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Topic: No One Wants to Date Me :(
stm00 Joined Wed 11/28/07 Posts: 2	Wed 05/06/09 04:52 PM
Got a bit of a problem. I can not for the life of me find get a girl to go out with me. I feel like I put some effort into letting a girl know I'm interested but I can never get them to be interested in me. I'm begining to wonder if theres something I'm doing to repell women away or if there's some secret, unforseen code that I need to know to have a girl return the interest. In other words, how do I get a girl's number without appearing overbearing, desperate, or creepy? Is there any good way? Help someone, it's been forever since I've had a date and I know I could make some lucky lady very happy.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Wed 05/06/09 04:53 PM
Got a bit of a problem. I can not for the life of me find get a girl to go out with me. I feel like I put some effort into letting a girl know I'm interested but I can never get them to be interested in me. I'm begining to wonder if theres something I'm doing to repell women away or if there's some secret, unforseen code that I need to know to have a girl return the interest. In other words, how do I get a girl's number without appearing overbearing, desperate, or creepy? Is there any good way? Help someone, it's been forever since I've had a date and I know I could make some lucky lady very happy. Act like you dont give a ****

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Wed 05/06/09 04:53 PM


ledi180 Joined Sun 04/15/07 Posts: 5910	Wed 05/06/09 04:54 PM
Can someone please give him the secret code?

stm00 Joined Wed 11/28/07 Posts: 2	Wed 05/06/09 04:55 PM
Does that really work?

tanyaann Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 32220	Wed 05/06/09 04:55 PM
No clue! welcome to the site.

Dan99 Joined Sat 08/23/08 Posts: 14941	Wed 05/06/09 04:56 PM
Got a bit of a problem. I can not for the life of me find get a girl to go out with me. I feel like I put some effort into letting a girl know I'm interested but I can never get them to be interested in me. I'm begining to wonder if theres something I'm doing to repell women away or if there's some secret, unforseen code that I need to know to have a girl return the interest. In other words, how do I get a girl's number without appearing overbearing, desperate, or creepy? Is there any good way? Help someone, it's been forever since I've had a date and I know I could make some lucky lady very happy. Act like you dont give a ** Close. Stop giving a **! As in, dont act. Easier said than done i know.

Sandcrab Joined Fri 10/24/08 Posts: 1392	Wed 05/06/09 04:56 PM
Can someone please give him the secret code?

wiley Joined Thu 12/13/07 Posts: 19738	Wed 05/06/09 04:57 PM Edited by wiley on Wed 05/06/09 04:57 PM
Got a bit of a problem. I can not for the life of me find get a girl to go out with me. I feel like I put some effort into letting a girl know I'm interested but I can never get them to be interested in me. I'm begining to wonder if theres something I'm doing to repell women away or if there's some secret, unforseen code that I need to know to have a girl return the interest. In other words, how do I get a girl's number without appearing overbearing, desperate, or creepy? Is there any good way? Help someone, it's been forever since I've had a date and I know I could make some lucky lady very happy. Jusy say the heck with them. You're more attractive to them if you aren't interested anyway. Besides. Leaves more for the rest of us.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Wed 05/06/09 04:59 PM
Got a bit of a problem. I can not for the life of me find get a girl to go out with me. I feel like I put some effort into letting a girl know I'm interested but I can never get them to be interested in me. I'm begining to wonder if theres something I'm doing to repell women away or if there's some secret, unforseen code that I need to know to have a girl return the interest. In other words, how do I get a girl's number without appearing overbearing, desperate, or creepy? Is there any good way? Help someone, it's been forever since I've had a date and I know I could make some lucky lady very happy. Act like you dont give a ** Close. Stop giving a **! As in, dont act. Easier said than done i know. If you act like it long enough it will eventually become natural

MeChrissy2 Joined Sat 12/13/08 Posts: 10155	Wed 05/06/09 04:59 PM
Have you tried the honest, sincere, "I think you're beautiful" approach. It works.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Wed 05/06/09 04:59 PM
Does that really work? YES

2KidsMom Joined Tue 09/30/08 Posts: 58206	Wed 05/06/09 05:00 PM


wiley Joined Thu 12/13/07 Posts: 19738	Wed 05/06/09 05:01 PM
Have you tried the honest, sincere, "I think you're beautiful" approach. It works. I've tried that. It's probably the drooling while I'm saying it that drives them away.

wiley Joined Thu 12/13/07 Posts: 19738	Wed 05/06/09 05:02 PM
Got a bit of a problem. I can not for the life of me find get a girl to go out with me. I feel like I put some effort into letting a girl know I'm interested but I can never get them to be interested in me. I'm begining to wonder if theres something I'm doing to repell women away or if there's some secret, unforseen code that I need to know to have a girl return the interest. In other words, how do I get a girl's number without appearing overbearing, desperate, or creepy? Is there any good way? Help someone, it's been forever since I've had a date and I know I could make some lucky lady very happy. Act like you dont give a ** Close. Stop giving a **! As in, dont act. Easier said than done i know. If you act like it long enough it will eventually become natural I don't even see them anymore. I'm pretty sure they're mostly just a figment of my imagination anyway.

MeChrissy2 Joined Sat 12/13/08 Posts: 10155	Wed 05/06/09 05:03 PM
Have you tried the honest, sincere, "I think you're beautiful" approach. It works. I've tried that. It's probably the drooling while I'm saying it that drives them away. handing him a Kleenex I hope it's the prison pic.

Dan99 Joined Sat 08/23/08 Posts: 14941	Wed 05/06/09 05:04 PM
Women can smell desperation a mile off. So the trick is to not be desperate. (i.e not give a s***). Not that i know anything about anything.

wiley Joined Thu 12/13/07 Posts: 19738	Wed 05/06/09 05:05 PM
It's all good. It's pretty much the blind leading the blind around here anyway.

MeChrissy2 Joined Sat 12/13/08 Posts: 10155	Wed 05/06/09 05:05 PM
Women can smell desperation a mile off. So the trick is to not be desperate. (i.e not give a s***). Not that i know anything about anything. No kidding Dan. You reek of desperation.

alternativa Joined Sat 08/23/08 Posts: 1085	Wed 05/06/09 05:06 PM
Got a bit of a problem. I can not for the life of me find get a girl to go out with me. I feel like I put some effort into letting a girl know I'm interested but I can never get them to be interested in me. I'm begining to wonder if theres something I'm doing to repell women away or if there's some secret, unforseen code that I need to know to have a girl return the interest. In other words, how do I get a girl's number without appearing overbearing, desperate, or creepy? Is there any good way? Help someone, it's been forever since I've had a date and I know I could make some lucky lady very happy. On here, you seem datable. Is there a female you know well enough (sister or other relative close in age or a friend) that you trust to give you an honest opinion after seeing you interact with women? Be prepared for what they say and not get defensive.