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Topic: Should I let him know?
MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Thu 05/07/09 08:16 AM
My bf and I have been together for a year.We finally told each other "I love you".Now my ex is trying to contact me again by email and he is saying if I do not talk to him he will just show up at my house.Should I let my bf know that my ex is bothering me?

4x4guy Joined Tue 03/24/09 Posts: 185	Thu 05/07/09 08:18 AM
HELL YA YOU SHOULD ITS TIME TO BE TRUE NO?

Jotiwa3 Joined Sun 04/26/09 Posts: 127	Thu 05/07/09 08:18 AM
Most definitely! If ya don't then he could think there is more going back and forth between you and the ex than there is.

xdreamangel Joined Sun 03/08/09 Posts: 64	Thu 05/07/09 08:20 AM
I have the same problem... My ex still hasn't gotten over me and from the start of my new relationship I let my new bf know that I do have baggage but it's not my fault. My new bf is very understanding, however; there are some guys I dated who if I would tell them I was being harassed, it would cause a butt-kicking lol I would send a very firm e-mail to my ex in that case and tell him he is not welcome at your house. If you still feel like you have no control over the outcome and your man is understanding, bring the bf into the situation. Good luck (:

MisKim323 Joined Sat 06/28/08 Posts: 14563	Thu 05/07/09 08:22 AM
ummmmmmmmmmmm I would probably also think about a protective order....have all the back-up you can. I would consider that a threat and not take it lightly. If he knows you don't want to see him and you are in a relationship...then he should be man enough to back off....if he is set on seeing you, regardless of how you feel....that spells danger.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Thu 05/07/09 08:23 AM
HELL YA YOU SHOULD ITS TIME TO BE TRUE NO?

4x4guy Joined Tue 03/24/09 Posts: 185	Thu 05/07/09 08:24 AM
short sweet and to the point very simple

AZAR09 Joined Fri 01/30/09 Posts: 759	Thu 05/07/09 08:24 AM
ummmmmmmmmmmm I would probably also think about a protective order....have all the back-up you can. I would consider that a threat and not take it lightly. If he knows you don't want to see him and you are in a relationship...then he should be man enough to back off....if he is set on seeing you, regardless of how you feel....that spells danger. I agree Stalkers.........

sexymami7979 Joined Fri 11/16/07 Posts: 337	Thu 05/07/09 08:25 AM
You should tell him.... You shouldn't hide anything from the person you love

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Thu 05/07/09 08:26 AM
Most definitely! If ya don't then he could think there is more going back and forth between you and the ex than there is.

MisKim323 Joined Sat 06/28/08 Posts: 14563	Thu 05/07/09 08:30 AM
ummmmmmmmmmmm I would probably also think about a protective order....have all the back-up you can. I would consider that a threat and not take it lightly. If he knows you don't want to see him and you are in a relationship...then he should be man enough to back off....if he is set on seeing you, regardless of how you feel....that spells danger. I agree Stalkers......... For sure...been there, done that...and it doesn't stop until you stand up and take care of it.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Thu 05/07/09 08:31 AM
I have the same problem... My ex still hasn't gotten over me and from the start of my new relationship I let my new bf know that I do have baggage but it's not my fault. My new bf is very understanding, however; there are some guys I dated who if I would tell them I was being harassed, it would cause a butt-kicking lol I would send a very firm e-mail to my ex in that case and tell him he is not welcome at your house. If you still feel like you have no control over the outcome and your man is understanding, bring the bf into the situation. Good luck (:

Queene123 Joined Tue 06/26/07 Posts: 17056	Thu 05/07/09 08:31 AM
My bf and I have been together for a year.We finally told each other "I love you".Now my ex is trying to contact me again by email and he is saying if I do not talk to him he will just show up at my house.Should I let my bf know that my ex is bothering me? well yea dont you think its only right. for just think if your ex shows up

TheresMyFriend Joined Sat 05/19/07 Posts: 2565	Thu 05/07/09 08:32 AM
My bf and I have been together for a year.We finally told each other "I love you".Now my ex is trying to contact me again by email and he is saying if I do not talk to him he will just show up at my house.Should I let my bf know that my ex is bothering me? Now see Mirror...it's questions like this that confused me in the beginning as to your gender! Man, was I surprised...remember that? That was so funny to me, anyway. You have a great day!

AdventureBegins Joined Tue 04/10/07 Posts: 7666	Thu 05/07/09 08:32 AM
My bf and I have been together for a year.We finally told each other "I love you".Now my ex is trying to contact me again by email and he is saying if I do not talk to him he will just show up at my house.Should I let my bf know that my ex is bothering me? Would you expect your BF to let you know? If the roles were reversed.

jedigirl Joined Fri 02/02/07 Posts: 1070	Thu 05/07/09 08:32 AM
My bf and I have been together for a year.We finally told each other "I love you".Now my ex is trying to contact me again by email and he is saying if I do not talk to him he will just show up at my house.Should I let my bf know that my ex is bothering me? my question is ...when the hell did you go gay??

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Thu 05/07/09 08:34 AM
My bf and I have been together for a year.We finally told each other "I love you".Now my ex is trying to contact me again by email and he is saying if I do not talk to him he will just show up at my house.Should I let my bf know that my ex is bothering me? my question is ...when the hell did you go gay?? I was wondering when someone was gonna notice that.No,Im not gay.I wrote the question to sound like something a chick would say.

jedigirl Joined Fri 02/02/07 Posts: 1070	Thu 05/07/09 08:35 AM Edited by jedigirl on Thu 05/07/09 08:36 AM
My bf and I have been together for a year.We finally told each other "I love you".Now my ex is trying to contact me again by email and he is saying if I do not talk to him he will just show up at my house.Should I let my bf know that my ex is bothering me? my question is ...when the hell did you go gay?? I was wondering when someone was gonna notice that.No,Im not gay.I wrote the question to sound like something a chick would say. thats all i gotta say about that!!

Queene123 Joined Tue 06/26/07 Posts: 17056	Thu 05/07/09 08:36 AM
My bf and I have been together for a year.We finally told each other "I love you".Now my ex is trying to contact me again by email and he is saying if I do not talk to him he will just show up at my house.Should I let my bf know that my ex is bothering me? my question is ...when the hell did you go gay?? I was wondering when someone was gonna notice that.No,Im not gay.I wrote the question to sound like something a chick would say. WOW!! i was going to ask someone else for i was just thinking you were

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Thu 05/07/09 08:36 AM
My bf and I have been together for a year.We finally told each other "I love you".Now my ex is trying to contact me again by email and he is saying if I do not talk to him he will just show up at my house.Should I let my bf know that my ex is bothering me? my question is ...when the hell did you go gay?? I was wondering when someone was gonna notice that.No,Im not gay.I wrote the question to sound like something a chick would say.