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the "mutual match" on mingle and there is no one new?
For example. Since I try to stay close to my location, I searched in a 50 miles radius and it gave back the same people like a few months ago, no new faces. The ones I liked wrote a mail for them, this would be about 15 people who are in my vicinity, I got 2 responses back, neither of them any encouraging but more like a "thanks, I wish you luck" and "ok, bye" and that's it. So basically, there is nobody to mail or to consider locally (within 50 miles) and I don't really want to have a long distance relationship. So now I'm down to a few options. 1. Exclude Mingle as a place to find someone and just talk on it 2 Get out of this area 3. Wait for a miracle and hope whoever signs up in the near future "might" like me? |
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Number 3
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Nah. I stopped messing with mutual match long ago when the ones I did get didn't respond to emails.
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Never used mutual match but i am pretty sure id have the same problem if i did.
Could you manage 100 miles? Its not all that far.. |
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Never used mutual match but i am pretty sure id have the same problem if i did. Could you manage 100 miles? Its not all that far.. I managed 3000 miles before for 4 years. I kinda had enough of it. |
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the "mutual match" on mingle and there is no one new? For example. Since I try to stay close to my location, I searched in a 50 miles radius and it gave back the same people like a few months ago, no new faces. The ones I liked wrote a mail for them, this would be about 15 people who are in my vicinity, I got 2 responses back, neither of them any encouraging but more like a "thanks, I wish you luck" and "ok, bye" and that's it. So basically, there is nobody to mail or to consider locally (within 50 miles) and I don't really want to have a long distance relationship. So now I'm down to a few options. 1. Exclude Mingle as a place to find someone and just talk on it 2 Get out of this area 3. Wait for a miracle and hope whoever signs up in the near future "might" like me? |
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Mail order bride?
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#3
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 I use Mutant Match
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you think you got a problem. i live in california and most everyone on mingle is in the east coast and theres hardly anyone out here on mingle No they are not...nobody here lol....they are all in Texas. Just count the posters who are from Texas and you will see! |
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i have the same damn problem ....45 matches but no one responds gets real old ...dont have the time to go out much so i depend on places like this but i feel like im pushin the envelope ...but i thought this is why people come oh well
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you think you got a problem. i live in california and most everyone on mingle is in the east coast and theres hardly anyone out here on mingle No they are not...nobody here lol....they are all in Texas. Just count the posters who are from Texas and you will see! Yep! that's right bro.Txs & IA are the vast majority.I've been here going on 3 yrs & I'm no further off.  I don't have any faith in LDR"S so that leaves me forum entertainment & writing.I wish U the best bro.Godspeed!Cy
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i've had some nice hits on there but ....like 34523452345 miles away
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you think you got a problem. i live in california and most everyone on mingle is in the east coast and theres hardly anyone out here on mingle  Not much out here on the east coast, either.
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Never used mutual match but i am pretty sure id have the same problem if i did. Could you manage 100 miles? Its not all that far.. I managed 3000 miles before for 4 years. I kinda had enough of it. Been there and done that myself(actually 10,000 miles!) and never again! Im currently a few hundred miles away from pink_lady and thats managable for us for now. But you can drive a hundred miles in a couple of hours, easily. I guess it all depends how much you wanna meet somebody. |
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Never used mutual match but i am pretty sure id have the same problem if i did. Could you manage 100 miles? Its not all that far.. I managed 3000 miles before for 4 years. I kinda had enough of it. Been there and done that myself(actually 10,000 miles!) and never again! Im currently a few hundred miles away from pink_lady and thats managable for us for now. But you can drive a hundred miles in a couple of hours, easily. I guess it all depends how much you wanna meet somebody. Yeah, 100 miles isn't that far, really. |
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Last time I looked it was trying to set me up with myself.
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Edited by
Atlantis75
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Tue 06/09/09 02:50 PM
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Never used mutual match but i am pretty sure id have the same problem if i did. Could you manage 100 miles? Its not all that far.. I managed 3000 miles before for 4 years. I kinda had enough of it. Been there and done that myself(actually 10,000 miles!) and never again! Im currently a few hundred miles away from pink_lady and thats managable for us for now. But you can drive a hundred miles in a couple of hours, easily. I guess it all depends how much you wanna meet somebody. Well, it's damned if I don't, damned if I do..I did talk to someone for a while , she lives about 200 miles away , but then it's her who doesn't want the relationship...so I've been there too. Last time I looked it was trying to set me up with myself. LOL....Think that's freaky or funny? I took myself out to a restaurant and went to see a movie afterward...then I held my own hand, went home took a shower and slept in my bed.
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If you're limiting yourself to 50 miles and coming up with nothing, you can either stay frustrated, or not worry so much about the miles. If you don't really care to meet anyone, then stay within those 50 miles, I guess.
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I've never even looked at it
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