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Topic: Totally Vulnerable
MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 05/14/09 02:07 PM
Edited by MirrorMirror on Thu 05/14/09 02:07 PM
:heart: True love requires that we be totally vulnerable to another.:heart:


bigsmile True or False?bigsmile

PATSFAN's photo
Thu 05/14/09 02:08 PM
Ha, never happenlaugh

plk1966's photo
Thu 05/14/09 02:08 PM
Edited by plk1966 on Thu 05/14/09 02:08 PM
I think it requires more than true or false........I mean every situation is different

no photo
Thu 05/14/09 02:27 PM
true. and here is why.. if you are guarded about things then your with holding a possible difference that sooner or later will rear its ugly head. And if your vulnerable you are open to new and fresh ideas. ( for the men here that could mean for those who have the fantasy of 3 women in bed at once) And for the women? well not sure what their fantasy would be.. besides you have to open yourself to all possibilities and that includes being able to find love.



lollipops for everyone.

no photo
Thu 05/14/09 02:33 PM
True! drinker

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 05/14/09 03:03 PM

Ha, never happenlaugh
bigsmile

Eddiemma's photo
Thu 05/14/09 03:04 PM
True love? ---True!

auburngirl's photo
Thu 05/14/09 03:05 PM
I say true

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 05/14/09 03:05 PM

I think it requires more than true or false........I mean every situation is different
flowerforyou

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 05/14/09 03:06 PM

true. and here is why.. if you are guarded about things then your with holding a possible difference that sooner or later will rear its ugly head. And if your vulnerable you are open to new and fresh ideas. ( for the men here that could mean for those who have the fantasy of 3 women in bed at once) And for the women? well not sure what their fantasy would be.. besides you have to open yourself to all possibilities and that includes being able to find love.



lollipops for everyone.
:banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana:

prisoner's photo
Thu 05/14/09 03:08 PM
:banana: vulnerability = a loss of individuality. i can't have that. be seeing you

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 05/14/09 03:10 PM

True! drinker
bigsmile

no photo
Thu 05/14/09 03:10 PM
Edited by mixmantech on Thu 05/14/09 03:11 PM

true. and here is why.. if you are guarded about things then your with holding a possible difference that sooner or later will rear its ugly head. And if your vulnerable you are open to new and fresh ideas. ( for the men here that could mean for those who have the fantasy of 3 women in bed at once) And for the women? well not sure what their fantasy would be.. besides you have to open yourself to all possibilities and that includes being able to find love.



lollipops for everyone.


but at first i was this way with my grilfriend and now she uses that as her ammo. but she is having my kid so i have to stay around and be a father she is three months

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 05/14/09 03:15 PM

True love? ---True!
:banana:

SimplyElla's photo
Thu 05/14/09 03:21 PM
Prisoner couldn't have said it better.... I am with him... :smile:

FearandLoathing's photo
Thu 05/14/09 03:23 PM
True love? Is this a trick question?

metalwing's photo
Thu 05/14/09 03:28 PM
False. True Love requires strength sometimes when the partner is weak. Vulnerability at all times would be a sign of weakness in mind and spirit and would not be the sign of a healthy relationship. Most absolutes are a negitive sign.

Pink_lady's photo
Thu 05/14/09 03:28 PM
Edited by Pink_lady on Thu 05/14/09 03:33 PM

:banana: vulnerability = a loss of individuality. i can't have that. be seeing you


Taken from wikipedia...

Vulnerability is the susceptibility to physical or emotional injury or attack. It also means to have one's guard down, open to censure or criticism; assailable. Vulnerability refers to a person's state of being liable to succumb, as to persuasion or temptation.

A window of vulnerability, sometimes abbreviated to wov, is a time frame within which defensive measures are reduced, compromised or lacking.


And my answer would be TRUE.

As long as u r guarded, u will never feel love in its most truest form.

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 05/14/09 03:34 PM

:banana: vulnerability = a loss of individuality. i can't have that. be seeing you
bigsmile Be seeing youbigsmile

Pink_lady's photo
Thu 05/14/09 03:38 PM

:banana: vulnerability = a loss of individuality. i can't have that. be seeing you


I'd say its more about exposure of the individuality, in order to let ur loved 0ne see ya completely, its about trust imo.

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