Topic: Another CL?
prisoner's photo
Fri 05/29/09 11:31 AM

Prisoner, thanks for the jump start to my day.... You have the power to make even the most stoic of people jump though your hoops.....Priceless
:banana: anytime i can be of service. you can e-mail me for a list of my rates.rofl be seeing you

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Fri 05/29/09 11:32 AM
Edited by Seakolony on Fri 05/29/09 11:33 AM
New is to refreshing as old is to stale or new is to naive as old is to experienced either or does it really matter anyways.

I enjoy some of the topics and others, I could care less for. The ones I care less for I really do not have to read.

OP topic, doesn't everyone try to sell themselves to a certain extent on a dating site?

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Fri 05/29/09 11:32 AM

:banana: i think Phuque and Phuque2 have very valid points. i think it all goes back to the clique mentality. If you are not part of "The Clique" you will never fit in here,no matter the number of posts you have. be seeing you


I think it has more to do with you constantly pointing out what's wrong with people, or talking about stupid people, or what's wrong with new people such as in this post. Most people here seem to get along fine.

TxsGal3333's photo
Fri 05/29/09 11:33 AM

I bought a worm farm from CL....Are there worm farms for sale in here, as well?????




I bought my desk from there as well and found Mark's mom a dog on there hey it's not a bad site if your looking to find those sort of things.:thumbsup:

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Fri 05/29/09 11:33 AM
The year thing just means people are going to stay. If they were on another site, how are others supposed to know that? Osmosis? And for me, it took a good year until I felt I knew people well enough and they me. I said it was MY OPINION.

You can post on three hundred and forty two sites for fifteen years, but yes, you are a newbie to me in here. Sorry. Post number means, well, not so much. Game threads can bust those out.

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Fri 05/29/09 11:35 AM

does it seem like a lot of new members are turning this site into another CL? be seeing you



It happens from time to time. Although it is generally only a few people posting a lot of the "personal ad" type threads as opposed to a lot of people posting one or two.

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Fri 05/29/09 11:36 AM


:banana: i think Phuque and Phuque2 have very valid points. i think it all goes back to the clique mentality. If you are not part of "The Clique" you will never fit in here,no matter the number of posts you have. be seeing you


I think it has more to do with you constantly pointing out what's wrong with people, or talking about stupid people, or what's wrong with new people such as in this post. Most people here seem to get along fine.

:smile: flowers

lilith401's photo
Fri 05/29/09 11:37 AM


:banana: i think Phuque and Phuque2 have very valid points. i think it all goes back to the clique mentality. If you are not part of "The Clique" you will never fit in here,no matter the number of posts you have. be seeing you


I think it has more to do with you constantly pointing out what's wrong with people, or talking about stupid people, or what's wrong with new people such as in this post. Most people here seem to get along fine.


I do see a commonality in most of your threads where it is negative, Prisoner. You slam people a lot.

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Fri 05/29/09 11:37 AM
So, who wants to hook up with me? laugh

TxsGal3333's photo
Fri 05/29/09 11:37 AM

:banana: i think Phuque and Phuque2 have very valid points. i think it all goes back to the clique mentality. If you are not part of "The Clique" you will never fit in here,no matter the number of posts you have. be seeing you


Hummmmmmm could be true on any site as long as I have been here I've never chosen to only talk to a certain group of people and don't care too.

Myself I enjoy going from thread to thread and talking to many different types of people instead of just staying in one thread.

Like I said the new ones seem like a breath of fresh air with their new ways of thinking.

prisoner's photo
Fri 05/29/09 11:38 AM


:banana: i think Phuque and Phuque2 have very valid points. i think it all goes back to the clique mentality. If you are not part of "The Clique" you will never fit in here,no matter the number of posts you have. be seeing you



Who says most of us want to fit into Le' Clique? A clique, by loose definition, is a SMALL group of people who exclude others...

But...back to the OP...correct me if I'm wrong, Prisoner, but aren't you referring mainly to the ones blatantly asking for "hook-ups" in the Sex Forums?
:smile: exactly,i am refering to the "I'm hot and horny and will be in Cleveland for the next 2 days. hit me up" posts. shouldn't those be moderated more closely? be seeing you

Gossipmpm's photo
Fri 05/29/09 11:39 AM

So, who wants to hook up with me? laugh


You my lady

Are to much!!! LOLhappy laugh

TxsGal3333's photo
Fri 05/29/09 11:40 AM

So, who wants to hook up with me? laugh


Shshsh thought someone already had you hook line and sinker :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:

Eddiemma's photo
Fri 05/29/09 11:42 AM

New is to refreshing as old is to stale or new is to naive as old is to experienced either or does it really matter anyways.

I enjoy some of the topics and others, I could care less for. The ones I care less for I really do not have to read.

OP topic, doesn't everyone try to sell themselves to a certain extent on a dating site?


Good afternoon Aprilflowerforyou

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Fri 05/29/09 11:43 AM
Edited by Unknow on Fri 05/29/09 11:44 AM
Birds of a feather... There ARE cliques on this site. I noticed it from day one of my forays into the forums. No need to take offense to the statement. it is the way of the world and will not change.

The other thing that is the same everywhere is that some people do not like others. I will get the occasional e-mail asking me, "don't you think so and so is this or that?" I see certain members taking offense and every opportunity to bad mouth another member simply because they do not like him or her.

I do not say this idly since I observe many interactions out here. It seems some of us just look for an excuse to hand others their head whatever valid point the object of our contempt has.

prisoner's photo
Fri 05/29/09 11:43 AM


does it seem like a lot of new members are turning this site into another CL? be seeing you



It happens from time to time. Although it is generally only a few people posting a lot of the "personal ad" type threads as opposed to a lot of people posting one or two.
:smile: Mitch,i have noticed a lot of people posting "personal ad"type threads. be seeing you

Phuque2's photo
Fri 05/29/09 11:44 AM



:banana: i think Phuque and Phuque2 have very valid points. i think it all goes back to the clique mentality. If you are not part of "The Clique" you will never fit in here,no matter the number of posts you have. be seeing you


I think it has more to do with you constantly pointing out what's wrong with people, or talking about stupid people, or what's wrong with new people such as in this post. Most people here seem to get along fine.


I do see a commonality in most of your threads where it is negative, Prisoner. You slam people a lot.


If a person or two people find that a person has a common thread style, then don't post in the thread....issue solved. NO ONE makes a person post in a thread, some just can't help thenselves.

TxsGal3333's photo
Fri 05/29/09 11:44 AM



:banana: i think Phuque and Phuque2 have very valid points. i think it all goes back to the clique mentality. If you are not part of "The Clique" you will never fit in here,no matter the number of posts you have. be seeing you



Who says most of us want to fit into Le' Clique? A clique, by loose definition, is a SMALL group of people who exclude others...

But...back to the OP...correct me if I'm wrong, Prisoner, but aren't you referring mainly to the ones blatantly asking for "hook-ups" in the Sex Forums?
:smile: exactly,i am refering to the "I'm hot and horny and will be in Cleveland for the next 2 days. hit me up" posts. shouldn't those be moderated more closely? be seeing you


Actually you're right prisoner those type of threads are not appropriate. And if they are reported those type of threads are not being moderated closely we are actually deleting those type of threads with warnings sent out.

Those type of threads are no longer allowed. But......it all comes back to we rely on the members to report those type of threads so we can delete them. So if members do not report them they get left on the site for we do not always see them. bigsmile

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Fri 05/29/09 11:48 AM
Recently someone disliked a member so much that they actually wondered whether or not I was an alter ego for the member since I agreed with her/him on a hotly debated point.

That is some silly sh!t folks.

TxsGal3333's photo
Fri 05/29/09 11:48 AM
I will have to admit that it does amaze me how those three little words.....

Be seeing you.............

Actually gets on so many nerves I have seen it since prisoner first posted and have actually sat back and laughed at those that those words riled them up. whoa :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: