Topic: No One Wants to Date Me :(
wiley's photo
Wed 05/06/09 05:21 PM



I don't go for the 'act like you're not interested' type. Why would I want someone that doesn't want me? I know that interest fades over time, so the more a man seems interested, the more likely I will be to make time for him.

flowerforyou Yes some women are like you in that regard but most of them arn't :tongue:


Some women want men who don't want them??? That makes no sense. Who would want to be with someone who didn't want to be with them?



A woman. Men are logical creatures. Women are emotional. No offense. flowerforyou

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 05/06/09 05:21 PM

MirrorMirror > by the way, I absolutely love that photo! bigsmile

bigsmile thanx.flowerforyou Your photo is great tooflowerforyou

PATSFAN's photo
Wed 05/06/09 05:24 PM
Have you tried using a gun or money? both very effective:smile:

alternativa's photo
Wed 05/06/09 05:24 PM




A woman. Men are logical creatures. Women are emotional. No offense. flowerforyou


laugh You haven't dated some of the men I have... rofl

MeChrissy2's photo
Wed 05/06/09 05:24 PM
I like Pie.

wiley's photo
Wed 05/06/09 05:25 PM
Edited by wiley on Wed 05/06/09 05:25 PM





A woman. Men are logical creatures. Women are emotional. No offense. flowerforyou


laugh You haven't dated some of the men I have... rofl



Clearly there are exceptions to every rule... laugh

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 05/06/09 05:25 PM
:smile: Women get hassled by dudes a lot.:smile: Especially the pretty ones.:smile: So, one of the keys to interacting with them is to set yourself apart from those "other guys".:smile:You need to make them more comfortable with you by showing that you won't cross boundaries of personal interaction.:smile:Like I said,learn to interact with them as you would anyone else.:smile:Learn to interact with them in an "everyday" fashionflowerforyou

alexiateigra's photo
Wed 05/06/09 05:26 PM
It may not have anything with you directly. Sometimes it timing. Instead of worrying about dating, simply work with developing friendships. It amazing how things work out for themselves!

ladywolf9653's photo
Wed 05/06/09 05:27 PM

A woman. Men are logical creatures. Women are emotional. No offense. flowerforyou


Bah. If a guy has no interest in me, I cut my losses and walk away, lol. I lack the creativity needed for mind games, and don't feign hard to get. *shrug* I figure if he's not interested, I'm best served finding someone who is :)

alternativa's photo
Wed 05/06/09 05:28 PM


MirrorMirror > by the way, I absolutely love that photo! bigsmile

bigsmile thanx.flowerforyou Your photo is great tooflowerforyou


offtopic Thanks, but mine was taken after a bad day at work with no makeup, hair not done, and by a friend instead of a co-worker (I'm a photographer).

Yours is way cool looking and I love the expression on her face.

You'd get my vote on that one in a forum for best profile photo. :thumbsup:

alternativa's photo
Wed 05/06/09 05:29 PM

It may not have anything with you directly. Sometimes it timing. Instead of worrying about dating, simply work with developing friendships. It amazing how things work out for themselves!



You've been in my head! surprised

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 05/06/09 05:30 PM

It may not have anything with you directly. Sometimes it timing. Instead of worrying about dating, simply work with developing friendships. It amazing how things work out for themselves!

bigsmile Exactly right.flowerforyouSimply work on developing friendshipsbigsmile

no photo
Wed 05/06/09 05:33 PM

Got a bit of a problem. I can not for the life of me find get a girl to go out with me. I feel like I put some effort into letting a girl know I'm interested but I can never get them to be interested in me. I'm begining to wonder if theres something I'm doing to repell women away or if there's some secret, unforseen code that I need to know to have a girl return the interest. In other words, how do I get a girl's number without appearing overbearing, desperate, or creepy? Is there any good way? Help someone, it's been forever since I've had a date and I know I could make some lucky lady very happy.


Don't feel bad, nobody wants to date me either. Here I am, a psudo-successful author with two (2) (count 'em, two, not ONE, but TWO) books on the market, with the third one coming out this summer, and STILL no one wants to date me.

"Oh, you're too intimidating," some of them say, simply because I can use words of more than one syllable and know where an apostrophe is supposed to go.

"Oh, you won't let me turn you into a goat," the domesticatrixes say, because I won't let them turn me into a goat.

Life is hard for a literate non-goat.

Phrenchy's photo
Wed 05/06/09 05:36 PM

Have you tried using a gun or money? both very effective:smile:


I'm sure kidnapping would work just as well with that. If they're around you long enough they may just develop Stockholm syndrome

DON_CORDOVA's photo
Wed 05/06/09 05:36 PM
look the way i see it is that it will either happen or not, like mirror said you act desperate it's like smearing poo all over yourself, me personally, i just go with the flow, you cant expect to get a hit the moment you join a site like this, i try to make friends maybe network a bit get to know the person and if theres something about them that peak my curiosity then i persue them a bit to find if they feel the same way. best advice id give you is just be yourself dont try to be anything your not cause the truth comes out wether you want it to or not.

Amidst the blue skies a link from past to future.. the sheltering wings of the protector..

alternativa's photo
Wed 05/06/09 05:39 PM


Got a bit of a problem. I can not for the life of me find get a girl to go out with me. I feel like I put some effort into letting a girl know I'm interested but I can never get them to be interested in me. I'm begining to wonder if theres something I'm doing to repell women away or if there's some secret, unforseen code that I need to know to have a girl return the interest. In other words, how do I get a girl's number without appearing overbearing, desperate, or creepy? Is there any good way? Help someone, it's been forever since I've had a date and I know I could make some lucky lady very happy.


Don't feel bad, nobody wants to date me either. Here I am, a psudo-successful author with two (2) (count 'em, two, not ONE, but TWO) books on the market, with the third one coming out this summer, and STILL no one wants to date me.

"Oh, you're too intimidating," some of them say, simply because I can use words of more than one syllable and know where an apostrophe is supposed to go.

"Oh, you won't let me turn you into a goat," the domesticatrixes say, because I won't let them turn me into a goat.

Life is hard for a literate non-goat.



It's not that no one wants to, it's that we don't qualify and are to far away. brokenheart

Peccy's photo
Wed 05/06/09 05:40 PM
Edited by Peccy on Wed 05/06/09 05:42 PM
confidence is what it always has been and what meeting women will always will be about. How do you think I snagged Angel, sure I'm a jerk, but a confident one!

wiley's photo
Wed 05/06/09 05:43 PM
There are few who can handle my sheer awesomeness. Sometimes even I have difficulty with it. It's a gift and a curse...

MeChrissy2's photo
Wed 05/06/09 05:44 PM
sad I actually WANT to be a goat but no one will try to turn me into one.

no photo
Wed 05/06/09 05:45 PM
Goats??? Where??? noway