 2 men are with each other they are a couple. But it doesn't bother me... shrug

msmyka Joined Sat 03/22/08 Posts: 17079	Thu 04/30/09 10:52 PM Edited by msmyka on Thu 04/30/09 10:53 PM
Last night, for example. I was at a kareoke bar with this girl from work and her large group of friends. One dude got up there and started singing "killing me softly" as a joke. i joined in the fun by walking up to the stage and putting a dollar bill in his belt. im not sure if everyone was laughing really hard because it was funny or because they were surprised... all i know is that guy ****ing hates me now. Not a good idea to do that to a dude you just met. Just sayin.

Dro_In_Indio Joined Mon 02/16/09 Posts: 924	Thu 04/30/09 10:53 PM
Shields... you'll probably avoid an ass kicking if you refrain from holding hands and tongue mingling... Dude... you are way over thinking this... lol